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Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 8:31pm On Dec 12, 2017
ehbellsho:


Pls respect ursef
ok u one of those ones who take everything so serious in here.no sense of humour at allcheesy.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 8:42pm On Dec 12, 2017
habsydiamond:
some ladies don't have shame at all....even if she was sex stabbed does that give a the right to have sex with her husband's friend....if Na olden days dem do this na...Na stone dem go use kill the two of them....is it compulsory to Bleep another dick while her husband is away....why acan she use Love Machine or what ever to quench her hunger for sex....that friend too is not but an enemy....for him to sleep with his friend's wife means the friendship is of the mouth and not from the mind...if u like Ur cousin it's better u tell him if u dont want to see him dead.... adulterous wife can kill oooo.
for a man to save himself this headache he should forget about wifey matter if he wants to move abroad.he can always get a wife anywhere he's based.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by sisisioge: 8:50pm On Dec 12, 2017
Pls tell him...there's no other feasible option here. I would tell him sorrowfully embarassed .
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 9:02pm On Dec 12, 2017
lefulefu:
for a man to save himself this headache he should forget about wifey matter if he wants to move abroad.he can always get a wife anywhere he's based.


This is my major issue... to get a babe here or wait till i settle there...or get one here and move them over with me.. i really wanted a naija chick o..
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by ehbellsho(m): 10:36pm On Dec 12, 2017
lefulefu:
ok u one of those ones who take everything so serious in here.no sense of humour at allcheesy.

Listen to urself, u cal me "werey" n u expect me to sit n let it go because of 'sense of bulshit'?
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 10:41pm On Dec 12, 2017
ehbellsho:


Listen to urself, u cal me "werey" n u expect me to sit n let it go because of 'sense of bulshit'?
werey
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 10:46pm On Dec 12, 2017
KreativGenius:



This is my major issue... to get a babe here or wait till i settle there...or get one here and move them over with me.. i really wanted a naija chick o..
bro if u having intentions to travel out and you have a wife then be rest assured she will become public property.babes these days dem no dey trust dem reach that level.better u get a girl once u there or u arrange for ur wife to join u.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by MikeBetty(m): 2:49am On Dec 13, 2017
OfficialAwol:
Don't break that family.

The eyes and tongue do not tell every tale.
Really? What If She Gets Deadly Std Like Aids And The Man Comes In, Jump Into Sex With A Trusted Wife And Get Infected? Remember According To Findings, Women Can Leave With Aids For Years Than Men. The Story Will Then Turn Against The Innocent Man. People Will Now Say All Sort Of Things Againt Him.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by MikeBetty(m): 3:03am On Dec 13, 2017
DeadRat:
You Do Not Know How Your Cousin Might React To such News. He Might Come Back To Kill which May Make Matters Worse... Threaten The Wife Seriously but Dont Tell Your Cousin Shiit... Make Empty Threats To Her, tell Her You Will Make Sure Your Cousin Hears but Dont Tell Him... Many People Dont Know How To Handle Such Emotional Problems
My Dear, This Case Is A Complicated One. You Know It Take Many Sins To Cover A Sin. Remember She Commited It With A Trusted Friend Who Doubled As The Best Man, Both Of Them Can Conspire To Eliminate Him In Other To Conceal The Sin.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 6:39am On Dec 13, 2017
KreativGenius:



This is my major issue... to get a babe here or wait till i settle there...or get one here and move them over with me.. i really wanted a naija chick o..

Come oo wetin u wan use naija chick do sef
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 6:49am On Dec 13, 2017
lefulefu:

bro if u having intentions to travel out and you have a wife then be rest assured she will become public property.babes these days dem no dey trust dem reach that level.better u get a girl once u there or u arrange for ur wife to join u.

Yes ooo I agree but as for naija chick I nor agree am ooo..

Naija chick nor jus match pesin like mr kre,atleast mere looking at him here,dem go jus take advantage of d kind pesin wey him be na,abi u nor hear say him wan peace for marriage?

Abeg oooo me and u know say better oyibo wife go fit am well coz atleast dat loyalty go jus dey dere,real love no attachment u know...

O boy if mr kre marry naija babe !Damm!!
The headach go too much oo guy..

E get one man wey I know,him marry naija babe,this girl go jus dey misbahave coz him husband too quite and him husband nor even get time to dey follow her talk or quarell,and this na girl wey even me dey join praise those day's ooo,but mehn after she born na there her colour's start to dey show ooogringrin

Do u know that women are very secretive
And the only way u can know about a woman character is after she gives birth!

And majority of these secretive women na here for africa dem dey,well some few ladies dey naija sha,but e nor easy to get ooo...

Me sef don tire to remain single but I nor fit carry my head and open eye's go dat all these dem ladies wey I dey see na..

