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Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
supersystemsng: hahahha Psycho. just clap for yourself |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Is marriage really worth it Hahahaha 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Rhozabeth(m): 12:18pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
cummando:I like ur comment bro! |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Evaberry: I'm not a Psycho. On the contrary, i've always believed my mental and psychological health is important and don't allow myself get swayed easily... Now that you're bragging you will quit, are you in a relationship? If not any sexual activity before marriage is also cheating on your future husband i hope you know? 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
send her fiance the material a day to the wedding or a week after 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
The mentality of some here amazes me. Little wonder HIV is on the rise in Africa despite the awareness. Put simply hypocrisy and unintelligence. I am very sure your husband is n ot the only man that stupid whre is sleeping with. How can you be engaged to to promising guy nd still mess around. Save th next man from a promiscuous woman! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Dolittlez(m): 12:22pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
ifex370: I agree with this point. Save the innocent man. As for ur man, don't change ur behavior. Be good to him 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by deafeyez: 12:23pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Mindfulness: And pray not to meet a desperate enemy who will kill to safe her head. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:23pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
solasoulmusic: God Bless your wisdom yet again my lady... Funny enough God takes care of events before they happen..which is why He instituted forgiveness before the offense...Not to anticipate been cheated on, or to flout rules of engagements and go wayward, but we must with an open heart and a open spirit be willing to work with ourselves to build marriages that can stand against storms and not look for the slightest reasons to get angry and dissolve the marriage... There's this couple of ten years marital bliss i always refer to when speaking about marriage, one thing i've learnt about them is they talk alot, as in...Morning till night, they engage in over ten hours of communication daily..this implies that if cheating occurs or some of these problems, many times it is the aftermath of not " cleaving " well or glitches here and there and like i always say in life , if there's space or a gap, expect them to be tested... 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by samsam2019: 12:24pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
honestwife:abeg tell the guy about everything. You're actually doing good by giving him the chance to end the marriage plans with the stupid girl. Remember it could be your son tomorrow who would need such a helpfr another person. BTW, deal with your hubby the way you like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Jebosh(m): 12:25pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
It's difficult to forgive I know but to handle such thing,u have to settled first with ur man.Don't ever allow the lady fiance to know because it will caused more damages and also can affect ur own relationship in future. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by vicben27(m): 12:26pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Evaberry:young girl you can leave ur husband in the future if he cheat's on you it's ur life. stop giving stupid advice. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Myself2(m): 12:26pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
So just because you suspected your husband was cheating,you went ahead and cloned his phone You must be a yahoo yahoo wife,DAMN!!! Just hear yourself," I scanned his bar code,I did this and did that,blah blah blah,,,,,,,, those your actions are not borne out of love and respect.You cheated on your husband as well,,,,,if he had caught you tampering devilishly with his phone while forming Sherlock Holmes,tell me you would've been the proudest wife on earth that moment. Nonsense,rather than take actions based on love,respect and a sincere desire to keep your marriage such that the other hoe would not have landed in your house with pant and bra in the first place,also such that your husband would have realized his folly and stopped then,you go dey do nonsense,come here that write rubbish. Make we con go fry water abi ?? Abeg clear 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Rhozabeth(m): 12:27pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Madam, u have no business with the woman's fiance! What if u send the messages to her fiance and ur husband dumps her and pick up another girl, will you start looking for the other girl's fiancee too? This will give u a lot of heart ache! My advice to you is to look for ways to bring your husband back to you, your husband is an opportunistic cheater,if u two start living together again, the likelyhood that he will cheat again is slim! Good luck! I forgot to mention that hacking ur husband's phone is not cool am not trying to justify ur hubby's action though but u need to desist from such act or u will just give urself more heartaches! |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by giftedben: 12:27pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
She is about to get married and She did this without thinking. Wonderful!! please op I take God beg you, send this stuffs to her fiance, save a guy a future broken home. As for your husband, the man no try all, no respect for his woman, If he must cheat, must he cheat at home. I don't think your home would be the same again. If you decide to stay with him. Please and please save money for yourself and secure the future of your kids. 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:27pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
