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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by BruncleZuma: 9:06am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Op, are you by chance a love peddler or is it that you do not know the meaning of a fiance?
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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by buffalowings: 9:07am On Dec 12, 2017 |
These girls sef Be waiting for abroad guy Guy we she never see Enjoy your life Have sex safe sex Make mistakes You've only got one life to live Pls don't quote me I don't have strength this morning |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by darlingtonNYIG(m): 9:07am On Dec 12, 2017 |
shugamummy:you are totally wrong. I am dating a girl who I am 7months older than. We started dating back in Nigeria before we both went to further our studies abroad. And finally we actually planning getting married come next year. So don't bring rubbish postulations you know nothing about. Note, I am 30 and she is 29 so don't generalize 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Funkybabee(f): 9:07am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: Sister we are in the same shoe ooo I mean those who am not attracted to are those on my way right now even pestering me for marriage..only praying God should save us from this condition .. My advice to you is to leave that doctor because a fool at 40 is a fool forever,he didn't love you.... The second one try and be playing the card, we can't say he might be ur husband....but anytime u guys want to settle make sure u are going to leave with him to canada because I don't want you to be lord of the ring And also be prayeful because marriage age to we ladies is when devil focus to play.you will not marry another person husband in Jesus name... Good bless 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by phkka1(m): 9:07am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Be delivered from arrant stupidity. How many wives do you want to marry? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Dessydemmy: 9:07am On Dec 12, 2017 |
SAY NO TO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. If God helps you to abstain, do it my dear sister, if he can't wait now then your house maid is in trouble when you are not around, your sisters are not safe when you are not around. Don't tie him down with sex. Let HIM GO. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by hisbanneroflove: 9:07am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Hi Dear, If you care to listen and you truly want to be advised, I will tell you that a man the leave you because you deny him sex before marriage not even with the fact that you suspect he’s not sincere about himself will leave you for another woman. You need to learn how to trust God to bring He’s best to you. Don’t be faster than your steps. Remember, the pain of discipline is better than the pain of regrets. If he can dump you at the park because you deny him sex, I can tell you that deep inside of his heart, he knows you are right. Just leave him for now and take time to think it through but don’t give in for sex because it’s wrong and you are not attracted to him.you don’t want to keep a mirror that make you look urgly on your walls. Thanks |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 9:07am On Dec 12, 2017 |
and the only reason you gave for not sleeping with him is that you not attracted to him and you scared he would leave you after sex.but yet you scared to lose him.if you not in for the money( as you claim ) and you not attracted to him( which also implies you dont love him) then whats the reason you still with him? sounds like you prepared to just settle for him regardless of your complains but yet you still very uncertain and indecisive hence the presence of the other guy...my advice would be to ditch the sex guy because he would always see you an an object or a tool ,he obviously doesnt appreciate you nor respect your values and possibly never will even if by some miracle he does marry you which is unlikely he would definately cheat on you which am sure he is already doin.unless you down with been treated like shiit or less than a woman best you let him walk the plank..you need to tell yourself you deserve better and make your desicions based on such. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Humility017(m): 9:08am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Mac2016:there are still lot of people who can stay in a relationship without sex....till marriage.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by pope191: 9:08am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Windflower: I never asked her to give her sex if he does not deceive it, let's be honest with ourselves. The basic problem with Africa is life start at 30 while for the white folks, life start at 20. If they have been together for a year and there is still doubt about him playing games on her, please how long does it take to be crystal clear he meant well. Here is a man of 37 years going through life without sex for a year now, when will he be able to get one? That's up to both of them. My saying if she is not attracted to him, if he does not love him, if he is dating the man because he doesn't have option, that's so unfair. My sister age is what? Is she getting younger and won't live to see 37 someday, should the man kill himself because he's 37? Please let her not waste his time or both of them should not waste each other time, define the relationship and rest the case somewhere. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by M2dX(m): 9:08am On Dec 12, 2017 |
shugamummy:gbam. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by babzlim(m): 9:10am On Dec 12, 2017 |
U said it already that u don't feel anything for him so what the hell are you doing with him and why would u have sex with someone you don't love or feel nothing for. My advice is run while u still can because that guy doesn't love you .... as for the Canada guy, be careful so he won't use u to get what he want from canadian Government. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by pirodoshit(m): 9:10am On Dec 12, 2017 |
One of your fiancé oo.. How many are they abeg? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Idaikwo2017: 9:10am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Pray hard and ask God to reveal to you which one is your husband among them. If it`s not any of the two, God will bring your own. This is because you don`t know 2morrow. Only God knows tomorrow. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Mhizrohzz(f): 9:10am On Dec 12, 2017 |
