Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,176,481 members, 7,897,996 topics. Date: Tuesday, 23 July 2024 at 04:01 AM

My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage - Family (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage (60615 Views)

My Wife Hates Sex And Prefers I Masturbate / Sex After Child Birth / Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Proudlyblack(f): 10:17pm On Sep 24, 2017
Op I will advise you both to visit a marriage counselor


Lalasticlala please can you move this thread to family section so that op can get reasonable advice?

5 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by victovrry(m): 10:18pm On Sep 24, 2017
TINALETC3:
Am nt a fan of porn bt since d case is already a serious one, see if u cn introduce it and see her reaction, if it doesn't work, den take her to sumone she respects so much dat cn talk to her, let d person Tel her d dangers of loosing her husband to side chicks(jst 2 put fear in her). Atleast, even she doesn't wnt, she cn stl do it 4 ur sake na

She hate me watching porn, I have took her to our church pastor and I know how much she respect him, she promised to change but my sister na still same thing. Thinking if this is a spiritual trick to make me commit adultery

1 Like

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Stevebamdex(m): 10:22pm On Sep 24, 2017
Evaberry:
I hope you were not one of those that were shouting no to premarital sex if you were among the no premarital sex crew carry your cross yourself!!



but I will advice you rape her tho whenever you want sex. it's legal to rape ones wife.
He should rape his wife?
I don't think your brain is in good working condition..or have you exhausted all your sense mb?

13 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Rukkydelta(f): 10:23pm On Sep 24, 2017
Stevebamdex:

He should rape his wife?
I don't think your brain is in good working condition..or have you exhausted all your sense mb?
[i][/i]
And it's so unfortunate that the poster that said that is a female
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by victovrry(m): 10:24pm On Sep 24, 2017
Divay22:

Don't you think she's worried.
Because if you're doing all this you just mentioned and she still doesn't feel anything, it could be something is bothering her..

You are getting me now, though she's not working but she never lack anything, I credit her account each month with a reasonable amount, even playing recharge cards game with her on WhatsApp, like removing a number and ask her funny question... Just to make things romantic. I guess this is a weapon of devil. I won't commit adulatory

27 Likes 3 Shares

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Divay22(f): 10:26pm On Sep 24, 2017
Rukkydelta:
[i][/i]
And it's so unfortunate that the poster that said that is a female
Nah... He's a guy posing as a girl.

3 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by anthony533(m): 10:26pm On Sep 24, 2017
Evaberry:
I hope you were not one of those that were shouting no to premarital sex if you were among the no premarital sex crew carry your cross yourself!!



but I will advice you rape her tho whenever you want sex. it's legal to rape ones wife.
Are you related to NwAmaikpe. undecided

5 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Rukkydelta(f): 10:31pm On Sep 24, 2017
Divay22:

Nah... He's a guy posing as a girl.
I guess you are right
Cos most of his/her posts are always off and he/she often say things to spite Ladies

4 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Stevebamdex(m): 10:32pm On Sep 24, 2017
Rukkydelta:
[i][/i]
And it's so unfortunate that the poster that said that is a female
I can't really blame her. she might be on heat and sometimes,it's always difficult to think reasonably while on heat.
I believe she will be fine after this grin.

1 Like

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Divay22(f): 10:32pm On Sep 24, 2017
victovrry:


You are getting me now, though she's not working but she never lack anything, I credit her account each month with a reasonable amount, even playing recharge cards game with her on WhatsApp, like removing a number and ask her funny question... Just to make things romantic. I guess this is a weapon of devil. I won't commit adulatory
Like someone rightly said
I think it's time the both of you see a marriage counselor..
And i hope and pray it will be resolve.

1 Like

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by dreamworld: 10:47pm On Sep 24, 2017
victovrry:
My wife is a good and I can call her a virtuous woman but she won't give me sex when needed, though we have male and female kids ...please what can I do again? Tried all I have read online and even attends seminals together just to make her change but she did not. Please I'm not saying this to paint her black but that is only one aspect I wish she could change.

Advise please !!!
Someone is shining her congo

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by deltateam: 1:28pm On Sep 25, 2017
tosyne2much:
Men of nowadays sha... Must you have sex with your wife? After two children why still disturbing the woman for sex? undecided



















Abeg na joke I dey joke ooo cheesy

Tosyn2much baba wadup? I was like was it you?
But seriously some women think that sex is only for procreation so once they have given you some kids they lock their legs.

1 Like

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 1:42pm On Sep 25, 2017
deltateam:


Tosyn2much baba wadup? I was like was it you?
But seriously some women think that sex is only for procreation so once they have given you some kids they lock their legs.
I gentle oga mi


That one na big problem ooo because she go push the man go outside be that.. Imagine say you marry woman wey do you that kind thing cheesy
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by nnamene55(m): 1:48pm On Sep 25, 2017
Help I always get banned on nairaland. What is my fault?

1 Like

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 1:49pm On Sep 25, 2017
Evaberry:
I hope you were not one of those that were shouting no to premarital sex if you were among the no premarital sex crew carry your cross yourself!!



but I will advice you rape her tho whenever you want sex. it's legal to rape ones wife.

