makydebbie:
Okay, so I get your point and where you're coming from. Your post came off like brainy girls are undatable lol.

But then it's possible to find pretty intelligent women in the streets tho but what 'street' are you referring to? Is it some sort of euphemism? Maybe I didn't get that part of your post.

And jeez, I'll never marry a pastor even if he's the only option I've got left.

kimbraa:
Would you like to be my side nigga?.

makydebbie:
Not even the richest pastor in the world son.

sirBLUNT:
exactly every woman has a soft spot the problem is not knowing that she has one but finding that soft, now when you dont that is where is frustration and insecurities comes in because u feel she rude,opinionted and obnoxious...here am i praying 4 brain over beauty..here is someone feeling intimidated..oh lawd akant take this..sinaj come and hear something

Rajosh:
Never say Never. I know someone who gets easily irritated when she sees an albino. today she's married to one and she's madly in love. This guy in question is not even wealthy. Believe me I'm not making this up.

Spaxon:


Lol... Why
You detest pastors

Rajosh:
Never say Never. I know someone who gets easily irritated when she sees an albino. today she's married to one and she's madly in love. This guy in question is not even wealthy. Believe me I'm not making this up.

iamJ:
my belle

nairaland ooooo

some people are calling som1 that has written jamb 5 times and worked as a sales girl, brilliant

a girl that her self esteem is so low she went from using pix of her ass as dp to forming inspirational dp user

a girl that isnt bold enough to use her pix as dp and person come do this kind thread for her

iamJ:
my belle

nairaland ooooo

some people are calling som1 that has written jamb 5 times and worked as a sales girl, brilliant

a girl that her self esteem is so low she went from using pix of her ass as dp to forming inspirational dp user

a girl that isnt bold enough to use her pix as dp and person come do this kind thread for her

Peacefullove:


See who is talking, u don find kimbraa soft spot ?

makydebbie:
Lol, her reasons definitely defers from mine. I can't even date one talk more of getting married to one. It's not happening jare, not after everything.

kimbraa:
Would you like to be my side nigga?.

sirBLUNT:
hmmmm eleyi gidi gan!...abeg debbi wetin happen wat did dat pastor did to u?..am interested in dat amebo

makydebbie:
Lol, nvm bro.

MissJoy29:

Ok, I get you now. You are in a way right. But why conclude with only three experiences?

Now, which is more important to you? The beauty or the intelligence? Cos from your write up, you have met the intelligent but they were not beautiful. You also mention that you see beautiful women every day and I guess they are not as intelligent as you want. And from your views too, the combination of the intelligent and the beautiful are not easily found. So, assume this is as real as it is, which would you choose?

unadeymadkwa:
Met this not so fine but endowed, intelligent lady in her late 30s. Who is quite successful in her industry. It was supposed to be a date but the whole thing turned in to an interview. Had the worst date ever. Imagine being asked were i see my company in five years, on a date ooo. At the end of the whole Dating/ interview, I wasn't even interesting in her pkekus any more. Had to find an excuse for the next day because we were supposed to hangout.. I have not picked her calls ever since that day...

Can't give much details but she made me see why some intelligent ladies are single..they just don't know when or how to act..

makydebbie:
Lol, nvm bro.

makydebbie:
Lol, her reasons definitely defers from mine. I can't even date one talk more of getting married to one. It's not happening jare, not after everything.

Organs:



Sounds to me like you had some inferiority complex when you met her. What is wrong with you dictating the topics, pace, issues to be discussed? All you had to do was change topic and if she insist, remind her it's a date not an interview, period. You stopped picking her calls and here you are pointing finger, Nope, her levels pass your own, since you did not even have the boldness and sincerity to tell her straight up you didn't like all the interview-like questions during the date.

samyfreshsmooth:
Ahan!!

where is the toaster and toastee na


i don dey here since morning and the toasting neve still begin

unadeymadkwa:



Lol. If I had any form of complex I wouldn't have met her in the first place. Kids of now. Needs to learn, when you meet someone for the first time try and let them do most of the talking....you get to know what kind of person they are. No time. It's on to the next one... trust me I'm a pro in that game... You shouldn't tell people how to behave or what to talk about.... listen and you'll learn alot... I'm in my early 30s she is in are late 30s. From experience when a girl starts asking such questions, it shows desperation. She's actually accessing your credibility as a future spouse. Learn kid learn... it's also not appropriate for a first date...

Organs:


I agree with the above. Some ladies might be driven like that, or if you're not making conversation and she is the one doing all the talking, then she might go into other topics. Well, i am not a pro like that like that, but no matter what, i don't just dist people like that. You might lose a good girl in the process. Also, if you're going to walk away, have good reason not an assumption (italics) in your head and might not necessarily hold true for all ladies. Stop treating a human being like a commodity - No time its on to the next one... live life give people benefit of the doubt. Think, if tomorrow, you are in competition with others for a huge job/contract and she is the decider, how would you feel facing her?

unadeymadkwa:


I understand your point. The aim of my initial comment was to show how boring some or most intelligent ladies are (my opinion oo).. I was just trying to get some pkekus and she was being so serious. If you get what I mean. And from experience most serious relationships starts from a casual first date. Probably if she wasn't so serious, we might be Dating now...
Any ways thanks for your contribution... this thread has been derailed enough.

unadeymadkwa:



Lol. If I had any form of complex I wouldn't have met her in the first place. Kids of now. Needs to learn, when you meet someone for the first time try and let them do most of the talking....you get to know what kind of person they are. No time. It's on to the next one... trust me I'm a pro in that game... You shouldn't tell people how to behave or what to talk about.... listen and you'll learn alot... I'm in my early 30s she is in are late 30s. From experience when a girl starts asking such questions, it shows desperation. She's actually accessing your credibility as a future spouse. Learn kid learn... it's also not appropriate for a first date...

sirBLUNT:
am suspecting u oo..we really want to know..but how can dat pastor mess wit the whole debbie..the council of elders must hear this....!

Organs:



Debbie how you dey? Hmm wetin happen naaa, you no wan turn to pillar of salt if you look back...

Rajosh:
Hmm. I think there's more you don't want to talk about. Anyways may God grant you your heart desires.

CrescentMoon:


You have a long way to go with comprehension ability.

"Brained girls you meet online are usually... "

Read the sentence in quote and interpret it again.