I believe the backbone of every relationship is compatibility and not entirely love.Extroverts are direct opposite of introverts, so it's fair to assume that what the former finds interesting might not actually interest the latter.for example, i am an extrovert that loves parties but I am dating an introverted lady. I might actually wanna take her for friends get together party but she would rather sit at home and expect me to join her. When she finally agrees to come, she'd start acting weird while interacting with my peers... It can be really frustrating and that's where the issue of compatibility comes in.

In essence, Can an extrovert date an introvert or the issue of compatibility makes it impossible?

Let's share our experience and thoughts on this.

Amarabae
Iamj
Mynd44
Biacan
Blackhawk03
Kushykush

Why not it takes the understanding and maturity of both parties for this to work out

If you analyse the world population by virtue of that, you will found out that introverts make up 60%, extroverts 20% and the remaining 20% are a mixture of both.
So introvercy is not a weird thing, you are the man in the relationship and you should understand her and make her be comfortable,
It's not that introverts can't be sociable, it's just that they hate to be put on stage unexpectedly ., take her out and meet ur friends, when you do that, don't put her on the spotlight immediately, allow her to settle in into the new environment.
Don't use her to crack unnecessary jokes there,
Understand her, with time, she will develop a strong trust in you and start coming out of the comfort zone.

Amarabae:
If you analyse the world population by virtue of that, you will found out that introverts make up 60%, extroverts 20% and the remaining 20% are a mixture of both.
So introvercy is not a weird thing, you are the man in the relationship and you should understand her and make her be comfortable,
It's not that introverts can't be sociable, it's just that they hate to be put on stage unexpectedly ., take her out and meet ur friends, when you do that, don't put her on the spotlight immediately, allow her to settle in into the new environment.
Don't use her to crack unnecessary jokes there,
Understand her, with time, she will develop a strong trust in you and start coming out of the comfort zone.

where u get dat stats from?

shittalk!

Amarabae:
If you analyse the world population by virtue of that, you will found out that introverts make up 60%, extroverts 20% and the remaining 20% are a mixture of both.
So introvercy is not a weird thing, you are the man in the relationship and you should understand her and make her be comfortable,
It's not that introverts can't be sociable, it's just that they hate to be put on stage unexpectedly ., take her out and meet ur friends, when you do that, don't put her on the spotlight immediately, allow her to settle in into the new environment.
Don't use her to crack unnecessary jokes there,
Understand her, with time, she will develop a strong trust in you and start coming out of the comfort zone.

So people will never step out of their comfort zone cos nowadays, so many articles on the internet tend to glorify introversion.This makes introverts become more introverted.

The major problem i have with introverts is that they expect you to read their minds.

biacan:
Why not it takes the understanding and maturity of both parties for this to work out

can I send you a pm

Kalapizim:
can I send you a pm

Your dp though

biacan:
Your dp though

Remember you can't judge a book from its cover. so whayasay

Kalapizim:
Remember you can't judge a book from its cover. so whayasay

Military men are complicated

Amarabae:
If you analyse the world population by virtue of that, you will found out that introverts make up 60%, extroverts 20% and the remaining 20% are a mixture of both.
So introvercy is not a weird thing, you are the man in the relationship and you should understand her and make her be comfortable,
It's not that introverts can't be sociable, it's just that they hate to be put on stage unexpectedly ., take her out and meet ur friends, when you do that, don't put her on the spotlight immediately, allow her to settle in into the new environment.
Don't use her to crack unnecessary jokes there,
Understand her, with time, she will develop a strong trust in you and start coming out of the comfort zone.

Good advice, but your stats though. Good advice

biacan:
Military men are complicated

well I am not one yet my dear.

Kalapizim:
well I am not one yet my dear.

Nope you can't send a pm

Kalapizim:
can I send you a pm

What's the origin of your moniker?

biacan:
Nope you can't send a pm

OK, cheers

peterphd:

What's the origin of your moniker?

Kallapizim Barracks Kaduna

biacan:
Military men are complicated

haba ! Very unfair aunty

CaptainStephen:
haba ! Very unfair aunty

What's haba aunty that's the truth

I love dating extroverts they bring out the vibe in me.

biacan:
What's haba aunty that's the truth

its an unfair prejudice ma, we are not complicated.

Lol
Mine was one hell of a relationship then

CaptainStephen:
its an unfair prejudice ma, we are not complicated.

Yes you are until the day you learn to treat people like humans that's when we begin to take you seriously but as for now you guys are nothing to write about

biacan:
Yes you are until the day you learn to treat people like humans that's when we begin to take you seriously but as for now you guys are nothing to write about

We treat humans well, unfortunately wrong elements amongst us have dented the image of the Army. Don't turn down the brother on this account na.
From a gentle man.

CaptainStephen:
We treat humans well, unfortunately wrong elements amongst us have dented the image of the Army. Don't turn down the brother on this account na.
From a gentle man.

He already turned himself down by lying in the first place

Chikita66:
I love dating extroverts they bring out the vibe in me.

So small girl like you don dey date sef

O ja mi la ra je!

biacan:
He already turned himself down by lying in the first place

Lol,
He did write 'not yet', meaning he could still be a recruit, or still in training

biacan:
He already turned himself down by lying in the first place

lie bawo ! I am 'not yet' an Officer ! how is it a lie na

Kalapizim:
lie bawo ! I am 'not yet' an Officer ! how is it a lie na

But you told the other guy you are

Mentally and sensually exhilarating..

biacan:
But you told the other guy you are

No I didn't, he asked for a reason behind my moniker and I answered kallapizim barracks. It is important to clear the air

Kalapizim:
No I didn't, he asked for a reason behind my moniker and I answered kallapizim barracks. It is important to clear the air

Are u S.G by initials

biacan:
Military men are complicated

Oboi...looks like u've alredy projectd the outcome of the PM

Brother jus wana be frnds