Lawlahdey:
I wasn't talking about myself, if you lack basic comprehension ability.

Since you are below average you are included in your analysis

Pidgin2:



Since you are below average you are included in your analysis

Whatever, bimbo.

Lawlahdey:
Whatever, bimbo.

Bimbo? you must be a foreigner.Your inability to do day to day job, is quite shameful

Pls go to jail and see how majority of inmates are men who have committed murders , rapes , armed robbery yet you are not afraid to have a male child ? Rubbish !there are male strippers who have their body and balls manhandled by women but people like you are not afraid for male children ! All this women wrapper men who won’t leave women alone ! Go and advise your fellow men let women advise themselves!You don’t even deserve a female child who would take care of you in your old age . Damn misogynist !

WaffenSS:
I love my 2 year old baby girl and won't have it any other way.

Daughters are the best.

That's really sweet. I am certain you make a good dad.

Lawlahdey:
What? Lol.

Get out, please.

That Gil can talk dear. She always fights........with almost anyone......even in the food section where there is 1 requirement, post your food. She will be there fighting the food . No mind her na

jagugu88li:
That Gil can talk dear. She always fights........with almost anyone......even in the food section where there is 1 requirement, post your food. She will be there fighting the food . No mind her na

Hahahahaha...she needs help oh.

jagugu88li:
That's really sweet. I am certain you make a good dad.

I try to be.

I've a special bond with my girl.

Thanks.

SlimHan:
The peer pressure is really eating deep into the average girl's mind neither is the environmental effect doing her any good.

The truth is the average girl believe in "survival of the fittest, the pressure of meeting up with the world's standard" afterall everyone is doing it.

Then the thought of "Hmm, solape my junior back in secondary school now ride a Corrolla? I must ride LR3 too.

Cycle of friendship is also a major factor

@lawlahdey, hope I'm permitted to use the word "average girl?

Forget peer pressure. Its about who u r and how u were raised. I was raised in a not so strict home. But. I am a disciplined n strict woman and I respect my body. Its all about mind set. Our girls of dese days are useless becos dey want to b. They like easy way out. They hate hustling legitimately. I have been hustling since after sch. Cyber cafe ticket sales girl, phone call nd recharge card selling, a teacher, customer care rep. U name it. Now I'm a mother of 2 Beautiful girls. I will do my best to train them right. I leave d rest to God.

Africlegend:
"I Don't Want A Girl Child!"

"I don't want to have a girl child", someone said, and, when I got the knack of his excuses, I couldn't but think twice over my dream of having, at least, a beautiful female child. I used to picture her pretty, slim, intelligent, natural and innocent.I used to visualize a girl child, who would perch on my shoulder while I tell her stories of the tortoise and the hen. I used to see a future daughter, who would be found of me and shout Dad! Dad!! in the house.I had desired a daughter, with whom I'll play football in the compound.I used to want a girl, whom I would adorn with expensive clothes and jewelries. A daughter I would treat like a princess and worship.I wanted to name her Ewatomi, But, now, I'm afraid!

Did the girl child, all at once, realise she's without value? Does she now see herself as made for men's buzz, and that alone? Does she think she's made to make boys feel good? Was she designed, just for boys' amusement and turn-on? In the strippers' club, you would see without-clothes girls, gallivanting and selling it cheap.They would allow you handle their boobs, if you can pay.They would allow you do most nutty and slaphappy things with their bodies for a valueless naira note.The other day, A girl wrote this on specialspesh(Davido's friend)' s wall on instagram, " D Bleep way you Bleep me for free way you promised me toyota Corolla car way u ne er still fulfill naa thurnder go strike u one day." What has come over the latest girl child? In the University, almost every girl is a hoe! Some are in the sex business, while some lay around just for the fun of it. Seeing a young boy take tramadol, cialis, levitra, viagra codeine etc, one would wonder who the victim of such make her cry anal rampage would be.She's the innocent-looking 17yrs old daddy's girl.

Isn't It demeaning, that 10 unclad, grown up ladies would twist and bunny hop around a fully clothed boy, all in the name of shooting a musical video? Isn't it worth crying for, that some 5 ladies would pride and joy in being baby Mamas for a small fry celebrity? Isn't it sorry and touching, that a girl would, with zeal, pose naked and 24 carat original for a shot? Haven't you seen a pretty young girl, expose her almost-bare vulva to the coldness of camera flashes? Isn't it pesky, that ladies now delight more pleasure in twerking than contributing anything intelligible to the society? Isn't it ugly? If a guy would boast, he would, of the number of girls he's had free sex with! He would boast of how recklessly, he bleeped that hijab-wearing girl.He would boast of how he, without mercy, ravished that lady, who doesn't wear hear rings.He would, of how a Pastor's daughter came begging for more, after a war-like bed session.Ask some guy out there, He's got more than fifteen girls shouting for help.

Someone seems to have untied the girl child into nothingness.Someone seems to have primed her on being a low-grade mortal.She seems to have endorsed and taken stock in being made for men's pick-me-up alone.She seems aware of herself being only an easy mark for sexual pleasure.She now understands how the best she can offer is her curves and boobs.She's like too afraid of being irrelevant, that she wants to lay bare, what's under her pant, if that would bring about attention.Let those punching out for gender equality stop wasting time, the girl child has accepted defeat! The ministry of women affairs should change name, ladies seem more comfortable as mere blow jobbers.