First of d al dear don't b mad abt d negative comments here, na their work. U know dat doctor's intention already so u nid no advice on wat to do wit him if u re really smart but in case u re not, Bae RUN so hard, he just wants to inject u nd disappear nd wit d guys acting, I think he has a family. D abroad guy don't label him nice already cux 1 natural talent God gave we humans is acting All i'm trying to say is b careful.. Don't compromise ur love nd body, d deserving 1 wil always come. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by JoshMedia: 9:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:Hi Am a guy and we know ourselves better Don't try it Run away from that guy, what he need is sex, don't go to his apartment again. Mix with friends, associate yourself with good friends and forget about him. He will only use you, enjoy you and run. Run now, or he run from you. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Rompio(m): 9:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
My sister you need to apply wisdom oooo You av someone here that you know and do talk to, you denied him for sex and now you are comparing him to the other one that you only chat and call even he's not in this country with you. see if truly you are not a gold digger you need to sit ur Nigeria man down and talk since to him, perhaps he's man or do you expect him to start masturbating while he have a woman around him and if he sheet on you, you will start shouting........... You don't even trust the one in Nigeria that you see and feel his presence, you now want to go from the one in abroad... Have a little faith and trust ur man if only he's trustworthy and if not be alone for sometime cos the one in abroad is not the best option for you.......... To me ni oooo. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Ajadiboye(m): 9:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
laughing in Swahili. Why on heart will you deny him sex?? immaturity everywhere. You shouldn't date him in d first place, you are not attracted to him, how on earth will you trust him?? also you said you want to wait till you could trust him before allowing him, seriously ?? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by ibkgab001: 9:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Swear to God you are a virgin Swear to God you never have SEx before Swear to God no one has inserted bobori 2 urV Swear to God you are truly not ready |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Wisebisho: 9:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ourown:Is being 27 a crime? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Marvis4real(f): 9:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ourown:so because she is 27,she should open her legs for a man who clearly want nothing but sex? Dumb African! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by bamasite(m): 9:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Is he in for the sex alone? That is one thing you need to be sure of.......Truth be told, guys get angry when they know you are not a virgin and you are refusing them sex! Especially if you have agreed to date them and there was no prior agreement that you guys won't have sex till marriage On the guy in Canada, chatting and physical closeness are two different things that are worlds apart....choose wisely! Don't be carried away with the word "Canada" You can decide to take a break and give yourself some time to clear your head and think about the whole issue....for this time, just keep doing your own personal things independent of both of them! My one cent! Make I run go jam music for Sardine A10 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGMHFNC6r_c |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by mrvitalis(m): 9:12am On Dec 12, 2017 |
thatsincerechic:Some who wants just sex would waste one year dating you ? How can you date a matured guy for a year without sex and your not a Virgin Can she stay a year without sex ? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by 8stargeneral: 9:12am On Dec 12, 2017 |
U refused him sex because he's not attracted to u,but whn he marry u he will be attracted baa...continue dey deceive ur self. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Teeboi56: 9:12am On Dec 12, 2017 |
At 27 u re yet to get married hmmm My own device is dat just pray to God Almighty to give u a Good hubby |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by buffalowings: 9:13am On Dec 12, 2017 |
victorazyvictor: What's her being a virgin got to do with this Victor warn yaself
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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 9:13am On Dec 12, 2017 |
man... this is the height of confusion in one story. you dont like him, you dont want to give him sex so he doent leave you, but you are not attracted to him, you are also not a gold digger, but you are a serial cheater, you are confused, you dont know what to do. you are liking someone youve not seen before, but you are not attracted to someone you are familiar with... in Iyanya's voice* I bow for you, I bow for you, only if you gree to be my booo....baby girl i bow for you.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Leemekzy: 9:13am On Dec 12, 2017 |
4get about him. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by mrphysics(m): 9:13am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:Please be mindful of this doctors oo. They are just there because ladies feel they have money or they will never be out of job. And the abroad guy will just marry you and keep you here. Don't be pressured into any relationship because you are 27. It's obvious you are forcing yourself into a relationship. Take your time, its never late let alone too late. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by exlinklodge: 9:14am On Dec 12, 2017 |
You refused him sex and he is your fiancee Is that an issue? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by kingandamy4life(m): 9:14am On Dec 12, 2017 |
My dear friend, i am speaking from a pastor point of view now. There are so many things going through your head now and you need to be calm. Please before you make this life handcuff decision, please seek the face of God first and he will direct you. Secondly, you are already doubting this doctor in Anambara and you don't even trust him.my opinion, run as fast as you can and my reason is this he just want to eat you and and go. i tell you, if any man is interested in marrying you sex will be the last thing on his mind cos he will have it everyday and even get tired of it. he does not mean well for you at all so please decease from that relationship. Thirdly, for the guy in Canada, keep your options open with him. don't make hasty promises to him but like i said seek Gods approval concerning him too. i will ask you now to please pray and pray and get your convictions right and you can make your decision...all the best my dear |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by doughziay: 9:14am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Don't let sex be a reason the Doc guy will give attention to you. Every woman can give sex, if you decline him, he surely will get it elsewhere. Don't get pressed by his demand and don't let the fear of the unknown allow you make decisions u'll later regret. To the guy based outside the country, how much do you know him and why do you keep two men to yourself. Use your discretion. you alone know whom your heart goes with. seek God and he'll lead you. |
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