how would you feel and what will you do if you are rejected by your guy's family because you are from another tribe.

Sad?

U move on!! if ur spouse cant talk to his/her family to give ther consent

Cry and move on. If your partner cares more about what his family thinks then his relationship with you then there is no hope. They will make your life a living hell to drive you out and he will just let it happen. You are worth more there is someone out there who will love you regardless.

but what if u really love this person and can't move on like that.

its really not that easy to just cry and move on.such things are not that easy to forget.

if u cant move, you wait until he gives us his wedding card. it will be worst u know. Better cry, cry cry and move on jari . what do u mean by love? a one sided love as i can see. Anyway follow ur heart.

if he really loves/likes u. . y'all will scale thru. If not, u gotta move on . . as sad as it is

This is sad. If your boyfriend cannot convince them and he loves you half as much as you love him. There are two things that could happen if they still refuse, you can do it without the consent of his family (it will hurt you in the long run) or you can just cry and try to let go.

Not every love is final. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be. I feel for you but i have to say that you need to do this for yourself and your bf. If you truly love him, you would want him to be happy.
If you get married without their consent and they don't talk to him anymore, you will be blamed for his misfortunes. He will never let go of the fact that you were the cause of the separation from his family. So the best advice is to find a way to move on.

Screw them, move on

I have no option than to leave him alone

my boyfriend's " naija Uncles" ( all yorubas are related, all igbos are related, call each other cousins) talked my
boyfriend into going back with his ex who is yoruba while he was still with me!

now he wants me back, said he didn't know what got into him.

It is better to stay away from from tribalistic folks cuz it shows that their level of thinking is still a 100years back

quote: wen u love something u fight 4 it to make it urs, (2) wen u love something u let it go and if it,s truly urs it will definitely come back & be urs against all odds. u,v tried d 1st one by fighting 2keep wat u love, but my candid advice is why don,t u try d 2nd option? its not easy but just believe dat wat will be will be. goodluck.

[b][/b] a friend of mine just asked me dis question. reason? his girlfriend of 3yrs has issued him a red card because she feels shes is in love with someother guy, wen he confronted her she told him dat her love 4 him is dead. pls fellow naira landers -does true love die? ur contributions will be highly needed.

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i know your problem and the solution,just see me. period.

It's painful.
But try and fall in love with someone from you tribe it's better at least their family would accept you.

Please move on. You are not socieyt's sad misfit

Move on big time. Shows how small minded they are in that family. Will thank God am not going there. There is nothing as bad as dealing with small minded individuals.

eyaaa
how pathetic
guy things happen so u just have to take it as it comes

else u give ur self an heart attack

am out of here light don go for our area

na niga now

You should be with a man and family where you are wanted for you and in spite of you

move on

who talks about tribe these days, u shld run from a family like that cos their being tribalistic is not their only problem, i bet u.

yeah, i have and it hurt but i moved on. simple! the issue of tribalism in Nigeria sometimes is really crazy considering the fact that its a country with alot of so called religious pple