FluidQueen:
Exactly! I don't get the fuss with the 30-thing.


I have friends at 30s... Beautiful flowers that men practically book appointments to meet because of their busy schedule and Ambitious lifestyle. They are mostly assertive and strong willed, these half-baked men are obviously too scared to approach them because their lights shine so bright, it blinds them.

JasonScolari:
What are you afraid of? Face your fears and kindly set those brothers in the friend zone free.

QueenSuccubus:



Uummm..if u dont like men, maybe u like women ?


Sometimes we have this phase in our life that we cudnt decide what we really want..Some ppol will try to explore & some will juz stay away from it coz they are afraid of consequences...

gloria34:
hmm, too many advice and issues in marriage dey make me fear. I've watched my elder ones get married and d various issues in their homes have really made me see marriage in a different light. I Dont wnt to fail, i'm not sure I can cope with d hrt aches. now I've totally lose interests in relationship and I feel I'm already failing in dis aspect. I confuse

JasonScolari:
Nah, you're not failing. Just face your fears. You won't judge your life or your potential relationship with that of your elder sister... Always remember, One step at a time Gloria.



I wish you well.

gloria34:
thanks

gloria34:
no time 4 long stories, I just can't settle into a relationship. I'm 23, teaching, but d probs is I'm happy when I see people in relationships but I won't dare it on my own. I might talk to a guy on phone, like him, but d minute we meet, 4get it! I just want him as a friend. got lot of guys as friends but having a relationship? it just seem impossible. ladies abeg, have u experience this b4?

gbegemaster:
Probably because you've not met your "eyes" desire. Hope you are not calling far oh. We have some neat wafi bois that are beautiful to behold.

gloria34:
'eyes' desire have been met, personality desire is d probs. only 1 person I met, genotype came in

DonroxyII:
If not because u are "Gloria" I woulda said you are referring to me .. This is exactly what happened !! we just need to move on mehn !

gloria34:
mine was even worse cos we did d test b4 and both showed AA. preparing 4 marriage, church asked us to run d test at a central hospital in warri only to see something different and I was already pregnant. my whole world collapsed

DonroxyII:
That is quite bad , u shoulda done the test in more than 3/4 different places ...... Personally, I ran my test 3 times in 3 different places just to be sure .... I will still run again when I'm set to say "I do" !

hope u good now sha !

gloria34:
sure everything is fine. just can't ho into d dating game, over two yrs now. Mayb I'm just not ready

DonroxyII:
Take ur time bae ! mine was just one month old relationship , she SS she didn't even wanna tell me, I gat to know from her eye balls sha ...... I put it to her and she confirmed it and I told her mine (AS) . everybody just go back to default mode

gloria34:
1 month? we were friends 4 2 yrs b4 we dated 4 3yrs. he was d only 1 I could relate with, funny how things went. still friends tho but he nor easy

DonroxyII:
I can't do that, How can I befriend an ex, Wahala is loading cuz Me I'm d guy, can easily find another bae but she, she gatz wait for a guy that can get to her like I did .....So, if she ain't happy then my new bae is in soup !!

She asked us to be friend but I said Nah nah ..... I can only cross from platonic fwend to romantic fwend , I don't like crossing backward ...

gloria34:
lol, don't 4get we have a son together who needs our love and attention. his school's Inter house sports will b coming on soon and we'll both b present. are we going to go as enemies? perhaps he pays every penny relating to our son, they spends holidays together, how can we achieve all these without being friends?

DonroxyII:
Wow, didn't know u deliver the Preg.
Yeah, for ur son it's necessary .... it ain't gonna be easy sha for both of u .... Esp U !!

gloria34:
although we found out early, couldn't bring ourselves to abort d pregnancy. not as difficult as it seems, got my entire family behind me, he's always they(not always physically but will always send d required cash), he never misses any important event or holiday, and they video chat everyday. I just thank God 4 everything sha

DonroxyII:
Thank God he hold up and May God keep enriching both of u .......

Hope u don't want more of him for yourself , like physical ... hmmm (teasing U) ....

gloria34:
really wish that was possible, but both family will kill us first

DonroxyII:
Lol, U see marriage ain't something to be scared of and don't judge your home based on what happened in others ..... it takes two to tango , first and foremost, find that one that wow u and that u wowed ( it's the difficult part) , every other thing will work itself out from there ...


I always put my marriage in God's hand despite the fact that I ain't there yet ....

gloria34:
'eyes' desire have been met, personality desire is d probs. only 1 person I met, genotype came in

gbegemaster:
Sounds like a familiar story.

Whats your date of birth? Day and Month.

gloria34:
this is serious, wetin that 1 get to do na?

gbegemaster:
Sage? Aqua? Leo? Gem?

QueenSuccubus:



Uummm..if u dont like men, maybe u like women ?


Sometimes we have this phase in our life that we cudnt decide what we really want..Some ppol will try to explore & some will juz stay away from it coz they are afraid of consequences...

Gourdoinc:
I have seen them at 30, dated them at 30, dumped them at 30. also madam this has nothing to do with being sexist. the very notion that sex is consensual isn't a Nigerian thing. we know it in Africa that sex is a woman's way of blessing a man. that being said, the concept of time and cycle isn't something you illogical females understand. everything get e time, everybody is on a constant cycle. you either get with the program or you time and cycle passes away. she is 23, she is on a cycle where men won't let her be, that cycle will soon end, she will get older and men will chase other 23year olds. men like 23 year olds, not this girl in particular. am sure you attended or attend a university. it's the jambito effect. everyone will enjoy the perks of being a fresher, where everyone wants to date you, yet when u now in 300 level and ready to date, very few men bother to ask you out. simply because they are waiting for the jambito cycle. if you are wise learn from all I have said and never miss your own cycle. as expected be ur turn now, that same turn will pass away soon. wise women get all they want while it's their turn, foolish women assume the attention of the men is forever constant and end up dissapointed

biacan:
Never knew you where this wise..... I feel your pain but it's not your fault since we no longer have sincere men out there...... all these boys wants to take advantage of ladies which can never happen.....

biacan:
Never knew you where this wise..... I feel your pain but it's not your fault since we no longer have sincere men out there...... all these boys wants to take advantage of ladies which can never happen.....

gloria34:
no time 4 long stories, I just can't settle into a relationship. I'm 23, teaching, but d probs is I'm happy when I see people in relationships but I won't dare it on my own. I might talk to a guy on phone, like him, but d minute we meet, 4get it! I just want him as a friend. got lot of guys as friends but having a relationship? it just seem impossible. ladies abeg, have u experience this b4?