lol

Its so amazing that the ladies here on NL are not rushing to condemn the boss here as they would have done had the boss in question been male. Double standard!!!
Give me a break on nonsensical complaints of male sexual harassments. Female bosses are also as guilty as their male counterparts, period

@poster: Is your boss hawt?

if i was u,i would

1]go on a serious date with her with no walls up(women cant keep a thing,she would definitely tell you what killed her husband)

2]change the dynamics of the relationship by telling her you've always wanted her even b4 her maiden advance and destroy her pride
by telling her her threat lowered her share price which you had ajudged as premium

3]tell her to win ur heart if she is woman enough and that u dont see her as a prostitute so why would you sleep with her without sending her

4]grow some balls,and start calling her by her first name and treat her like a contemporary

5]the battle is always fought and won in the mind,destroy her ego and she will either leave u or start stalking you

kushe:

if i was u,i would

1]go on a serious date with her with no walls up(women cant keep a thing,she would definitely tell you what killed her husband)

2]change the dynamics of the relationship by telling her you've always wanted her even b4 her maiden advance and destroy her pride
by telling her her threat lowered her share price which you had ajudged as premium

3]tell her to win your heart if she is woman enough and that u dont see her as a love-peddler so why would you sleep with her without sending her

4]grow some balls,and start calling her by her first name and treat her like a contemporary

5]the battle is always fought and won in the mind,destroy her ego and she will either leave u or start stalking you

so now its a game,abi?

naa, game it aint. i would rather call it making light of a tense situation.

The way you are attracts people of the same sort,you must have advanced towards her in away that she likes,now is the moment of truth,you come to NL to annouce, that you want to have  a widow at your mercy,but there is always a price to pay though.

@poster either male or female my advice is that u seek the face of God for
wisdom. I agree its a tough decision but dont sleep with her, u might live to regret it. it is a test of faith.
You need to have a back up! u nid to record ur conversation with her as proof. n pray n fast to overcome this temptation. The Lord is ur strength.

@poster, this is a win win situation unlike others wants to make you understand. The good part is; she is a widow and you are single. But to undertake this venture, you have to have backup evidence to nail the woman when the whole thing goes sour. Make a recording of ur phone conversations, use ur phone also to record conversations with the woman. Armed with all this bro, do your thing.

if u are single, fo the damnd thing. And do it well. U have a better chance of getting her fired than she getting u fired. Every company has sexual harrasment laws. U can use that against her if she wan f up. But while are at it. Demand alot from her. Make drop doe, facilitate promotion etc. U know na.

There are two sides to this.
1. There are lots of guys that would not think twice but will go for it with all pleasure and use her to make money for themselves without anyone knowing about it.
2. There are those that will not go for it but will set her up and report the issue with evidence to her superiors "Maybe phone conversation". Obvious that's d only evidence.
3. There are those that will go for it and take pleasure in exposing her with recorded video, hiding themselves from d scene.
4. There are those that will not go for it but will grow ghost pimples like mummy’s pet.
5. There are those that will stand their grounds and humiliate her without been bothered about losing their jobs.

Which one will u go for?  

Remember this is a once in a life time opportunity, make the right choice.  

^^^I will go for No 1, only if she is chubby, a widow is a single woman, but the side wey I fear for the guy be say she will certainly force him against his will, it may lead to his untimely departure from his Job, culled from xperience

Whether you like it or not, you are doomed either way. Weigh the situation on both sides then make your decisions.

There's nothing wrong in dating a widow! So go ahead & dont loose ur job, remember d pains u went thru  2get it.

if she just wants a fling, QUIT the job.

she is a widow, maybe all she wants a relationship wit u, if u like her date her.

but if she is fond of harasn the male staffs den i implore u to resign. wen one door closes another opens

even if its a window that opens so long as there is an opening.

boy1 u are current with the happppings around
ask her what kill her husband b4 what kill her husband kill u.

