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Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by ayo2shine(m): 6:48pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
A woman will always be a woman, age isn't a major factor all the time,marriage with older person can be wonderful, they can be funny at times, any of are attitude might have meaning, she can be rude,want to be in control, not homely, wish to be worshipped ,which is normal but all this might sometimes send negative signal.....but my advice keep the age different to urself to have a good home 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Tvegas(m): 6:50pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak: I am concerned about the bolded. Being religious is not a good thing. I believe you meant to say Godly which is more like it. At her age she is expected to be all youve listed. You hardly see a 35 years old looking for tall-dark-hansome. What about other factors? 1. Her relationship with her family and friends 2. Her career or business plan. Trust me money will play a key role in your marriage and it won't hurt to marry a woman who contributes. 3. Her integrity. Is she an honest person? 4. Is she a flexible giver or its all about her? Above all pray for Gods guidance. I wish you the best. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:50pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
There's one thing I always say to myself when it comes to marriage. My case won't be a do or die affair. If she change and i try my best to make things work, mehn na to divorce. I'm the type that believe there's always a way out, even death is a way out. So OP, if you love her and you believe she love you too, marry her and if she start misbehaving file for a divorce. It is not a do or die affair. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:56pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Tvegas:I like this, guys need to start seeing beyond love, trust, being religious, humbleness in a relationship. There are some women that put their carrier first before their home, some can keep malic, hardly open up (I dislike this type of girls ehn) . I have a friend, if he eat, talk or collect something from his female friends, his bea will start trouble. Guys need to start looking out for other features, honestly love will definitely reduce if other important things are not noted 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by slurity1: 6:56pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak:No advice here can help you but one. Try always to make more money than her, this what will make her remain humble. congratulation for you getting what you love. close your eyes to the age difference pls 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by LAGATA(m): 6:56pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Thatnawtichick: Amen! Amen!! Amen!!! Thank you 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by LAGATA(m): 6:57pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
YelloweWest: Amen, many thanks |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:57pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
LoJ:You're one of the problems we have in Africa. Must we copy everything that the whites do? We were created differently. The color of our skin alone should tell you that. The whites are known for academics and inventions, not marriage. Their marriages are crap, so don't use it as a case study or reference point. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Paulosky1900: 6:57pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
LAGATA: Mr MAN their is a lot differences between 4&7 whereas yours it's just 2yrs just stay mute for the main time and observe....thats my advice for you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by LAGATA(m): 6:58pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
alexialin: Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by LAGATA(m): 6:59pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Paulosky1900: God forbid! I have always been a positive husband. Are u married at all? 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by oshorstan(m): 7:09pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
The governor of ondo state, Akeredolu married his wife who's older than him with 6 years, The older they are, the more they have sense n have experience about life... 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by MackBrooklyn: 7:14pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
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Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Paulosky1900: 7:17pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
LAGATA: been positive doesn't mean if you see fire and entered it by yourself and expect not to be burnt my guy yours might be authentic but the possibility of marrying a lady older than you and expect her to be submissive is like 10% because yours is authentic doesn't mean you will be advising guys to do so..... majority of this our modern ladies are ASSHOLES. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by mustang247: 7:20pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak: Oga why u dey buy newspaper for evening..on a more serious note, I think age is just a number,if she makes u happy and gives u peace of mind, dey with am.it beta u marry a lady of 40 that would give u peace of mind dn a lady of 20 DAT will give u heartache. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Stricker321: 7:26pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Seun: What sort of advise is this |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by David160(m): 7:27pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Bro.... I will never marry a girl older than me by even one day |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 7:29pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
It does not mean anything my brother, forget the age. So far there is love and respect between you both. Have the best marriage dear. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Zirah: 7:31pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
LAGATA: You're truly blessed, Sir. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Motikeke: 7:37pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak: 7yrs difference is way too much. 2yrs would have been better. Life is a choice , make it. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Zirah: 7:38pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Ishilove: Which menopause? Let's hear a word abeg. She's just 35 and you're saying menopause. Did your mum menopause at age 40? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by uselessseun: 7:39pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Seun: I must be blind, I cannot be seeing this We have cause to celebrate folks, the chairman is a bad boy |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Zirah: 7:40pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Paulosky1900: Shatap!!! |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Thebrightest(m): 7:46pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
abbaapple:What did i do wrong? |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by adexpa(m): 7:50pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
My brother, your case is different. Do not allow love which flows due to constant sex to cover u up. It is not bad to marry someone older but, u need to be totally convinced. Disengage urself from sex and pray seriously about it, once u r convinced, u r good to go. No lady of that age will not give u all u mentioned. Just be prayerful about it, do not just conclude on her attitude and some other things u see. I wish u the best. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 7:53pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Safiaa: This is deep! |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by olu690(m): 7:54pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
@35?? you just have to be humble na!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Oluwaiphee: 7:58pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak:So long as you have money, you won't have problems. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Ishilove: 8:06pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Zirah:When menopause sets in, let's say between 50-55 years, and her sexual drive declines, he'll still be in his early to mid-40s. Expand your mind and don't be so quick to comment before thinking. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Oyindidi(f): 8:10pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Ishilove:menopause can set in before 50 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by vuc1(m): 8:14pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Do what you want to do.Be responsible for whatever decision you take.Mind your business and let people mind theirs. The earlier you understand that people are people and you are you, the better for you. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Ishilove: 8:18pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oyindidi:Yes indeed. I read somewhere that today's generation of women are experiencing early onset of menopause more and more often. |
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