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7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 11:18pm On Mar 15, 2018
– Dating a poor guy also has its advantages

While many ladies would prefer to marry rich guys, not every guy is rich.

There are many disadvantages of dating a poor guy, one of the them being the fact that guys need finance to run romance, fortunately, there are also some advantages of dating a poor guy.

some of the reasons why are below:



1. No much expectation

It is likely the poor guy would want to accept you the way you are because he would need you to accept him the way he is.

 You can be with him without being afraid that he would criticize you.

That way, you would be able to enjoy being with him as he won’t want a trophy lady.

2. He would be protective

There would be other guys trying to get your attention and he would not want anything or anyone to take you away from him so he would try his best to protect you.

3. He would be a charmer

since he does not have money and he does not want to loose you to the richer guys, he would look for ways to make you happy and keep impressing you.


it is likely he would be a charmer
In fact, it is also likely that he would extend this charm to your family and friends.

That is surely an advantage as it would be fun to watch him charm and play with them.

4.  faithfulness

He won’t have much money to fool around, so it is likely that he would be very faithful to you as he would want to focus on ways to get money.

5. He would remember you when he becomes rich


Behind every successful man, there is a woman. When he hits the jackpot, he would remember you and celebrate you.

6. He would be supportive of your career.

Research has shown that most poor men are very supportive of their girl friend’s career. 

The guy would want to move away from poverty. So, he would try his best to make sure that your career is successful.

7. He would have time to woo you

It is likely that to prove his love for you, he would woo you properly as he won’t be too busy to have time for you. 


Cc lalasticlala move this to fp for all those girls that hav underated guys and settle for playboys and yahoo boys because they are rich..

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 11:22pm On Mar 15, 2018
Ferks good

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Papiikush: 11:33pm On Mar 15, 2018
There is no advantage in dating a poor guy...You'll die of starvation if you try that.

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by zilon12(m): 11:34pm On Mar 15, 2018
why are you encouraging poverty?

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 11:36pm On Mar 15, 2018
The only advantage you get in dating a poor Guy is that you won't grow very fat like rick Ross,, you will grow slim and very tiny which is a good thing but you will not live long..

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 11:41pm On Mar 15, 2018
Papiikush:
There is no advantage in dating a poor guy...You'll die of starvation if you try that.
A realist. grin

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 11:45pm On Mar 15, 2018
DrinkLimca:
The only advantage you get in dating a poor Guy is that you won't grow very fat like rick Ross,, you will grow slim and very tiny which is a good thing but you will not live long..
how did you arrive at this mentality

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by ameri9ja: 11:59pm On Mar 15, 2018
The thread I've been patiently waiting for. So on point! Kudos OP.

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by OfficialAwol(m): 12:07am On Mar 16, 2018
Op, stop giving yourself hope.

"If you no get money, hide your face".

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Ever8054: 12:19am On Mar 16, 2018
how broke guys would be feeling as dey walk majestically into this post...

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 12:30am On Mar 16, 2018
nothing justifies being broke.. I knew my earlier thread would trigger alot of broke fellas..
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 12:35am On Mar 16, 2018
Lol.... There's no solidarity among guys o. Instead of them to support the op shocked
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by LordKO(m): 12:37am On Mar 16, 2018
@OP

Your number 5 caught my attention. Obviously you, just like many other people, have an erroneous understanding about the literal meaning of the saying "behind every successful man, there's a woman." Believe you me that it doesn't automatically has to do with a man on mission to accumulate/cause of accumulating riches.

Meanwhile, other points you mentioned reeked of attitudes of a servile person. Unfortunately the last thing to expect from a servile person in the long run - after emancipation from poverty/actualization of independence - is loyalty. A servile person is hypocrisy personified. Your number 2 for example; you ought to know that fixation doesn't mean caring.

However, financial poverty isn't the worst form of poverty out there. Small-mindedness - ethically and mentally poor people - is.

An ethically and mentally sound man (person) who's financially poor today, may become financially emancipated within a twinkle of an eye. This fact is the very reason why I do pick offense wherever I see small-minded people postulate that every floating wealth or sudden wealth has an evil beneath it.

A responsible lady who's not fortunate to have an already established man is better off sticking with a man with prospects (temporary financially poor but ethically and mentally sane and sound) than putting up with a stark poverty-stricken man who's equally mentally and ethically poor. That being said, there's no advantage a poor man - irrespective of the type of poverty - has over a contemporary sane and sound man with sustainable riches. So a responsible lucky lady is better off with the latter. . . I hold no brief for small-minded men with riches.

On the other hand, for all I care and understand, behind every successful man with sustainable riches is a man that has an understanding of something valuable (legal or illegal), one who's equally industrious and honest (honest at least towards his associates). Honesty will always remain the best policy in business. Honesty, though, doesn't mean absence of diplomacy, just as diplomacy doesn't mean lies.

