In one of my threads someone said who said only men can propose? so I tried to look at it from a feminist point of view, and it makes sense but then let's be realistic if we want to follow the white man and their way of life, over there, they dont pay dairy or bride price, they just go to the court and get married or go to the church and get married, but it's not that way in africa, here, they pay your bride price, they do all the traditional stuffs first before even doing any other thing, so as a feminist I feel the first thing we should do is to focus on eradicating stuffs like that, "bride price" and all..but do you know the funny thing? those same women that said oh who said only a man can propose, are going to counter my statement!! and facts is if we r talking about women proposing in africa we should first follow that step, if not, a woman proposing in africa is the most stupid thing to do(worked 4 you? Hallelujah) because you're not the one paying his groom price!! spare me that jargon about proposing to a guy!!! we can't climb the ladder from the last step but from the first, this is africa not london!! Or better still let women start paying groom prices!! Haha haha

lemme book space and wait for others to comment

What do you mean by from a feminist POV and how did feminism come in here? Don't tell me you're one of the few girls dragging feminism in the mud due to your misconception of what true feminist/feminism stands for.

kimbraa:
What do you mean by from a feminist POV and how did feminism come in here? Don't tell me you're one of the few girls dragging feminism in the mud due to your misconception of what true feminist/feminism stands for.

what misconception please!! Explain!! Cause if u see a man paying a womans bride price as equality in any way!!!! I will like to know ur reasons!!

Shugavee:
In one of my threads someone said who said only men can propose? so I tried to look at it from a feminist point of view, and it makes sense but then let's be realistic if we want to follow the white man and their way of life, over there, they dont pay dairy or bride price, they just go to the court and get married or go to the church and get married, but it's not that way in africa, here, they pay your bride price, they do all the traditional stuffs first before even doing any other thing, so as a feminist I feel the first thing we should do is to focus on eradicating stuffs like that, "bride price" and all..but do you know the funny thing? those same women that said oh who said only a man can propose, are going to counter my statement!! and facts is if we r talking about women proposing in africa we should first follow that step, if not, a woman proposing in africa is the most stupid thing to do(worked 4 you? Hallelujah) because you're not the one paying his groom price!! spare me that jargon about proposing to a guy!!! we can't climb the ladder from the last step but from the first, this is africa not london!! Or better still let women start paying groom prices!! Haha haha

"but then let's be realistic if we want to follow the white man and their way of life, over there"

"this is africa not london!!"

Do you even think before typing?

safiaaBUTTHOLE:



"but then let's be realistic if we want to follow the white man and their way of life, over there"

"this is africa not london!!"

Do you even think before typing?

no am waiting 4 u!! Satisfied?

Everybody is now claiming feminist, even ladies that don't know the meaning of it.

lol just see how these cheap broke selfish females are pretending not to understand the post its hillarious to death.
what is not clear kimbraa, chikita66 and safiaabuthole?
its clear as daylight dont dodge.if you claim equality to men then shoulder your responsiblities also.thats the reason even Feminism is not taken seriously in South Africa.a woman goes on a long speech about women deserving equal pay for equal work and demanding men pull their weight in the kitchen; that woman is asked Are you ready to pay your own bride price as an Empowered Woman?then she starts yapping on about african tradition and how its the role of men to pay! one Feminist on radio was straight up told by a caller 'Fvck You!!'

ubunja:
lol just see how these cheap broke selfish females are pretending not to understand the post its hillarious to death.
what is not clear kimbraa, chikita66 and safiaabuthole?
its clear as daylight dont dodge.if you claim equality to men then shoulder your responsiblities also.thats the reason even Feminism is not taken seriously in South Africa.a woman goes on a long speech about women deserving equal pay for equal work and demanding men pull their weight in the kitchen; that woman is asked Are you ready to pay your own bride price as an Empowered Woman?then she starts yapping on about african tradition and how its the role of men to pay! one Feminist on radio was straight up told by a caller 'Fvck You!!'

Point of correction, am not a feminist.

Chikita66:
Point of correction, am not a feminist.

but you saw the need to dismiss OP as someone who didnt understand what Feminism is!
attention seeking much?

ubunja:

but you saw the need to dismiss OP as someone who didnt understand what Feminism is!
attention seeking much?

Knowing the meaning of feminism doesn't mean I am one, knowing the meaning actually made me decide not to be one.

Chikita66:
Knowing the meaning of feminism doesn't mean I am one, knowing the meaning actually made me decide not to be one.

thats not the point.
the point is why diss OP 's pecierved misunnderstanding of Feminism when OP was making a valid arguement.why?

Shugavee:
In one of my threads someone said who said only men can propose? so I tried to look at it from a feminist point of view, and it makes sense but then let's be realistic if we want to follow the white man and their way of life, over there, they dont pay dairy or bride price, they just go to the court and get married or go to the church and get married, but it's not that way in africa, here, they pay your bride price, they do all the traditional stuffs first before even doing any other thing, so as a feminist I feel the first thing we should do is to focus on eradicating stuffs like that, "bride price" and all..but do you know the funny thing? those same women that said oh who said only a man can propose, are going to counter my statement!! and facts is if we r talking about women proposing in africa we should first follow that step, if not, a woman proposing in africa is the most stupid thing to do(worked 4 you? Hallelujah) because you're not the one paying his groom price!! spare me that jargon about proposing to a guy!!! we can't climb the ladder from the last step but from the first, this is africa not london!! Or better still let women start paying groom prices!! Haha haha

nobody will collect your money
Not even sugar boy
You will die alone

Chikita66:
Point of correction, am not a feminist.

so what are you
A ManiSt?
You wen be ringleader

MIKOLOWISKA:
so what are you
A ManiSt?
You wen be ringleader

The fact that I don't support some things men do towards women doesn't mean that I believe men and women should be equal, each gender especially the male gender should have respect and treat the female gender with respect and accord.

ubunja:

thats not the point.
the point is why diss OP 's pecierved misunnderstanding of Feminism when OP was making a valid arguement.why?