See if u are very loyal and good I will advice you to marry a white,but if ur mind na for green card tinz abeg I nor join support am ooogringrin lefulefu how u see am na
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 6:57am On Dec 13, 2017
KreativGenius:



This is my major issue... to get a babe here or wait till i settle there...or get one here and move them over with me.. i really wanted a naija chick o..

I don talk my own finish ooogrin

I believ u re gonna be a loyal man in marriage ,jus carry urself go there then marry for that side,atleast outside oyibo babes we still get some nigerian babes there wey still know what they want,atleast u should see how ladies like "Dimp,shayshay,lala's,and some few more do speak here,they re not gullible,deluded,crooked, na those types persin go dey admire and not lier's wey we get for here,dem nor even know wetin dem want in a relationship sef,atleast u can see how confused they fast becoming these day'sgringrin
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 7:40am On Dec 13, 2017
MikeBetty:
My Dear, This Case Is A Complicated One. You Know It Take Many Sins To Cover A Sin. Remember She Commited It With A Trusted Friend Who Doubled As The Best Man, Both Of Them Can Conspire To Eliminate Him In Other To Conceal The Sin.
all He Needs To Do Is Tell His Cousin To be Careful With His Best Friend
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 8:35am On Dec 13, 2017
Martin0:


Yes ooo I agree but as for naija chick I nor agree am ooo..

Naija chick nor jus match pesin like mr kre,atleast mere looking at him here,dem go jus take advantage of d kind pesin wey him be na,abi u nor hear say him wan peace for marriage?

Abeg oooo me and u know say better oyibo wife go fit am well coz atleast dat loyalty go jus dey dere,real love no attachment u know...

O boy if mr kre marry naija babe !Damm!!
The headach go too much oo guy..

E get one man wey I know,him marry naija babe,this girl go jus dey misbahave coz him husband too quite and him husband nor even get time to dey follow her talk or quarell,and this na girl wey even me dey join praise those day's ooo,but mehn after she born na there her colour's start to dey show ooogringrin

Do u know that women are very secretive
And the only way u can know about a woman character is after she gives birth!

And majority of these secretive women na here for africa dem dey,well some few ladies dey naija sha,but e nor easy to get ooo...

Me sef don tire to remain single but I nor fit carry my head and open eye's go dat all these dem ladies wey I dey see na..

See if u are very loyal and good I will advice you to marry a white,but if ur mind na for green card tinz abeg I nor join support am ooogringrin lefulefu how u see am na
this is why if you want to travel out forget about marriage for the maintime ..but if married, bring ur wife over.for this op"s case sha i am sure the parents of the guy arrange wife give am with the fear make im no marry foreigner for there.now see the end result grin.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 8:37am On Dec 13, 2017
lefulefu:

this is why if you want to travel out forget about marriage for the maintime ..but if married bring ur wife over.for this op"s case sha i am sure the parents of the guy arrange wife give am with the fear make im no marry foreigner for there.now see the end result grin.

Exactly,I like ur pointgringrin

It possiblegringrin

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Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by OfficialAwol(m): 8:41am On Dec 13, 2017
MikeBetty:
Really? What If She Gets Deadly Std Like Aids And The Man Comes In, Jump Into Sex With A Trusted Wife And Get Infected? Remember According To Findings, Women Can Leave With Aids For Years Than Men. The Story Will Then Turn Against The Innocent Man. People Will Now Say All Sort Of Things Againt Him.

What would you rather do?
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 13, 2017
Martin0:


I don talk my own finish ooogrin

I believ u re gonna be a loyal man in marriage ,jus carry urself go there then marry for that side,atleast outside oyibo babes we still get some nigerian babes there wey still know what they want,atleast u should see how ladies like "Dimp,shayshay,lala's,and some few more do speak here,they re not gullible,deluded,crooked, na those types persin go dey admire and not lier's wey we get for here,dem nor even know wetin dem want in a relationship sef,atleast u can see how confused they fast becoming these day'sgringrin



Hahahaha Okay brov
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 13, 2017
Martin0:


Come oo wetin u wan use naija chick do sef


I want use them do goat meat peppersoup... Okay, no more home based naija chicks...the confusion for their mind is something else
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 8:47am On Dec 13, 2017
lefulefu:

bro if u having intentions to travel out and you have a wife then be rest assured she will become public property.babes these days dem no dey trust dem reach that level.better u get a girl once u there or u arrange for ur wife to join u.

