I started dating this girl about 7months ago,we were and are still seperated by distance.at the onset of d relationship i couldn't stay without calling at least 30mins per day but recently i've noticed i could stay 3-4days without calling and not feel bad, thinking it was probably distance i invited her to my place and still after she stayed for about 3days and left i still don't feel any different, i'm not seeing any other girl but think i could do that now without hesitation, should i breakup or continue??.i don't know.what do u think?

only you can answer that question.

In the first place why did you ask her out ? If you are not interested, it is better you tell her so that she can move on. I do not know why guys are like that, you are no more interested in a girl and yet you make the girl believe everything is ok.

I can bet you that the poster is a teenager

bubugul:

I can bet you that the poster is a teenager

Lol
If you are tired of the relationship, then tell her.You guys are still so young in the relationship and moving on wont be that much of a problem

Tell her you want out rather you letting her feel there is something when actually you know there is no spark.
My two cent.

@bubugul wat does my being a teenager or not v to do with anytin, so if i was a teenager i shldn't ask questions n learn from others 'experience', please @sophy09 had an attraction wen this started but v obviously lost it.doesn't mean i set out to hurt anyone.

Mhmmm

That's what distance does to good relationships!

Othello18:

@bubugul wat does my being a teenager or not v to do with anytin, so if i was a teenager i shldn't ask questions n learn from others 'experience', please @sophy09 had an attraction wen this started but v obviously lost it.doesn't mean i set out to hurt anyone.

Never mind, the distance alone can solve the problem. I meet a girl in 2007, when I went for GCE @ Ezeagu in Enugu State. She told me that she wil be geting into EBSU, Abakaliki for Medcine. Till today i've never set my eyes on her. So you can see distance has separated for beta consentration. My dear if u cannot afford the cals and all that, just stop and set a sight 4 ur future. Weda 10ager or not, they can make u loose consentration. Lol

Ehn! if u are longer interested tell her so that she can move on rather than letting her feel comfortable.

olayinka.j:

Ehn! if u are longer interested tell her so that she can move on rather than letting her feel comfortable.

Thank u! it's that simple!!

all hail o-tell-o!!

after u had bleeped her, now she is of no use
boy!!!

Yeah you are tired of this relationship

Othello18:

I started dating this girl about 7months ago,we were and are still seperated by distance.at the onset of d relationship i couldn't stay without calling at least 30mins per day but recently i've noticed i could stay 3-4days without calling and not feel bad, thinking it was probably distance i invited her to my place and still after she stayed for about 3days and left i still don't feel any different, i'm not seeing any other girl but think i could do that now without hesitation, should i breakup or continue??.i don't know.what do u think?

r/s are not meant for kids, know what u want b4 going into one and dont give stupid excuses after

How many times have i said it in here that"LDR IS NOT FOR THE FAINT HEARTED".You nid be super and strong hearted.I'm in a LDR and we so Crazily in it that loving via d distance is our religion and we are so so religious.we started it interstate but now it is all international.@poster: what you felt for her was never love.AFFECTION AND ATTRACTION ARE NOT THE SAME.Love is ever sick but never dying.