And who told you that she was making a valid point?

Chikita66:
The fact that I don't support some things men do towards women doesn't mean that I believe men and women should be equal, each gender especially the male gender should have respect and treat the female gender with respect and accord.

I hear

Chikita66:
Everybody is now claiming feminist, even ladies that don't know the meaning of it.

my sister I tire

Chikita66:
And who told you that she was making a valid point?

and who told you she was not
the "definition of femimism you know yet are not a feminist?" please! give us a break...take your stupidity and go jump off a bridge...

ubunja:

and who told you she was not
the "definition of femimism you know yet are not a feminist?" please! give us a break...take your stupidity and go jump off a bridge...

I'm done with you, piss off!!!

Chikita66:
I'm done with you, piss off!!!

be done with your hatred of sense.
if a woman claims equality to man then that equality must extend to finances.
if you cant understand this, then you are worse than the feminists you claim to hate.

ubunja:

be done with your hatred of sense.
if a woman claims equality to man then that equality must extend to finances.
if you cant understand this, then you are worse than the feminists you claim to hate.

When and where did I claim equality to man? are you listening to yourself right now?

ubunja:
lol just see how these cheap broke selfish females are pretending not to understand the post its hillarious to death.
what is not clear kimbraa, chikita66 and safiaabuthole?
its clear as daylight dont dodge.if you claim equality to men then shoulder your responsiblities also.thats the reason even Feminism is not taken seriously in South Africa.a woman goes on a long speech about women deserving equal pay for equal work and demanding men pull their weight in the kitchen; that woman is asked Are you ready to pay your own bride price as an Empowered Woman?then she starts yapping on about african tradition and how its the role of men to pay! one Feminist on radio was straight up told by a caller 'Fvck You!!'

fact is, nigerian feminist only talk abt feminism when it favours them!!! But thats not real feminism!!! They never fight 4 it, but they alll talk abt it when it comes to domestic violence,and rape!!! Why will a real feminist see a problem with this write up Thats because they aint one!!!! Alot of them are not!! Some claim not to be feminists, but they find themselves talking abt gender issues!!! But end it with am not a feminist!! If u were told to go back to 50 years when women were nothing, will u ? they say no!! But the enjoyment n privileges u hv today were made by feminist!!! Give a vaild contribution if u hv anything to say, they won't, but wanna pretend to be smart!!

Chikita66:
When and where did I claim equality to man? are you listening to yourself right now?

you said you were done with me..
learn to carry out your threats.be gone.

ubunja:
lol just see how these cheap broke selfish females are pretending not to understand the post its hillarious to death.
what is not clear ki.mbraa, chikita66 and safiaabuthole?
its clear as daylight dont dodge.if you claim equality to men then shoulder your responsiblities also.thats the reason even Feminism is not taken seriously in South Africa.a woman goes on a long speech about women deserving equal pay for equal work and demanding men pull their weight in the kitchen; that woman is asked Are you ready to pay your own bride price as an Empowered Woman?then she starts yapping on about african tradition and how its the role of men to pay! one Feminist on radio was straight up told by a caller 'Fvck You!!'

Are you ok?

Shugavee:
what misconception please!! Explain!! Cause if u see a man paying a womans bride price as equality in any way!!!! I will like to know ur reasons!!

First off, define 'feminism' then relate the definition to the load of crap you wrote. Most of you misinformed so-called feminist assume feminism is all about equality when you barely know what equality feminist seek for.

kimbraa:
Are you ok?

thats basically the same question i asked you?
coz your gibberish about OP defining feminism blah blah blah was a brainless senseless waste of words not even related to OP's question about bride prices.
you responded to a clear question with a bucketful of confused words i had to ask myself 'Did this female even read OP's post

Groom prices will change nothing . It might even worsen the current state of affairs. Isn't "groom price" practiced in India? Isn't India still one of the worst countries for a woman to be in?

You'll be using your money to buy men and their scumness . Aunty sit down and enjoy the benefits of inequality

kimbraa:
First off, define 'feminism' then relate the definition to the load of crap you wrote. Most of you misinformed so-called feminist assume feminism is all about equality when you barely know what equality feminist seek for.

i am a socialist feminist i know exactly what social feminism seeks 4!! Ask google!! Now what does ur own feminism seeks 4 Two questions asked!!! First whats the misconception n 2ndly what does ur feminism seek 4!!! If u dont want to answer these questions, please i see no reason u r here!! U can school me to understand ur school of thought!!! N please indicate the particular feminism u idenify with while making ir point n let it be flow with ur points

ubunja:

[s] thats basically the same question i asked you?
coz your gibberish about OP defining feminism blah blah blah was a brainless senseless waste of words not even related to OP's question about bride prices.
you responded to a clear question with a bucketful of confused words i had to ask myself 'Did this female even read OP's post [/s]

If you desire for 'cheap likes' just mention and I'll give you some. That you think my question was unrelated to the topic of discourse makes me give up on you.