kimbraa:
It's all about preference. There are Nigerian ladies who still prefer flowers over some Iphones. Secondly, I thought he's a relationship expert and for that was meant to know that flowers/postcards don't sell in our clime.

shinarlaura:


Exactly

kimbraa:
It's all about preference. There are Nigerian ladies who still prefer flowers over some Iphones. Secondly, I thought he's a relationship expert and for that was meant to know that flowers/postcards don't sell in our clime.

kennygee:
I scored 5 over 6!

Flowers will wither and die but my belly will be full.

I hate IPhones

I cherish cards, I have all the cards I've ever gotten in my life.

I love getaways

I love some peace and quiet, I'll pick a picnic over the noise and meaningless chatter in a club.

Mrwealth933:

You must be from Nicaragua ��

kimbraa:
People are romantic in different ways.

I'm kind of disappointed in him sha.

falconey:
4 .A beautiful Painting of yourself Vs a Designer Bag or Shoe



5 .iPhone Vs Candle light dinner with violin or piano serenade.. which would you choose ?



They will definitely choose iPhone and designer bag or shoe,AWON OLOSHO GBOGBO!!!!!!

falconey:



Preference? it's romance not shopping. Besides he's funding the gesture, why can't you let it come from his heart to express his love?

elfmann:

Which other non-financial ways?

RaggedyAnn:


which would you choose?

celebsnestblawg:

Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin has published a new article that talks about how Nigerian Ladies have killed romance.

According to Joro, we are in the era where the show of money equals to romance.

Read what he wrote below;

“What am I doing with a flower? Can I eat it or plant it ?” Some Nigerian ladies have killed Romance; this has led to fewer Relationships, lack of self-worth, increase in one night stands and body counts. – Joro Olumofin

Romance is very key in relationships, a proper romantic gesture from the Heart shows how a man or woman Truly feels about his significant other. In Nigeria today, because of the economy, misinformation, backward mentality in both men and women Romance is meant to be a show of Money. No money , No Romance.

Ladies be honest with yourselves in answering. let’s do a quick survey.

1?? Flowers VS Pizza & Cold stone. Which would you choose ?

2?? 4 Birthday Romantic cards VS N4,000 recharge cards.. which would you choose ?

3??Picnic in Alausa Park with sandwiches &juice VS Drinks at Quilox / Sip with small chops.. which would you choose ?

4?? iPhone Vs Candle light dinner with violin or piano serenade.. which would you choose ?

5?? N200, 000 Vs A trip to Obudu cattle ranch.

6?? A beautiful Painting of yourself Vs a Designer Bag or Shoe

If you scored less than 4 / 6 in this survey, I’m sorry you’re materialistic and romantic gestures are secondary to you which is a major problem.

Nigerian ladies are guilty of this because of peer pressures and competition, a young man wrote me last week to complain that his girlfriend asked him for a new phone, he asked her if her phone was bad she said why are you asking me questions my daddy will ask me? Just be “romantic” and buy the phone.

Ladies if your phone is not faulty why embark on a race to buy a new one in the process reducing your Wife material and diminishing your Persona.

It’s so sad that romance is dead in our generation. Flowers and cards don’t mean anything anymore. Love is now synonymous with Money, Food, and Bags.

A proper romantic gesture will follow you for life while a material gesture will fade in time. Ladies please start receiving and demanding for flowers again.


See more at >> https://www.celebsnest.com.ng/nigerian-ladies-killed-romance-relationship-expert-joro-olumofin/

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kimbraa:
I for one don't have a problem with how a man choose to express his love but in a situation where an open check is given, let your spouse's choice be the basis you would act on. If she chooses shopping over an all expenses paid trip then it's her choice and perhaps love language. What matters most is that both parties are pleased with each other.

Romance isn't shopping 'cause I could categorically state that those of you who're lacking financially are of the opinion that romance/relationship is equivalent to shopping. When you find someone you love and such feeling is reciprocated, you may or maynot spend. It depends.

TINALETC3:
Guys ar 2 blame sometimes, I hv met a guy who after chasing me for months later sed even if I dnt like hm, I shud at least like his money and gifts, If I decide to follow hm, of course, I wud prefer iPhone 20 to flowers

falconey:





When next you are replying, don't use "you" to validate your premise unless of course you are dissing the opposition. You know no one financial status here, If you're as smart as I thought, you would know People aren't what they portray online.

kimbraa:
The flower you intend giving, won't you spend money in purchasing that?.

Adaumunocha:
Issue of Biafra and recession and we are talkin about romance?

Adaumunocha:
Issue of Biafra and recession and we are talkin about romance?

kimbraa:
I used myself 'cause I'm a girl, and know there are girls who think as I do or better. You have a problem with that?, I used that to buttress my point. Secondly, I know the personalities we banter words with aren't what they really portray offline, and indeed, people who're financially unstable complain too much over things that're irrelevant.

How would you have a relationship you're preaching "Love" and you can't spend on your spouse?.