Effiezynews:
Hello all,
So, I am doing this because I am an introvert. I am not looking for a sex mate, neither am I looking for a maga..I need male friends in Abuja...Ritualists and the likes, don't even bother..Sex starved peeps and pimps, look elsewhere..
I just need a few cool friends I can maybe go to events with ,see movies with and just relax..Age 30 and above, preferably!
Thanks in anticipation!

Effiezynews:

How do you want me to send the pictures to you? When and where did I act high and mighty? Over sabi sabi Oga..

Effiezynews:

Obviously, you don't fit! So swerve! How did I wrong you? If I had mentioned that I need a "sex mate", you guys would call me " Hoe,shovel, axe", if I ask for a rich guy ,"you would call me gold and diamond digger", I simply said male friends I can hang out with and I don't think that's too much to ask for..If you aren't comfortable with me, there are over 1.8 million other accounts on nairaland, go comment creep them.. please, don't drag me..Thanks and God bless.

IamLEGEND1:
Send me your pictures? Why?
Please, Save that shit_for those who want them. I'm not interested.
Hoe & gold digger?
What does that have to do with anything? You're straying too far away from the point of your own thread. And yes, I don't meet your criteria because I'm not 30 yet- thank God ....even if I was, I certainly wouldn't want to meet you.
Simply open a thread, specify your region of residence and state the age bracket of guys you want to hang out with. Anyone interested will contact you and you can decide for yourself if he is not your cup of tea.
Not creating a thread and listing criteria right off the bat like it's some kind of job application.
You're not doing anyone a favour by going out with him.

DeeTus:
Exactly. She just wants to milk someone here. I know her type.

IamLEGEND1:
Send me your pictures? Why?
Please, Save that shit_for those who want them. I'm not interested.
Hoe & gold digger?
What does that have to do with anything? You're straying too far away from the point of your own thread. And yes, I don't meet your criteria because I'm not 30 yet- thank God ....even if I was, I certainly wouldn't want to meet you.
Simply open a thread, specify your region of residence and state the age bracket of guys you want to hang out with. Anyone interested will contact you and you can decide for yourself if he is not your cup of tea.
Not creating a thread and listing criteria right off the bat like it's some kind of job application.
You're not doing anyone a favour by going out with him.

Effiezynews:


I understand you have insecurity problems, all your threads are centered on women doing this and that..I won't take offence to what you just said, you don't know me, how can you judge me? Anyway, thank you for your opinion...

Effiezynews:

I don't know why you are getting worked up over this..Please, I didn't beg you to meet me..Why the annoyance and bitterness? I am taking my time to reply to most of the mentions..What did I do to you? My doctor and therapist said, "you need to go out often and mingle a lot".. What is wrong in me trying to be careful? You have been on my tail because I tried to be security conscious..Why?
If it makes you happy, I will cancel my post BUT I will reply 1-3 of the PMs I have gotten so that at least one person knows I am real and very simple.. Have a peaceful night rest..

DeeTus:
I have insecurity problems? LOL, I pity you because you are not up to the girls who talk to me. You need to understand that not every guy is a wussy. And for this question, who are you? You see I don't like foolish women and you've demonstrated how crazy you are. Next time, you should know that not every guy you can milk.

Effiezynews:



How dare you call me names? Milk? For what? Did I ask anybody for money here? Not every girl is out there to eat a man's money.. I may not be rich but God knows I work hard for my own..I struggle and hustle daily for my own because I don't want insults from anybody..I won't tolerate you disrespecting me...It is unfair that you tag me badly..
I have PMs from some peeps already and no,I won't milk them, neither will anybody be taken advantage of(By God's Grace)... This is 2017, women are rising daily..Best believe that, cishet!

IamLEGEND1:
Wishing me a peaceful night's rest.... Don't patronize me, brah. And if I was bitter about anything, trust me, you'd know.

Your therapist? First red flag...... Why the fuck_do you have a therapist? You may or may not be a sociopath & you're the one being security conscious?
We should be the one scrutinizing you to be sure you won't slit someone's throat in a dark corner. Reply them PMs and do your thing, i'm not here to stop you from doing whatever it is you're doing. I was just pointing out the warped logic in your presentation.
You'll Delete your thread because I said some things that rubbed you the wrong way? And if it'll make me happy? LMAO! are you here because of me or for yourself? Like I said, do your thing because when all is said and done, I don't really care.

DeeTus:
Okay. Now, promise me you won't milk anyone here because if You do, I will reveal your info publicly.

Effiezynews:


You want my full names, phone numbers, and stuff so that you can grab me by the jugular? You'd get them.. I won't indulge you further..Goodnight..

DeeTus:
Okay. Now, promise me you won't milk anyone here because if you do, I will reveal your info publicly.

Most of you would say you want a nice guy but at the end of the day, you still behave like a typical Nigerian woman. Lying in order to get money and other material things.

Effiezynews:



I never said I wanted a boyfriend! I said "I want male friends"... I am a typical Nigerian woman..Very proud to be a Nigerian woman..You said I am not up to the standard of girls that talk to you,dear sir..Kindly let me settle for those that think I am on their level.. Sleep well..

Effiezynews:

I have a therapist,yes, because it is common knowledge that some introverts slip into depression at one time or their lives or the other..I am not ashamed to ask for friends and specify what I want..If you are upset or annoyed with me, fine..I dared you to let you send me my pictures, since you said you wanted to evaluate me..I can also send you my simple profile( just starting life).. IYou are hating on me for no reason.. Did you take your time to read where I wrote "we would meet at a very,very busy area"?I took my time to reply each and every call out so that those viewing this thread wouldn't feel I chickened out because of the "heat".. I won't indulge you anymore..Judge me if you wish, no problems.