I am a scammer as claimed by someone here on nairaland. She can never have problem and so anyone that has problem is a scammer .... Closed

Your story is very "toshing"
cc Lalastica

op I can only offer u one, advice or finance? which do I want

Sleekydee:
op I can only offer u one, advice or finance? which do I want

Honestly for now, advice. If it can bring her out of this issues. I will really appreciate. Advice can bring finance. Am ready sir and if God put it in ur heart for both advice and Finance. More of blessings on you

The problem with stories like this, you can’t authenticate their veracity. I’d hate to be adding to the pocket of a scammer.

LadyGoddiva:
The problem with stories like this, you can’t authenticate their veracity. I’d hate to be adding to the pocket of a scammer.

If you want to help me, kindly tell me what you need to verify. Like I said, I am not a fraudster. Atleast give me a benefit of doubt. The issue is bothering me, we can chat one whatsapp 08166605471. Looking for help doesn't make me an irresponsible person

As you said earlier, 4kids is too much of a responsibility to your Mom for now. I will advice you to collect leave of absence and hustle and use the money in buying market for your mother. Then she can realise profit and pay for you coming school fee. I will advice you to do away with 2 of the kids( preferably boys) to trusted relatives for now.

TheManofTomorrow:
As you said earlier, 4kids is too much of a responsibility to your Mom for now. I will advice you to collect leave of absence and hustle and use the money in buying market for your mother. Then she can realise profit and pay for you coming school fee. I will advice you to do away with 2 of the kids( preferably boys) to trusted relatives for now.

Which relative I wan give kids. It's not possible. Dnt wori, it's orait. U wunt understand me

Microsoft10:



Which relative I wan give kids. It's not possible. Dnt wori, it's orait. U wunt understand me

So u mean u have no close relative that the kids can spend so time with to relive ya mom?

TheManofTomorrow:
So u mean u have no close relative that the kids can spend so time with to relive ya mom?

you won't understand.
I was in a similar situation. My grandmother raised 6 of us, grandchildren 5 of us and a cousin.
Even though my dad was alive then he never cared. Since my mum died in 2003, he became so irresponsible. All he does with his money is drinking. This was once a chief engineer in a big company, with two cars. CEOs of big were coming to BEG him to work for them cos the man was a VERY, VERY, VERY, good engineer but he refused. Like say na jazz dey do the man.

I will forever be grateful to my grandmother for the way she took care of us. It wasn't easy but she did it. She didn't allow any of our uncles to take any of us because they won't take care of us like their children

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Microsoft10:


Honestly for now, advice. If it can bring her out of this issues. I will really appreciate. Advice can bring finance. Am ready sir and if God put it in ur heart for both advice and Finance. More of blessings on you

You can make money through freelance or think of picking up a skill that will earn u money so u can support ur mom.

Your elder brother should carry his 2kids. Having the kids around will increase his level of responsibility because I wonder why he isn't sending anything to them no matter how small.

Gofwane:
you won't understand.
I was in a similar situation. My grandmother raised 6 of us, grandchildren 5 of us and a cousin.
Even though my dad was alive then he never cared. Since my mum died in 2003, he became so irresponsible. All he does with his money is drinking. This was once a chief engineer in a big company, with two cars. CEOs of big were coming to BEG him to work for them cos the man was a VERY, VERY, VERY, good engineer but he refused. Like say na jazz dey do the man.

I will forever be grateful to my grandmother for the way she took care of us. It wasn't easy but she did it. She didn't allow any of our uncles to take any of us because they won't take care of us like their children

Thanks, seems someone that have passed through wat am saying understands me. I don't even have a problem with taking care of my sef if not for the problem of my brothers that is hanging on my mum

bibijay123:


You can make money through freelance or think of picking up a skill that will earn u money so u can support ur mom.

Have even tried it but honestly I did make it there. The one I just knew about, if I do it, it will advance into the stage of yahoo plus, and am not interested. Pls am not criticizing yahoo plus oo but am not just interested