2nd corinthians 3vs 5 says that not that we are sufficient of ourselves that we can think of anything but our sufficiency is of God. My bros the gift of God maket rich and adds no sorrow.When i was desperately looking for a job with Diamond bank,the man who was to connect me said i will sleep with him b4 my name will be shortlisted but i refused and didnt get the job. I continued to believe God for a job and God did it,the job im doing today was divinely connected and i was sleeping at home when a classmate at the university called me for this job.
Today i am very happy cos if i had slept with the man and want to stop after getting the job he will threaten to sack me.
So my advice is keep doing your job and if ur sacked then you dont belong there.

Note-your job will come to you without condition and u will know is God in action.

"Whosoever does not want to MARRY A WIDOW should DESIST from visiting her regularly at NIGHT" - the words of our Elders.  

Frolicking with a widow is a very dangerous game. It's comparable to kissing a life snake without a protective mask.

Many guys who got ensnared with widows actually started like this. Widows are experts in turning promising men (like you) into a dunce (dundee) whereby you will transform from a lover to her personal laundry man, cook, 'UNCLE' to her children, etc.  She is all out to GET you, MILK you dry, and DISCARD you.  Don't ever think you are her first victim? There is fire on the mountain - RUN! RUN!! RUN!!!

Make her believe you are very religious by discussing religious issues with her more often.  Don't let her intimidate you.  Think of other points made by other N'landers too.
Peace!

All these peopel quoting bible and God, the guy never mentioned he is a christian.
So based on what he is i would advice him to help the poor widow, and dont fall in love or let her fall for you, with that your security is guaranteed.

how come every one assumes the dude in question is single? he did not state his marital status, IMO i think if he is married, he should find a way to avoid it abruptly even if he has to quit his job so he doesn't ruin his marriage and make sure your wife is aware of the situation, if he isn't, he should try to manage to forge a relationship with her but no s-e-x and quickly start applying 4 another job so when u finally get one, u resign and state in your resignation letter the true reason you're resigning so the HR would know how to handle her, for the sake of others, who knows? bank might decide to reject your resignation and fire her instead.

Follow these steps;

1. Tell her that you'll do it[b] because you don't want to lose your job.[/b] Record the audio of the deal in your phone, and hire a private investigator after filing a report at a  police station that is abit far away. Tell your friends and trusted co-workers.

2. Take a picture of her unclothed after tactically undressing her and record the conversations with your phone on the day that you promised to do it with her (Don't have sex with her except you need to in order to obtain enough evidence)). Draw out implicating statements. Make one of your trusted co-worker and friends that is aware to monitor two of you on that day with the private investigator. Let them record your arrival with her.

3. Be a Man, Threaten her on the spot that you'll take the pictures to the newspapers (It'll make a good news) and expose the fact that you have filed a police report.

4.  Demand for a 20million naira ransome. Do it in her presence, not over a phone or internet.

5. If she doesn't give you the money, sue her to court,  call the police and show the pictures, then take the pictures to the Newspaper houses.

6. If She pays, resign and get out of town for a long time. Invest the money in better stuffs.

If she can bite your buttocks without minding your excreter, bite her head without minding her brain.

Tell her to marry you, then she can have you all she wants. Simple as that.

Don't do it because when I was faced with such problem I refused and God blessed me with a better job

Zap dat b.i.t.c.h rigt now

How do we know this is real?Woman don't stoop that low.Most especially the one wey be Oga.

This is a test of Faith!!!
Look at Joseph in the Bible, I pray you read his story
Pls remain steadfast in the LORD, this a very trying time for you,
just remain steadfast in the Lord.
Jesus Christ Was tempted by the Devil and He overcame it,
Same as Joseph,
Pls let your Inspiration come from our LORD Who made Heaven and Earth.
I rest my case!!![color=#990000][/color][i][/i]

Amaka cool down, you like whahala sometimes haba!!!

What a life!
But what will you do now?,
I think you need to pray and get really hard working.
If your performance is excellent,she can't do anything.
Also try and avoid her.
Good luck.

what are you waiting for?