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Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:03am On Nov 13, 2017 |
teemy:She shouldn't even bother talking sef. Ignore him and start keeping late nights too. No need for long talk 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:05am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:Hahahahaha spotter of mature minds |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Yewandequeen(f): 9:05am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:Well said. Preparation is the key and prayers. Marriages ain't all rosy, it get stormy sometimes and how the storm is dealt with is the strength of the marriage. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by newslifeop: 9:05am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 9:05am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Safiaa: I once created a thread addressing this. A lady is free to make her choice whether to cheat or not and if caught,the man can decide whether to let go or forgive ..it's very balanced. However I always tell ladies who care to listen that we live in an unjust and cruel world of men where ladies are expected to be more sexual decent than guys and any lady who still juxtapose a man and woman in terms of sexual decency will only be fooling herself but as I wrote,it's totally up to her. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:07am On Nov 13, 2017 |
gbagagbogo:So women are the heads of the families after all. I mean since the success of the home is majorly in our hands 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius:yea, I agree. Healthy rship. Tell this to op too. Let him focus on healthy rship. and stop this his crusade on how " women should be smiling when their husbands are cheating". 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Safiaa(f): 9:12am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:No, the question was specifically directed at you. I want to know what exactly you would do in this situation. Your wife simply got tired of the sex life at home, and decided to creep out, just to explore. You find out she's been sleeping with another man for some time. Do you keep calm and provide condom usage for her as you don't want problems? After all, it's very balanced, and this is what you're preaching. Please let me knw. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:13am On Nov 13, 2017 |
My dear ladies, there is only one thing to do to ensure marital peace. GET A SIDE DUDE. Then nothing your husband does will worry you. Whether he's cheating or not, not your concern after all you'll be getting good loving on the side 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 9:13am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Joy1706: Of course women are the unofficial head and the success of her marriage is more hinged on her. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 9:15am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Joy1706: I hear you but at least wait for him to cheat on you first before you decide to make yourself available as intimacy gadget for another guy. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Joy1706: Exactly, just marry for financial purpose, children, or status and seek for companionship and love elsewhere 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 9:18am On Nov 13, 2017 |
winnar: I have several threads on that too and they have made fpage but I believe guiding against armed borrow is equally as important as preaching against it. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: bullshit. two cannot walk together unless they agree 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 13, 2017 |
winnar: Lol. I can relate. I don't do gender wars anymore Wish you the best the week can offer my dear 1 Like |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:19am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: I said this to you earlier,and i'mma repeat it again. A lady came to my domain recently, and i looked at her and i chuckled. She's been married ten years now. Not asingle day of her been beating or the assualtsother ladies get, guess what, including myself, and at least ten folks, we are felt it was a no-brainer. They both had just 40-45% compatibility. She and her husband are constantly around me so i'm privy to inner details in her relationship to some extent. Guess what makes the relationship still up-standing till today? The point you raised in number nine. Forgive, tohave a good marriage, compatibility or notcompatibility, forgiveness ranks higher, and for hearts that holds plenty of it, along side with patience, nothing can rock such a boat, becase it's not built on the pedestal of i can't be wrong, but rather, i'm willing tolet go, look away, turn the side, turn a new leaf, start afresh, press on, continue, challenge, turn the other direction, tweak it a bit, make moderations, in order to achieve an expected objective, which is a successful marriage ! The opposite of such forgiveness is self centerdness, self preservation, self love, self obsession, self ideologies all in the bid to psychologically have the upper hand at such times, whereas in marriage both parties shoul be intertwined and become a single being. May God give us wisdom, a heart that understands, a mind that takes heed, and a heart that is flooded with the light of the truth. When the heart is flooded with the truth, it swallows up lies, soif seeds of lies germinates in our hearts, its because we have vile in our heart and all the requirements for it to flourish, the battle is half won in our hears. We should read books like Battle field of the mind by JoyceMeyer |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:20am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: 100% Spot on @ Of course women are the unofficial head and the success of her marriage is more hinged on her.... The success of the marriage hinges on the woman, the Woman and the God factor, we males control just a smaller figure |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 9:22am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Safiaa: It happened to me and I gave her a second chance but unfortunately I had to terminate the whole thing when I realized she was still unstable... Why should I leave a lady I have invested time with cos she strayed? but if she is unrepentant and still arrogant then she has no business in my life again. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:23am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Joy1706:Hahahahahaha. funny you. But, on a second thought, Do you know if we have like a wrtten agreement attached to that marriage cert.., That if a man cheats on his wife.., that the wife is entitled to cheat back. Believe me, all this men will respect their vows sharply. I have realised that serving people a dose of their medcine puts them back in their right senses. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:25am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius: The success of an unhealthy relationship/marriage where the wife is the doormat is more hinged on the woman and it depends on how much bullshit she can take. there I fixed it. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:26am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:Honey, nowadays women cheat just as much as men. So maybe you should also prepare the minds of our men towards the possibility that their wives may cheat on them. Before they die out of shock when it happens o 1 Like |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:28am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Joy1706: Na wa O! May God forgive you. As a woman having this mindset is a curse. You're a cheat waiting to happen if it hasn't. May God forgive you |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by alexis007(m): 9:28am On Nov 13, 2017 |
winnar:You have not met many men. There are many out there who can't cheat, even if a Delilah spreads her legs and beckon on them to come and get a taste. Let me make it simpler: People who cheat have psychological problem. They are not okay, to say the least. How can a normal human being crave for chicken that he saw outside when he has a pot of chicken at home waiting to be devoured? Like one would still eat illegally what he can eat at home legally and with peace of mind? Thank God for the home where I come from. When we were younger, Every Christmas, our parents gets us more than enough to eat and drink. If you can handle one full chicken alone, it's your call. If you can drink twenty cans of booze alone, do it. Sometimes I used to think they were being wasteful till one day my mama explained things to me. She told me that the reason behind this stuff I thought as wastage of resources was because she wanted to use it to check on the normal gluttony and discontent associated with children. At least after getting bored of eating meat and drinking booze, we won't be moved if we see someone "enjoying" himself on the same items outside. And it worked. Even till now, we don't beg for things. We don't covet. We are just content with what we have. If we land something better, that's fine. If not, no problem...We are still okay. And this mentality stretched out to my dealings in a sexual relationship. I don't cheat. It's weird to me. I'm very content with one girl, so far as I'm serious with her.... ....And there are many more like me out there. Free your mind dear 1 Like |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:29am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: The moment a woman is a doormat she isn't a wife, but a slave, stop quoting me when you don't understand my dogmas aunty |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:31am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:No it means we're the official heads. You can't be head in name only without the attendant responsibilities 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:32am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius: Your dogma is trash. a successful marriage is not more hinged on the woman. It takes two to tango. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:33am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:But you said he will cheat na. No need waiting. It's best I prepare well in advance. And it's my side guy that will be my intimacy gadget. 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 13, 2017 |
alexis007: God Bless you, all points agreed with Just to add that satiety and discontentment are far more psychological than otherwise,these conditions are what forms the basis of cheating. What's the panacea, control ! Scripturally, we call it, a contented heart. Na wetin dey outside dey inside, so people should cultivate their relationships and quit the bickering ! All the noise from all these gender wars is sickening. If only people would get some understanding, understanding makes it easy, because the opposite is when both the husband and wife begin to set up war machinery in their hearts " in preparation against ", the moment a person develops an incase he/she does it mindset, it makes me ponder ! |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: You will understand my dear when the time comes ! |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Joy1706(f): 9:35am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga:Gbam! This is just what I advice my girls |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:37am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Jesus Christ @ Exactly, just marry for financial purpose, children, or status and seek for companionship and love elsewhere Then such notion reflects a mental condition " not the other individual problem" |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 9:40am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius: I used to think like you, until I had my epiphany and there is no going back. |
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