Jupxter:



Abi...She's mature and deep baa?

exactly bro and she knows her worth...seriously she is deep and intelligent am sure you notice that about her too

sirBLUNT:
exactly bro and she knows her worth...seriously she is deep and intelligent am sure you notice that about her too

If half the chicks on this forum had her mentality, they won't be single

Jupxter:



If half the chicks on this forum had her mentality, they won't be single

seconded we need more of her type though i have met quite a few like her on this forum but she is different..she can hold down an intelligent conversation and thats what i like about her

sirBLUNT:
seconded we need more of her type though i have met quite a few like her on this forum but she is different..she can hold down an intelligent conversation and thats what i like about her

na maturity na...she didnt get there one day

Jupxter:


na maturity na...she didnt get there one day

naso..una two join together no go bad oo

sirBLUNT:
naso..una two join together no go bad oo

Explain

Jupxter:


Explain

you know exactly what i mean bro

sirBLUNT:
you know exactly what i mean bro

Haba. You have a deek too nau

Jupxter:



Haba. You have a deek too nau

lol..i never mature i still dey learn for where you dey

sirBLUNT:
lol..i never mature i still dey learn for where you dey

What makes you think so highly of this dude here? We're both monikers, why qualify yourself lower?

sirBLUNT:
i envy the guy that will marry you...
goodmoney!

Me too. I envy him. Cos he will be one very lucky guy. But I think I will be more lucky to have him.

ubunja:

misjoy let me gatecrash your convo.
maybe u can answer me a question i've been thinking on for quiet a while
why do women give more respect to their boss than their husband?or value their pastor's word above their man's?

your words " the man should not be the ruler" reminded me.

Hmmmm...I don't know about every woman. But I can speak for myself.
Yes, there was a time I made that mistake of allowing a man of God get into my head concerning a relationship I was into then. The guy never forgave the man & I for it. Especially cos of the motive behind the man's intention. I felt I was doing the right thing. In fact, I was. Just that I didn't handle it well.

What am I trying to say? I was gullible then. That was a flaw. Which is what is the problem with most ladies that respect their boss/Pastor more than their husband. But I'd like to think such can't happen again to me. I may have been gullible then, but I'm definitely not stupid.

Hope I answered you.

MissJoy29:

Hmmmm...I don't know about every woman. But I can speak for myself.
Yes, there was a time I made that mistake of allowing a man of God get into my head concerning a relationship I was into then. The guy never forgave the man & I for it. Especially cos of the motive behind the man's intention. I felt I was doing the right thing. In fact, I was. Just that I didn't handle it well.

What am I trying to say? I was gullible then. That was a flaw. Which is what is the problem with most ladies that respect their boss/Pastor more than their husband. But I'd like to think such can't happen again to me. I may have been gullible then, but I'm definitely not stupid.

Hope I answered you.

so its a case of " i learnt from my mistake"
the same gospel repeated by every woman on every topic.
another question: why do women insist on making a mistake themselves instead of learning from another's mistake and choosing a different path altogether?

ubunja:

so its a case of " i learnt from my mistake"
the same gospel repeated by every woman on every topic.
another question: why do women insist on making a mistake themselves instead of learning from another's mistake and choosing a different path altogether?

Yeah, I learnt from my mistake. Which is not a bad thing or is it?

You know, women are naturally gullible and impressionable than men. Reason why I feel the serpent didn't even bother to go to Adam and twist his brain until Eve came along. I'm sure you would have noticed that we have more females in Churches than males. It's also tied to the fact that women are more gullible and impressionable. It's easier(in most cases) to convince a lady to do something, whether good or bad than a man(my opinion though).

A lot of ladies haven't realised this flaw / weakness yet. That's why we misbehave a lot. Find that lady who knows about this & you will see she won't be easily swayed.

Your last question doesn't only apply to females. Everyone makes mistakes. Some learn through direct experience. While some learn through indirect experience.

MissJoy29:

Yeah, I learnt from my mistake. Which is not a bad thing or is it?

You know, women are naturally gullible and impressionable than men. Reason why I feel the serpent didn't even bother to go to Adam and twist his brain until Eve came along. I'm sure you would have noticed that we have more females in Churches than males. It's also tied to the fact that women are more gullible and impressionable. It's easier(in most cases) to convince a lady to do something, whether good or bad than a man(my opinion though).

A lot of ladies haven't realised this flaw / weakness yet. That's why we misbehave a lot. Find that lady who knows about this & you will see she won't be easily swayed.

