Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by drnoel: 2:53pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ubunja:
continue feeling sorry for people who send money to strangers and see how far that will get you. Bros doesn't matter to me one way or another. I can't count how many times have done similar, whats important is what u do not what people think of u 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by ubunja(m): 2:55pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
drnoel:
Bros doesn't matter to me one way or another. I can't count how many times have done similar, whats important is what u do not what people think of u no ways!! that guy sent hoping for sex not beingba good man 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by drnoel: 3:03pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ubunja:
no ways!! that guy sent hoping for sex not beingba good man U think so, I thought he said he didnt wish for anything. Anyways what do I know |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by KrystosCJ(m): 3:06pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
The ONLY mistake I see that you made is posting your encounter with the woman in a public forum, like NL.
These are private matters that need privacy. What did you think you would receive? Validation? Kudos? Closure? |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Stevengerd(m): 3:14pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
My Experience last october made me vow never to help anybody except my silbling, when it comes to money matter. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by sekem: 3:14pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
lilyheaven:
Yes o, like please can you send some money, I want to change my phone Not that You can't tell a girl that unless she's like your sugar mommy Every heterosexual matured male knows there's one major thing we want from the ladies That's what I am talking about 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Generaldickson: 3:36pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
martyns303:
didn't see her as anything, it was just a random act of kindness.
Random indeed. Fool. If na guy now u no go hlp. Ode... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Vikky014(f): 3:37pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
martyns303: I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.
mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.
fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.
Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.
December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.
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I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help. some girls no get shame o...nah waoh |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by sharpwriter(m): 4:00pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
martyns303: I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.
mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Bro.... you try, you don do your own... no mind all these people insulting you. People and minds are not created the same way. We all learn lessons. PS: I see you be sure man. I'm interested to know about your business. I would like you to PM me. no vex 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Hardware77(m): 4:11pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt: Na wetin good for you be dat idiot boy! If na your fellow man like you ask for money to do something tangible, you no go give am. Na light skinned woman you go dey give money. Ashawoboy like you.
You mumu so tay u just dey ignore call without telling her what she did wrong. You suppose tell her before you block her so she go learn. Dem plenty for street..looking fine but living like parasites chai... You almost embarrassed me before my boss.lwkm |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Lol it’s not funny but I do know that you don’t spend money on anyone who you really don’t know like that or love most times you will be funding their excesses the best thing is to teach them how to pray 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by seunayeni(m): 4:51pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
u've done right, but I believe u did to a point where she felt she can get away with any story she tells u....next time be cautious. |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by gbogboija: 5:20pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Your mumu don do o. You be ATM machine? |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Fawklicant: 5:49pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
martyns303: I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.
mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.
fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.
Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.
December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.
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I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help. Guy leave story. We see grown men and women everyday in need of help on the streets everyday in form of beggars, how many have you given 10k? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by amokeme(f): 5:51pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
martyns303:
didn't see her as anything, it was just a random act of kindness. Is good to be kind, but please be cautious about who you want to be kind to. After the first time you assisted her, it would have ended there. I alway pray that may my assistance meet someone in genuine need, and not opportunists. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Rozaytee: 5:56pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Heavance(m): 5:56pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
martyns303: I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.
mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.
fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.
Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.
December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.
Edited:
I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help. People calling you names, are just pained. In fact, they are people that can't stand you when they manage to see you outside 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by amokeme(f): 5:57pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Fawklicant:
Guy leave story. We see grown men and women everyday in need of help on the streets everyday in form of beggars, how many have you given 10k? Is wrong to choose people's charity for them.. He did what he did because he is kind and probably understand what it feels like to be in need. Is just unfortunate his act of kindness met with the wrong person |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Rozaytee: 5:57pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
akiOYIBO:
Liar! You're puszie-gullible man. Admit the truth; you would neva send 10k to your guy for a suit or pair of jeans. kia...person never send dis one shishi...before oo.. |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
My brother, that's the reality with indomie generation girls oo. I totally despise such girls. Once they meet a man, theirs is to extract as much as possible from him. I recently ran away from such a relationship. Those of you blaming op are only proving that you have become hard hearted due to encounters with such |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Ogaonos: 6:21pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
kobosmart: guy na new year stop being a dead guy you no know say na swag to give gal money for no reason instead make you pray to get that kind money, you dey cry about 10 k for nairaland mtchew guy sharrap there.na atm guys lik u na mak ladies dey big headed nwadays.jux tel us u ar a atm maga 2 ur gf.i nw knw y lazy ass slayqueen ar increasing nwadays. |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by prettyaura: 6:40pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Honestly, I don't see anything wrong in what the op has done. abeg why are people calling him names? nawa for Nigerians oo...what is bad in helping someone that actually requested for it? and meanwhile he said there's no emotional attachment..its just a help ooo...may God save us in dis sorry nation called Nigeria. |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by lilyheaven: 7:41pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
sekem:
Not that
You can't tell a girl that unless she's like your sugar mommy
Every heterosexual matured male knows there's one major thing we want from the ladies
That's what I am talking about Lol! Like? I don't understand. |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by kikayboss(m): 7:44pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by kikayboss(m): 7:48pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
prettyaura: Honestly, I don't see anything wrong in what the op has done. abeg why are people calling him names? nawa for Nigerians oo...what is bad in helping someone that actually requested for it? and meanwhile he said there no emotionally attachment..its just a help ooo...may God save us in dis sorry nation called Nigeria. lol, if a guy collects ordinary sachet tomato from you now... You will crucify him... 10k for girl he doesn't have anything with... Abeg guys stop encouraging leeching.. Its not a matter of having the money, once you start they dont stop.... Dont be ashamed to say no.. You don't owe their azz nothing |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by ebukaka12(m): 7:51pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Chikita66: You are a potential maga, she saw it and took advantage of it, truth is she has a boyfriend. you don talk am finish Oh.. been dey wait to see comment like this Chikita66: You are a potential maga, she saw it and took advantage of it, truth is she has a boyfriend. you don talk am finish Oh.. been dey wait to see comment like this |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by kikayboss(m): 7:53pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
martyns303: I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.
mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.
fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.
Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.
December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.
Edited:
I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help. biss abeg i have issues with my phone, i want to buy a new one...you can assist me with anything I'll appreciate.... He won't help me now ooo, you've seen a guy who is in need of help... You wont help... Am still waiting ooo...... Shebi you're running charity |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Icon79(m): 8:43pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Divay22(f): 8:55pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Icon79(m): 8:59pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Haha!! Diva, abi you don't trust your boy again? Listen, babe, nobody plays a playa. Nobody! O pari Divay22:
Hope you won't mumu like the op |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Divay22(f): 9:01pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Icon79: Haha!! Diva, abi you don't trust your boy again?
Listen, babe, nobody plays a playa. Nobody!
O pari
But Cee c is playing Tobi the player.. Be kiaful.... I trust you thou.. Don't fail me |
Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by Icon79(m): 9:14pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
No worries ... you can always count on me, sista. Always In fact, I wish that the op could introduce this girl to me so I can teach her a few "lessons". O pari Divay22:
But Cee c is playing Tobi the player.. Be kiaful.... I trust you thou.. Don't fail me |