supersystemsng: Yes exactly and thank you forgiveness is key but repentance is Gold |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by fatymore(f): 12:27pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
You people keep saying karma is a bitch.. Is this her own karma... Forgive your husband and move on... But you still need to treat the side chic lessons.. 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:29pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
honestwife: Now that you have seen what you are looking for, what is your plan. Cry and stay OR cry and leave |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Rhozabeth(m): 12:29pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
giftedben:Pls read the story well b4 u comment! |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by dadabashua1(m): 12:30pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
nursennenny:sister am exactly your male version, I hate cheats with passion...not bragging I once told a friend I don't know what is like to cheat...but trust me there are alot of guys like that..due to my nature I find it impossible to find a girl that can be 100% faithful... I know is possible but its extremely difficult tbh..once u cheat on my for once...I CANT ever trust u again so it better I just leave...but as for the case of married people I know its more complicated considering the fact that they already have kids also.. 5 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Kokaine(m): 12:31pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
if her man breaks up wid her, then your husband is all she gaf left. this time around, she wont loose guard till shes preggy |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:32pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
solasoulmusic: Without a heart-rendering repentance, forgiveness must never be mentioned...Anyway this is a generation where forgiveness has become petty. Actions becomes rhetoric and we keep crying for forgiveness over and over because the capacitance to will and to do has become heavily discounted. Anyways, to Him that gives the power to will and perform, may He grants us the wisdom to build our marriages as we see fit individually.. To people who are hasty to say dissolve the marriage, marriages are instituted ordained and blessed by God, and can not or rather should not be dissolved by one party...Pity, people have a flawed/misrepresented view about marriage and its the underlying cause for crisis in many marriages...That shy guy can become bold, that theif can become repentant and become a better man, we were once not qualified but became qualified...The over-fixation on becoming flawless has become a problem God help us... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Rhozabeth(m): 12:32pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
fatymore:If she teaches this side chic a lesson, what of the next side chic and the next onr aftet that? All i think she should do right now is to try to bring her husband back on track cos the guy has derailed already! 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by birdsview(m): 12:34pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
White handed nkor Make we hear word abegi 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by fatymore(f): 12:35pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Rhozabeth:Ok oooo.. Na beating sure pass |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:35pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:36pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Rhozabeth:Yes, she will bring the husband back but that doesn't mean the lesson shouldn't be taught. She never said she won't bring her husband back |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by birdsview(m): 12:36pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
See how u carry your hand find wahala Wasn't he treating u nice despite it all?? Yeye |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Tecno66: 12:37pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
My take is this. Take it easy. Almost all men are freaks. If you think there is a perfect man out there, its a lie. Try manage the situation calmly. Handling the situation angrily may take the matter out of control and you could regret your action. Pray to God about and check to see if there is something you are not doing right. Maybe you could also relocate since you said both of you are staying in different towns. honestwife: 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by tfelicityk(m): 12:37pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Well, leave the lady out of it. Let her nurture her life herself. She had begged you forgiveness. You are lucky she didn't fight back. Forgive and Forget. Go and amend your HOME. That is your primary assignment. It is not an easy thing for couples to live apart. There's always room for temptation. It take the Grace of God to overcome it. Even when couple lives together. If the husband/wife want to cheat. He/she will still cheat. May God helps us all. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:37pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
supersystemsng: You never quit because of a challenge you press on cases of infidelity and how their handled say a lot about the strength of a couple and the bond they share. A revelation is heart breaking albeit but setting yourself up for it is double the trouble. People who grew up in a polygamous environment are prone to cheat and say nothing it's you as a woman that know how you will handle it screaming at the top of your lungs or like Jackie Kennedy poised and focused on a good foundation for the kids 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 12:40pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Mindfulness: That's a classic case of treating the symptoms but not the disease 1 Like |
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