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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Horlla400: 9:40am On Dec 12, 2017 |
sister just stay calm,all have seen from what have being reading earlier means u dont trust any of them but u are just trying to be sure i think u should live the doctor for good and wait for the right man who yo will be attracted to....dont lose hope the better days ahead |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Banter1(m): 9:40am On Dec 12, 2017 |
All i hear is, i wanna marry the guy abroad so that he will take me to obodo y.i.b.o. Babe, you're not going anywhere, you aint excaping to no where, we are in this shit of a country together. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by stanliwise(m): 9:41am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ourown:and what is wrong being 27 |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by 400billionman: 9:41am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: The doctor you are calling fiancee, have you met his family ? If he wants to sleep with you, let him marry you first. But its obvious all ladies lose your brains when you hear ABROAD. There is nothing abroad if you don't have a good job. NOTHING IS FREE. get the message. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by ceda99: 9:43am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Stay dia & be waiting for abroad guy u haven't met before, he's probably dia living his life and probably dating. he'll come back when u start pushing 40 and abandon u for a much younger lady |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by jonnytad(m): 9:43am On Dec 12, 2017 |
I've been following the thread frm the first page to where it is now, Many awesome comments, Many awful comments. I think everyone that evn took out time to comment deserve a plus. Positive or Negative. I want you to know that someone that loves you deeply will do everything to keep you, and includes keeping what you cherish. I want you to know that someone that loves you will never judge you by your past, so don't be afraid to meet new person. I want you to know that your body is precious to God, your virginity is worth keeping. U've come this far, don't give it up. Pple like me still respect virgins. (don't mind me, am nt a pastor) So, pls don't be afraid to let go of the doctor, be open to the Canadian guy, but don't be deceived He can come back to demand sex from you too. Talk to God, its not even too late to start afresh. You can still meet someone that'll prove to you that you are worthy of the best of God. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by realhonips: 9:45am On Dec 12, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by transient123(m): 9:45am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Either way, you are yet to get to your bus stop. Look for another bus stop. I don't see any of these guys as your bus stop. The so called doctor is a thief, while the Canadian dude is someone you seem to be infantuating on because you are chatting with a prospective Canadian citizen. At your age, this isn't the kind of advice you should be seeking. Wise up and take your destiny to your own hands, pray for wisdom and spell out what you need in a man. Thanks. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by goodnessme02: 9:46am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Daniel2289: my guy, you're a murderer ooo |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by goldedprince: 9:47am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:No you shouldn't, you should read my book of bible stories to him |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 9:47am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: People always change, sometimes you don't see there motive just yet. The doctor guy I'd give him some space and continue living. When he starts back speaking to you again tell him that you are not ready to be physical and your reasons!!! He can either blow up or be content and continue to be in your life. You have to ask yourself why are you talking to the doctor guy? Why does he interest You? The pin pal in Canada........He's just someone you are getting to know. You only know what he tells you. Actions speak louder than words sweetie. Maybe he'll come maybe he won't. Even when he comes don't think it's just for you. You young and beautiful, don't feel like you have to choose cause you don't! When the right one comes along you'll both know and choose each other. Your heart will know! |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by richard69(m): 9:47am On Dec 12, 2017 |
You don't even sound intelligent. Are you sure you're 27? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by DivneFavour(m): 9:49am On Dec 12, 2017 |