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 12:56am On Mar 16, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
nothing justifies being broke.. I knew my earlier thread would trigger alot of broke fellas..
you are not rich,and your status currently is not comfortable by you......so u can't justify that as well.
If you know what it means to be broke,then you will know that guys that are really broke don't keep a woman. They use the time to look for where the next dime is coming from.
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Papiikush: 2:08am On Mar 16, 2018
kimbraa:
A realist. grin
wink
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by chykmoni(m): 2:43am On Mar 16, 2018
lipsrsealed
i stand with the OP. Marrying/dating a poor boy has many advantages
1) you don't need to live in an exotic house.
2) you don't need pet names, Papa ejima will be ok
3) you don't need to pay a higher fee for your children in a local community primary/sec schools.
3) face me and face you house can be fun to live in. Many controversial dramas from mama ejima and papa ibeji to watch live every evening, etc. If you are not poor, you are missing enough fun.

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by mrtomola(m): 6:48am On Mar 16, 2018
OP then pray you are poor forever so you can enjoy this advantage.
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Lionessza(f): 7:03am On Mar 16, 2018
LordKO:
@OP

Your number 5 caught my attention. Obviously you, just like many other people, have an erroneous understanding about the literal meaning of the saying "behind every successful man, there's a woman." Believe you me that it doesn't automatically has to do with a man on mission to accumulate/cause of accumulating riches.

Meanwhile, other points you mentioned reeked of attitudes of a servile person. Unfortunately the last thing to expect from a servile person in the long run - after emancipation from poverty/actualization of independence - is loyalty. A servile person is hypocrisy personified. Your number 2 for example; you ought to know that fixation doesn't mean caring.

However, financial poverty isn't the worst form of poverty out there. Small-mindedness - ethically and mentally poor people - is.

An ethically and mentally sound man (person) who's financially poor today, may become financially emancipated within a twinkle of an eye. This fact is the very reason why I do pick offense wherever I see small-minded people postulate that every floating wealth or sudden wealth has an evil beneath it.

A responsible lady who's not fortunate to have an already established man is better off sticking with a man with prospects (temporary financially poor but ethically and mentally sane and sound) than putting up with a stark poverty-stricken man who's equally mentally and ethically poor. That being said, there's no advantage a poor man - irrespective of the type of poverty - has over a contemporary sane and sound man with sustainable riches. So a responsible lucky lady is better off with the latter.

On the other hand, for all I care and understand, behind every successful man with sustainable riches is a man that has an understanding of something valuable (legal or illegal), one who's equally industrious and honest (honest at least towards his associates). Honesty will always remain the best policy in business. Honesty, though, doesn't mean absence of diplomacy, just as diplomacy doesn't mean lies.








One of the best posts I've read in months .People tend to equate servitude to loyalty , and fixation to love . Kudos !.

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by ehinmowo: 7:05am On Mar 16, 2018
I jst restrain myself frm quoting anyone.

Bt even pple whose father is poorer than church rat will still come here and bash broke guys.

One thing abt been broke is dt u cn choose to change ur life. On the other hand, hypocrites always liv in shadow

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Oyindidi(f): 8:51am On Mar 16, 2018
No money no erectiongrin
Date yourself if you no get money

Lefulefugrin

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 8:54am On Mar 16, 2018
The only way you can enjoy dating a broke guy is to be rich yourself. Then you have all the control cool

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Dollarship(m): 9:39am On Mar 16, 2018
Oyindidi:
No money no erectiongrin
Date yourself if you no get money

Lefulefugrin
i will find you and use you for blood maney grin
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 10:04am On Mar 16, 2018
Oyindidi:
No money no erectiongrin Date yourself if you no get money
Lefulefugrin

Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 10:14am On Mar 16, 2018
@ #4 ...... That a guy is broke does not guarantee that he will be faithful. There are some men who have no job the money their wives give to them they will spend it on ashawo and their slayqueen sidechics. A man wey wan cheat go cheat..weda he broke or he dey super rich..nothin will stop him.

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Nobody: 10:19am On Mar 16, 2018
DrinkLimca:
The only advantage you get in dating a poor Guy is that you won't grow very fat like rick Ross,, you will grow slim and very tiny which is a good thing but you will not live long..

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Oyindidi(f): 10:54am On Mar 16, 2018
Dollarship:
i will find you and use you for blood maney grin
Brokey tongue

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Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Dollarship(m): 12:07pm On Mar 16, 2018
Oyindidi:
Brokey tongue
lol see my moniker cheesy
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by spartacus11(m): 12:24pm On Mar 16, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
nothing justifies being broke.. I knew my earlier thread would trigger alot of broke fellas..

Hi can we connect. U beautiful Bae
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by spartacus11(m): 12:24pm On Mar 16, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol.... There's no solidarity among guys o. Instead of them to support the op shocked

No guy wants to remain broke nigga, d hustle dis days is real
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by IamAirforce1: 12:27pm On Mar 16, 2018
No benefit in dating or associating with brokenness.

Work hard and be happy
Re: 7 Benefits Of Dating A Poor Guy;Number 3 Will Shock You! by Barzinime(m): 12:38pm On Mar 16, 2018
Not everyone will become rich that's just the reality of life....some that were rich became poor & vice-versa...so all your sermon is bullshit both the rich & the poor will have someone to love them....keep waiting for prince charming oo, he is on his way just got to Binni-Kebbi, will get to you by 2038, better work hard & get yourself the life you want & that still doesn't guarantee riches just pray for goodluck
TheUpsetGirl1:
nothing justifies being broke.. I knew my earlier thread would trigger alot of broke fellas..

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