Your last question doesn't only apply to females. Everyone makes mistakes. Some learn through direct experience. While some learn through indirect experience.

nice answer. gives me a lot of food for thought. especially the points on Eve and the fact that more females are churchgoers than males.
i guess its the same reason why 80% of shopping is by women and why 90% of all advertising is aimed at women. female impressionability.

learning from one's mistake is not a bad thing generally.but men have a big problem with it when it comes to women. not that men have double standards or anything. but becoz women's bodies tend to "show" those mistakes like "scars".
a gal may waste her youth whorin and repent of her actions by 30.its OK.but her body would have taken a beating from the wild days. sagging boobs.borehole pvssy.fatherless kids. thats the thing men have a problem with that women seem unable to get.
u may say boys dont sag boobs.but guys dont believe it.and are not prepared to listen.
mistakes do happen.but sometimes they leave their mark.
can u even imagine how it would have been if the Biblical Prodigal Son was a Daughter? and did all the things the boy did before coming to her senses?

MissJoy29:

Me too. I envy him. Cos he will be one very lucky guy. But I think I will be more lucky to have him.

cant wait to see who is the lucky dude!

Jupxter:


What makes you think so highly of this dude here? We're both monikers, why qualify yourself lower?

maybe my instincts..but am definately not condenscing myself..

sirBLUNT:
cant wait to see who is the lucky dude!

oh! You won't be disappointed.

MissJoy29:

oh! You won't be disappointed.

sure i will never be disappointed i will just be surprise!

ubunja:

nice answer. gives me a lot of food for thought. especially the points on Eve and the fact that more females are churchgoers than males.
i guess its the same reason why 80% of shopping is by women and why 90% of all advertising is aimed at women. female impressionability.

learning from one's mistake is not a bad thing generally.but men have a big problem with it when it comes to women. not that men have double standards or anything. but becoz women's bodies tend to "show" those mistakes like "scars".
a gal may waste her youth whorin and repent of her actions by 30.its OK.but her body would have taken a beating from the wild days. sagging boobs.borehole pvssy.fatherless kids. thats the thing men have a problem with that women seem unable to get.
u may say boys dont sag boobs.but guys dont believe it.and are not prepared to listen.
mistakes do happen.but sometimes they leave their mark.
can u even imagine how it would have been if the Biblical Prodigal Son was a Daughter? and did all the things the boy did before coming to her senses?

Hmmmm...deep.
I get where you are coming from now. Women are really unfortunate in that area. Our body betray us more. A friend of mine once told me that he can identify a promiscuous woman most times by the colour of her inner thighs. He seems to think that a woman that has so much sperm from different men spill on her thighs will have skin discolouration. That's one of the cases of the betrayal I'm talking about.

And I don't blame men for feeling bad about it. They are lucky their body is the way it is. It doesn't show the signs of wear and tear like our bodies except if the person contracts an std.

Exactly @the prodigal son. If it were to be a female, I don't think she would have survived it. Lol

May God help us

Times have changed

sirBLUNT:
sure i will never be disappointed i will just be surprise!

Suprised? Why?

MissJoy29:

Suprised? Why?

lol not surprise in that way but surprise that he has such an amazing woman with so many attritudes...that alot of men will wish they where him

Kobicove:
Times have changed

but does it mean we should?

sirBLUNT:
lol not surprise in that way but surprise that he has such an amazing woman with so many attritudes...that alot of men will wish they where him

Awwwww...so sweet
Thanks dear.

pocohantas:
Menist have overtaken the thread. Women are the problem, men are near perfect. Women change o!!!

i usually see post from feminist and their myopic view. Always seeing things from their gender bias.

Today I am seeing another angle. Menists shifting blame.

Selflessness and Rationalism are two qualities that beat any other.

MissJoy29:
Awwwww...so sweet Thanks dear.

akwaaba!

sirBLUNT:
akwaaba!

Do you have Ghanian roots?

MissJoy29:
Do you have Ghanian roots?

something like that...i was born there..

sirBLUNT:
something like that...i was born there..

Ok... no wonder.
I love the country

Have so many questions but I can't ask here. I respect privacy.

MissJoy29:

Ok... no wonder.
I love the country

Have so many questions but I can't ask here. I respect privacy.

yea ghana is a cool country i think makydebbie will know alot about ghana than i do she is a ghanian with a pure naija blood...but you can ask me anything about GH privately and i will tell you what i know

sirBLUNT:
yea ghana is a cool country i think makydebbie will know alot about ghana than i do she is a ghanian with a pure naija blood...but you can ask me anything about GH privately and i will tell you what i know

ok...sure.