What do you really want with the doctor that you are not attracted to? Since you don't have that feeling for him, forget him. or are you desperate to get married? As for the Canadian, just play nice with him while you pray for better option. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by skedy1(m): 9:50am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ahmiee: One cold origin 4 dis babe! |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by gozie112(m): 9:50am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ahmiee:best advice so far 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by adatemi: 9:51am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:. My dear! First of all, you need to love, cherish & believe in yourself, when you do this then you'll be able to make good decisions. Why are you calling him your fiancé when you're not sexually attracted to him? "But I'm not ready to have sex with him cos I'm not attracted to him". And "I'm worried right now. I feel like he will leave me after he succeeds in having sex with me. That's why I refused him sex". Your man is out there so don't be in a hurry or you'll regret it. Best of luck! |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: I think thats a lie though, A lie you told to yourself & constantly convincing yourself. If you are attracted to him, you have given him the cookie a long time, commitment OR not. Sex is not that hard to get. Besides what are you doing with a look a like 40 year old man? Aren't there Early 30's or late 20's guys out there? There are a lot of Men looking for a wife to settle down with, You are probably in the wrong circle. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by brainiac228(m): 9:52am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Hold on to God in prayers. Thats al i can say. Dating two guys at once is inappropraite. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by dnawah(m): 9:53am On Dec 12, 2017 |
thatsincerechic:how old are you?good advice there. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Sotland: 9:54am On Dec 12, 2017 |
WELL SAID.......................... lookatew: |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 9:55am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Where is ur picture I can only advise when I see ur pics |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Worksunlimited: 9:56am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Forgive me! But I don't understand something.. You aren't attracted to the doctor (I understand this wan), yet you went to his house, where he initiated an attempt to have sex with you (this wan I don't understand, you no like am, yet you go im house, shay na the attraction wey you no get for am before, na im you go check if you fit find am for im house ni!? I would give it to you straight.. You are letting your loneliness push you to make the wrong choices.. Free the doctor guy and continue with the Canada dude ( I just hope your attraction to this guy isn't cos he is based abroad). Dating two guys at the same time!? .. Women sef.. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by godfrey01(m): 9:56am On Dec 12, 2017 |
a bird at hand is better than a thousand bird in the bush. At 27, you are still stingy with sex, it is well with you. my sister, sex is not marriage and stop thinking he will abandon you after having sex with you. If he loves you, he will surely marry you. So stop thinking like a child and give him that thing to taste so that he knows what he wants to pay for |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by RickandMorty: 9:57am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: You're a complete idi0t aren't you? Be honest, you don't even know the reason why you make the decisions you make. Why are even afriad that someone who you are not attracted to would leave you? Whats there to fear? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by mcayomind: 9:58am On Dec 12, 2017 |
shugamummy: Thanks to you a million time, you just hit the bacon to the deck.... At thirties, why we I date you If I can't have sex with you in the first places? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Trailblazer8197(m): 10:01am On Dec 12, 2017 |
[quote author=savvy12 post=63196891] Nne I'll love to discuss something helpful with you. Pls. What options do I have of contacting you? Da'alu!!! |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by TonyRoland(m): 10:02am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:fellow ur hrt funke! |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by masks(m): 10:02am On Dec 12, 2017 |
thatsincerechic:nice advice dear... |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by thatsincerechic(f): 10:04am On Dec 12, 2017 |
dnawah:Thank you |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by holybabayo(m): 10:05am On Dec 12, 2017 |
One of My Finaces This world don spoil finish. I tell u d truth, you are not faithful |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 10:05am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ourown:you don see am now. I say it, most ladies that are well over 26 and aren't married or in any meaningful relationship are the cause of their problems. Nothing spiritual. A guy that waited upto a year before initiating sex is unattractive because she is chatting with some dude screwing another lady in Canada, a guy she met 3 months ago. . At 30, you will see her carrying bible and praying |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by thotianna: 10:06am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Miss OP I just wanted to tell you to ignore the offensive comments on this thread. To be honest Nairaland isn't a good place to seek for advice like the one you are seeking for. Many people here are either struggling to pass JAMB exam or WAEC/GCE or are undergraduates in the university with no real world experience so of course they will come online to type rubbish. Don't take them serious, especially the fools calling you a gold digger because they are poor as anything so they hate the idea of spending their meager cash on a woman. Nairaland once did a census and 80% of the people here are actually those between 15 to 23 years. I will post the thread if I can find it. Ask your real life friends for advice or ask your family. 1 Like |
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