For the longest time, I couldn’t tell the difference between “I love you” and “I’m in love with you”. To me, they were synonymous. At some point, they even became mutually exclusive; one being unable to exist without the other but being able to stand on its own once birthed. And for a while, I was convinced I had it all figured out. I thought being ‘in love’ was the encompassing of the emotion you felt and only you can feel; your 2am and 3pm thoughts of this person that had you believing in happy ever after, how (s)he made you feel…complete.

While ‘loving’ was the proof of being in love, the actions you took to show that you’re in love, the things you do out of love. But as I grew up, I realized that there was a difference. I don’t know how I knew, maybe it was the sense of injustice in me at the fact that I’d say “I love you” to a random superman that saves my iPhone from making acquaintance with the floor as I trip and still utter the same three words to the girl of my dreams that made me desperate to believe that I had it wrong and I knew if I ever was going to have my own happily ever after, I had to find the true meaning behind those two phrases.

Fast-forward 4 girlfriends, 2 flings in 6 years, I knew a couple of things for certain; a lot of people thought like a younger version of me, that being in love and loving were synonymous but I you can’t blame them. The line that separates the...

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Nice one Op
Being in love with someone and just saying I love you .. two different things
In love is what counts..

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Semantics

You can love someone and not be in love with them.

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Saw your blog sometime ago and I thought it was owned by a female. is it?

Beautiful piece!!!

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Saw your blog sometime ago and I thought it was owned by a female. is it?

No No It is not. It is just a platform for good writers to share their opinion without fear of judgement.

rali123:
Beautiful piece!!!

Thank you very much. You can visit thenakedconvos.com for similarly beautiful posts. Thank you once again

Sabrina18:
You can love someone and not be in love with them.

Very true. They are quite different but people dont realise it

Lalas247:
Nice one Op
Being in love with someone and just saying I love you .. two different things
In love is what counts..

Very true. Kindly visit thenakedconvos.com for beautiful pieces, you can also write on it

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I love you = To anyone you have a deep care an affection towards someone

I'm in love with you = Usually a momentary sentiment of fascination/infatuation and lust

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