I would have said, that I would
instill in my own daughter ethics and ideals, but, will it make a difference? I would have sworn to bring her up very religiously, but Pastors' daughters seem not too good.I would have planned to give her a sky-scraping education, but, those ladies who went to Cambridge, don't they end up in the street nude? I would have decided to make life so comfortable for and give her every little thing she needs, but, daughters of rich parents are not different.I would have promised to shower attention on her, but, those of caring and tender parents also end up giving free sex.I would, then, have promised to be tough on my own girl and always flog brain into her, but, daughters of such parents end up living couples' lives in school, cooking and receiving Bob doles on a daily basis. Nothing seem enough to stop a girl from going wild. Nothing seem enough to make her see herself as special and the best thing that has happened to the world.If you chastise her, it's trouble. If you don't at all, it is problem.So, Isn't it better not to give birth to a girl at all?



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Forget peer pressure. Its about who u r and how u were raised. I was raised in a not so strict home. But. I am a disciplined n strict woman and I respect my body. Its all about mind set. Our girls of dese days are useless becos dey want to b. They like easy way out. They hate hustling legitimately. I have been hustling since after sch. Cyber cafe ticket sales girl, phone call nd recharge card selling, a teacher, customer care rep. U name it. Now I'm a mother of 2 Beautiful girls. I will do my best to train them right. I leave d rest to God.

Shhhh01:
Forget peer pressure. Its about who u r and how u were raised. I was raised in a not so strict home. But. I am a disciplined n strict woman and I respect my body. Its all about mind set. Our girls of dese days are useless becos dey want to b. They like easy way out. They hate hustling legitimately. I have been hustling since after sch. Cyber cafe ticket sales girl, phone call nd recharge card selling, a teacher, customer care rep. U name it. Now I'm a mother of 2 Beautiful girls. I will do my best to train them right. I leave d rest to God.

Don't mind them. It's his/her personal opinion. It's not a rule. So many persons needs their first born to be a girl.

Women are blessings to mankind and will remain a blessing till eternity.

SlimHan:
The peer pressure is really eating deep into the average girl's mind neither is the environmental effect doing her any good.

The truth is the average girl believe in "survival of the fittest, the pressure of meeting up with the world's standard" afterall everyone is doing it.

Then the thought of "Hmm, solape my junior back in secondary school now ride a Corrolla? I must ride LR3 too.

Cycle of friendship is also a major factor

@lawlahdey, hope I'm permitted to use the word "average girl?

Your arguments are gaining ground to the fact that you have just hammered the nail on its head.
Nearly all girls(globally refering) are slain queens because of this notion. please we should stop using the words slay queens for these modern day lazy girls but slain queens. The wayward boys are the slaying kings.
Imagine proud of being baby mamas because of classy inclination. Little a wonder why average youth sense marriage to be bondage.
The era of boos and baes

please let's go check up the meaning of slay in our dictionary to know how our societies have lost moral values.
Whenever one slays or something gets slain please picture that it can be likened to an ordeal event.Girls slaying around as used is not within the context of the realities.
"Moral inclinations are stories for the gods and we are humans we can't afford to be holy"-they say! This is lamentable!
What more does one expect when their role models; the celebrities are more likely of the figures we desire to exterminate.Note also, in classic, they are still very important. They hold the banner of VIP.
What a society in a mud! So slippery of moral values.
THEY HAVE MISLIKENED IMMORALITY TO CIVILISATION.So lamentable it is!

Lawlahdey:
Deep. You know what i think about this? The truth is the average female don't have the strength or ability required for day-to-day jobs. The average female is work-lazy. She wants things to come to her on a platter of gold and in a country like Nigeria, that's quite impossible. So, she resorts to selling her body because that's the only way to have it easy.

Are you real? Or just stupid

Yonce:

Can the problem be fixed?
Are our fellow women ready to add value to society? Are they ready to go into mentally stimulating jobs, politics and social works? Are they ready to stop "slaying"?

Haven't you heard that the higher you go, the fewer the women. . . .whose fault is that? The men I suppose. And whose gonna fix it? A man right?

Deranged

cococandy:

Are you real? Or just stupid

Don't ask me a dumb question.

cococandy:

Are you real? Or just stupid

Please I would use this opportunity to present my intention. My taking to this topic is NON-COMMITAL.
The OP just used the right word-average! This is enough to affirm his non-commitedness.
Philosophically infering, if the value of a deviant is too small to be considered, it could be ignored to justify generalisation.
For instance, Buhari became the president of Nigeria when he won majority of the votes. Everyone had to accept him because his supporters took the lead.
Same is applicable to other life issues such as this(although not all).
My condolence to the exempted ones. Accept it without objection.It is a plea.

As for those of us criticising the op, know that it is your own doing! Even the op is entitled to his/her opinion. But that does not beg for rejection of reality. Let me use the word "most". Most of our girls have lost the values of a virtous woman.They(not all) no longer want to take up to their place in the society.