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Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 7:05am On Sep 08, 2017 |
chronique: I also quit friendship due to similar reasons, may God help us 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by tosyne2much(m): 7:23am On Sep 08, 2017 |
Nedfed:This one weak me ooo 3 Likes
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Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by pocohantas(f): 7:41am On Sep 08, 2017 |
Sketch007: Down where?
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Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by tosyne2much(m): 7:41am On Sep 08, 2017 |
I just hope the OP will not miss it in the area of marriage So, you base your sole criteria for companionship on financial capabilities and nothing more ? Also, you said you don't want to go below the standard of how you were brought up? You mean the fried rice and chicken? Regular shopping? Living in an air conditioned furnished apartment? My sister, life does not really go the way we think, and I just hope it won't be too late before you understand this. Sometimes in life, we have to slightly bend our taste and standard before we can get what we want My dear, standard is not enough to make someone your husband. Marriage is not all about getting married to someone that meets your standard, and I challenge you to go and ask married people if they ended up marrying according to their standard. Don't choose a life partner out of temporary situation So forget about the fried rice your parents provide for you every morning. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Sketch007(m): 7:50am On Sep 08, 2017 |
pocohantas: Lol.. here jor . Reading your post settles well with me. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by SgtKisswhere: 8:13am On Sep 08, 2017 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=6020114 The only man that would treat you right is that man who loves and respects you. Direct your association to your target kind of men. If you are bringing something to the table, you are deserving of a partner who does same. Let no one guilt trip you!!! Our young men are getting 'smarter' too. Financial compatibility is important. [/color][/quote] you earned my respect for that post, totally unbiased nd true |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by peddyholly: 9:00am On Sep 08, 2017 |
missloluwa:Just a word, take your time miss!! |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by braxjay(m): 9:10am On Sep 08, 2017 |
missloluwa: be you! he'll come around |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nedfed(m): 9:13am On Sep 08, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Bro not only you |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Prettiepearlz(f): 10:52am On Sep 08, 2017 |
missloluwa:Don't mind these nairaland guys oooo, they don't always think twice before they attack ladies here, they're used to that patriarchal system. Please never ever settle for less. You said it yourself, it's not like you are bent on going with a wealthy guy but you want someone who is comfortable and also has a future. Everyone wants something good for themselves. Any guy that this looks painful to him should work hard. There is nothing wrong with you wanting a guy with good future and prospect even if he isn't dangote rich now. Nobody wants a liability abeg. There are guys who would love and respect you even when they have the financial capabilities. After all there are poor men who still treats their wives like shit. Babe nothing do you jare. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Nobody: 10:54am On Sep 08, 2017 |
hmmm |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Acidosis(m): 3:21pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
No, you don't have to settle for less. Marry a man you share similar economic traits with to avoid spousal and family frictions. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by 400billionman: 9:23am On Sep 09, 2017 |
missloluwa: Since you have a job, haven't you met a guy who also has a job to date him ? The question will now be who earns better. Me I no too believe in that potential of a thing. Potential lies in the job you already have, a skill that is already earning money, a growing business, a landed property and something tangible you have achieved. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by 400billionman: 9:42am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Nedfed: 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by GentleNaaz(m): 3:37am On Sep 10, 2017 |
it's not bad to have standards, but it shouldn't be absolute. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by engrelvis(m): 6:53am On Sep 10, 2017 |
@op.some telling lies here.do people dat v money talks? Is online dat u will get gud advice? I think u want to feel important . People just hide behind their computer n start writing nonsense . How many people here v met u one on one to ascertain who u really r? I join dis forum out of curiosity , thinking it was like those we experience in overseas but v come to realize dat alot of people here(on dis forum) r living fake lives.is only here we r so concern about class.from experience is people dat v nothing to offer or self centered dat talk like dis.where u nt born In USA ,go there n marry. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by tammie24: 5:55pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
missloluwa:my brother needs a wife Civil servant Not bad looking |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by NManonymous(m): 5:15am On Nov 28, 2017 |
Ajewealth123:people can claim to love you when they see that showing you love (fake) will keep the ship sailing. when he gets that money his attitude changes. "Everyman has a level of pride when he sees money in this pocket" |
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