2 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by dayus12(f): 1:51pm On Sep 25, 2017
Evaberry:
I hope you were not one of those that were shouting no to premarital sex if you were among the no premarital sex crew carry your cross yourself!!



but I will advice you rape her tho whenever you want sex. it's legal to rape ones wife.

Why will you say rape is legal in marriage? You must be very insane and ignorant to think that way... Do you know the effect of rape?

You are just very wicked....There are other reasonable way of solving the problem that the thrash you just altered...

4 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Abduletudaye(m): 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Get a side chick.
Life too short for this kyn stress...
'cause you can be rest assured that she is getting her needs met elsewhere.
It's either that or she was an undercover_lesbian who married you just to save face.
And I don't think any of those options are desirable.
It seems every other aspect of your marriage is working well, so why try to ruin it?
Get a side bish with or without her permission. Wife satisfies your emotional needs, the hoe meets your sexual needs.. It's not adultery, it's called compartmentalization and delegation of duties.

This is deep undecided
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by tolexy123: 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2017
Go to the lord in prayer

1 Like

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by tolexy123: 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2017
Go to the lord in prayer grin
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by einsteino(m): 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2017
victovrry:


Yes I'm satisfying whenever she want it, I'm a romantic guy cinfirmed, I have talked this over and over, if I get the Spanish fly I will appreciate. We did white wedding and having a side chick is not an option

spanish fly for your wife? na your wife o .. You need to rethink this o
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by sidneyeze: 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2017
Chaii- maybe the Man is as Rough as Enugu- portharcort Express way
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by riyanxeally(f): 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2017
ure very daft
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Gotze1: 1:53pm On Sep 25, 2017
victovrry:
My wife is a good and I can call her a virtuous woman but she won't give me sex when needed, though we have male and female kids ...please what can I do again? Tried all I have read online and even attends seminals together just to make her change but she did not. Please I'm not saying this to paint her black but that is only one aspect I wish she could change.

Advise please !!!
Carry a side chick to the house and do it in her presence without thinking of how she will feel. I bet it, her sense will come back.
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by alphaconde(m): 1:54pm On Sep 25, 2017
theres always a bad side of every good thing, deal with urs, my own wife bleeps alot but very lazy upstairs, i am dealing with it

8 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 1:54pm On Sep 25, 2017
Childish talk, how is that a solution to his problem.
IamLEGEND1:
Get a side chick.
Life too short for this kyn stress...
'cause you can be rest assured that she is getting her needs met elsewhere.
It's either that or she was an undercover_lesbian who married you just to save face.
And I don't think any of those options are desirable.
It seems every other aspect of your marriage is working well, so why try to ruin it?
Get a side bish with or without her permission. Wife satisfies your emotional needs, the hoe meets your sexual needs.. It's not adultery, it's called compartmentalization and delegation of duties.

5 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by hopilo: 1:55pm On Sep 25, 2017
She could be a lesbian ooo. Doing only chicks and marrying for children production only.

3 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Gotze1: 1:56pm On Sep 25, 2017
riyanxeally:
ure very daft
You are very stupid. Is that your own opinion to what he asked for? Stupid ugly mofo.

1 Like

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by thesuave10(m): 1:56pm On Sep 25, 2017
Em.. Find a side chic OP
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 25, 2017
riyanxeally:
ure very daft
how ?explain!
Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by morbeta(m): 1:58pm On Sep 25, 2017
It's either you have a chronic mouth odour oozing chronically during sex, a micro manhood or she has a spiritual husband with propeller third leg.

2 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by riyanxeally(f): 1:58pm On Sep 25, 2017
m no man but I know it aint easy wat ure going thru brings us bck to d question did u thoroughly understand dis lady bfre getting marriedwomen yes tend to change alot after marriage get tired easily as there's alot to do concentrate on the children n more....some even find it painful.....sex on its own...do try finding out more from here try litting things up....make her ur galfriend again....gifts...sizzling romance teasing...n lots more marriage is fr better fr worse its trying times like this that determine who u really are....try out all these frst...the wrst case scenario tell her u may ve to leave the marriage or get another wife.....n hear her response.....fr those telling u to cheat wt another woman thy re simply daft as thats not possible.....one makes u happy or doesn't...

3 Likes

Re: My Wife Is A Good Woman But Hates Sex After Marriage by dayus12(f): 1:58pm On Sep 25, 2017
I think you two need to sit and seriously talk about it. For women most times, sex can be a mind set thing (it doesn't come that easy when there are stuffs in mind) ...Let her see the reason she shouldn't deprive you of it and also ask her the problem she have with having sex. It could be that it's painful or she misplace her priorities by placing caring for kids and house chores et.c above the 'husband main need'....Just please discuss in love, hope and pray for changes....You can also see a trusted counselor so they can talk real sense to her brain...

3 Likes 1 Share

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply)

Nigerian Man Who Has 97 Wives: God Gives Me Power To Satisfy Them Sexually(Pics) / Why Do Most Wives Deny Their Husbands Sex? They Need To CHANGE! / Public Notice By Housewife Who Hasn't Cheated On Her Husband For 29 Years

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 39
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.