Aiite
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 8:54am On Dec 13, 2017
DeadRat:
You Do Not Know How Your Cousin Might React To such News. He Might Come Back To Kill which May Make Matters Worse... Threaten The Wife Seriously but Dont Tell Your Cousin Shiit... Make Empty Threats To Her, tell Her You Will Make Sure Your Cousin Hears but Dont Tell Him... Many People Dont Know How To Handle Such Emotional Problems
the wife can do it codedly if threatened.dem go carry their shagging to hotel.normal tin.even if im no tell the cousin he should report to the immediate family.but this story get as e be sef.most cheating wives na hotel dem dey do their racket.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 9:14am On Dec 13, 2017
KreativGenius:



Hahahaha Okay brov
Confirm guygrin
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 9:17am On Dec 13, 2017
KreativGenius:



I want use them do goat meat peppersoup... Okay, no more home based naija chicks...the confusion for their mind is something else

Now u talking like a mangringrin
They are fast becoming more confused on a daily basisgringrin only few know what they want,just fewgrin
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 9:20am On Dec 13, 2017
Martin0:


Now u talking like a mangringrin
They are fast becoming more confused on a daily basisgringrin only few know what they want,just fewgrin

It's like passing one's bus stop, even when it stares in their eyes, they don't recognize it.Confusion of the highest order. I don port !
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 9:23am On Dec 13, 2017
KreativGenius:


It's like passing one's bus stop, even when it stares in their eyes, they don't recognize it.Confusion of the highest order. I don port !

Exactly,,,gringringrin

Come oo u nor go work today,by the way which kin work u dey do sefgringrin abi u nor go tell megrin
Eh eh where u even hide for nigeriagringrin
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 9:26am On Dec 13, 2017
lefulefu:

the wife can do it codedly if threatened.dem go carry their shagging to hotel.normal tin.even if im no tell the cousin he should report to the immediate family.but this story get as e be sef.most cheating wives na hotel dem dey do their racket.
yea he Can Report To The Wife's family.. The Man Himself Should Come Back And Stay With his Wife or Take Her Overseas
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 9:29am On Dec 13, 2017
DeadRat:
yea he Can Report To The Wife's family.. The Man Himself Should Come Back And Stay With his Wife or Take Her Overseas
probably he already has another wife overseas
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 9:33am On Dec 13, 2017
lefulefu:
probably he already has another wife overseas
probably! Anyway Thats Their Business. They Should Handle It
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 9:36am On Dec 13, 2017
DeadRat:
probably! Anyway Thats Their Business. They Should Handle It
gbam!
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by cescky(m): 9:36am On Dec 13, 2017
Nedfed:
My cousin that lived in the United Kingdom sent some items to me to deliver to his wife.
Getting to dia house, I met the door locked so I try to check on dia neighbour for me to drop dos items. Actually I tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from dia own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my cousin's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to be tru. After an hour and few minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be my cousin's pal ( his best man during dia wedding).
Both of them av begged me not to tell my cousin but I can't keep dis to myself. My cousin is overthere trying hard just to make tins work fine for the family while the wife here engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not upto seven months dis is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what shud I do?



You have to tell your cousin, because truth just like smoke can't be caged for long...and when he finds out you also knew imagine how he will feel.

You messed up big time...now your stuck between a rock and a hard place..you shouldn't have confronted them...All you could have done was to codedly tell your cousin..and leave him to investigate, now your James Bond has put you in a very hot spot...it's your word against hers from now on, make she no even go poison your food to keep her secret
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 9:41am On Dec 13, 2017
Martin0:


Exactly,,,gringringrin

Come oo u nor go work today,by the way which kin work u dey do sefgringrin abi u nor go tell megrin
Eh eh where u even hide for nigeriagringrin

Argh, these kind questions na off the forum gist. I started work since i woke up already. The forum is just an extrawindow.Anyways i'mgoing out now jare, till 5-7 hours before i get back here
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nobody: 10:03am On Dec 13, 2017
Nedfed:
My cousin that lived in the United Kingdom sent some items to me to deliver to his wife.
Getting to dia house, I met the door locked so I try to check on dia neighbour for me to drop dos items. Actually I tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from dia own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my cousin's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to be tru. After an hour and few minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be my cousin's pal ( his best man during dia wedding).
Both of them av begged me not to tell my cousin but I can't keep dis to myself. My cousin is overthere trying hard just to make tins work fine for the family while the wife here engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not upto seven months dis is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what shud I do?

hey bro, you should tell your cousin the moment you find out what happened!

That way the wife won't have enough time to cook up a strategy.

Forget about a broken marriage because it is already broken, you are not the cause of any breakup. Your cousin and his wife should decide if they want to continue in the Union or not.

Even if the husband is cheating on his wife while he is in the UK everything will be brought to the open and like I said earlier they will decide to remain in the marriage or not.

What if his friend impregnates the wife? You will be happy seeing your cousin train another man's child?

Honestly I think you should tell him and let them handle the problem
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 10:38am On Dec 13, 2017
KreativGenius:


Argh, these kind questions na off the forum gist. I started work since i woke up already. The forum is just an extrawindow.Anyways i'mgoing out now jare, till 5-7 hours before i get back here

Ok oo,no wahala na true u talkgringrin

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