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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Mar 17, 2018
tunbosun9:
Life has taught me that everything is ultimately meaningless. Our existence, our accomplishments, our failures, our petty and great worries, our passions, our experiences.... Everything! All transient and meaningless in the ultimate scheme of things.
This lesson, if internalised, would force you to swallow a massive chill pill.

Chill pill or black pill? Won't this kind of thinking lead some people to Nihilism?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by emperormossad(m): 8:52pm On Mar 17, 2018
The first sign of healing is pain.
A man is loved twice in his life: when he's born, and when he dies. In between, he learns to manage.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Worksunlimited: 9:10pm On Mar 17, 2018
Jasperwhizz:
Explain pls.

It comes like a thief in the night. First as a drop, then multiple drops, then flows, then gushes...

If you don't stop it as a drop, you would have a hard time dealing with it as a multiple and so on..


It has the capacity to kill ones confidence, progress and all the things you have attained thus far, totally and without mercy, the moment you let it stay longer than it should.
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Rexnegro(m): 9:16pm On Mar 17, 2018
xmanco42:
What is the most important lessons you’ve learned from people in life?

I have learnt that no friend at all .... U only have companies but not friends . Have learnt never never trust a Nigeria girls , have learnt no love anywhere near Nigeria especially with nowadays girls, have also learnt never joke with Igbos with money etc etc e plenty but make I chill here

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by kingchris30(m): 9:25pm On Mar 17, 2018
never hurt or cheat on someone that love you

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by habayinc(m): 9:34pm On Mar 17, 2018
stubbornman:

With the level of hunger in the country your third advice is invalid!!!

Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by justmi1: 9:56pm On Mar 17, 2018
Monkey, snakes can be "successful" grin

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Jasperwhizz(m): 10:42pm On Mar 17, 2018
Worksunlimited:


It comes like a thief in the night. First as a drop, then multiple drops, then flows, then gushes...

If you don't stop it as a drop, you would have a hard time dealing with it as a multiple and so on..


It has the capacity to kill ones confidence, progress and all the things you have attained thus far, totally and without mercy, the moment you let it stay longer than it should.

Oh! you mean depression is toxic?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Worksunlimited: 10:54pm On Mar 17, 2018
Hmmm
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Worksunlimited: 10:57pm On Mar 17, 2018
Jasperwhizz:
Oh! you mean depression is toxic?

Yes!
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Mar 17, 2018
xmanco42:
1) Don't let people praise/hail you unnecessary, they will stop one day thinking that they were doing you a favour. It make them look down on you.
have self confidence of your own.
2) don't force people to love you it make them hate you more. Give them space, compose yourself and show them that you are more matured. The love will come naturally.
nice lesson especially no 2 ...never please anybody after all you can't be friend with everybody.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Mar 17, 2018
RSVP:
1. Don't tell anyone ur secret/nxt move.

2. Fear ur friend more than ur emeny.

3. Be prayerful....And do a lil bit of yoruba sceince too grin
what do you mean by Yoruba science. Really want to know..pls throw more light..
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Sarbee(m): 11:10pm On Mar 17, 2018
[quote author=jy2kbeyond post=65914240]

Expatiate that Yoruba science ish grin grin[/quote

Yoruba science means going diabolical sometimes, because they are some people you don't know but they know your next move. its either you finish them or they finish you.
prayer can be slow at times when conquering this motherfucker spiritual being. you got to do it in the fast way[quote author=jy2kbeyond post=65914240]

Expatiate that Yoruba science ish grin grin[/quote

Yoruba science means going diabolical sometimes, because they are some people you don't know but they know your next move. its either you finish them or they finish you.
prayer can be slow at times when conquering this motherfucker spiritual being. you got to do it in the fast way[quote author=jy2kbeyond post=65914240]

Expatiate that Yoruba science ish grin grin[/quote

Yoruba science means going diabolical sometimes, because they are some people you don't know but they know your next move. its either you finish them or they finish you.
prayer can be slow at times when conquering this motherfucker spiritual being. you got to do it in the fast way

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Mar 17, 2018
omotuntun:
If you want to be successful, you must disappear for a while
whatz ur definition of disappear?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Mar 17, 2018
omotuntun:
If you want to be successful, you must disappear for a while
what do you mean by disappear for a while?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Mar 17, 2018
blackbeau1:
Don't love anyone deeply until you are sure that the person feels the same way about you
and how do you know that?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Mar 17, 2018
SoNature:
That you are nice to people is not a guarantee that people won't pay u with evil
you just killed it with this one ...

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Mar 17, 2018
tunbosun9:
Life has taught me that everything is ultimately meaningless. Our existence, our accomplishments, our failures, our petty and great worries, our passions, our experiences.... Everything! All transient and meaningless in the ultimate scheme of things.
This lesson, if internalised, would force you to swallow a massive chill pill.
I am in support of what you said 100% but don't you think that while we are here we should mk it count ...bin rich ain't bad you knw...

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Mar 17, 2018
sheubaba2013:
If you want to be success, leave your comfort zone, mercy is attained on a journey. Start up with any legal hustle and be nice to people.
I am a living testimony.
comfort zone is a place to b but the funny thing is that nothing g grows there...people are always scared of making hard choices when presented with one.
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by kendo60(m): 5:11am On Mar 18, 2018
Never trust or depends on so-called friends

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 7:57am On Mar 18, 2018
stubbornman:

With the level of hunger in the country your third advice is invalid!!!
What he's saying is, despise anything free, they always come with a motive, not necessarily food.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by blackbeau1(f): 8:42am On Mar 18, 2018
serialkilla:
and how do you know that?
actions speak louder than words. Esp actions that aren't carried out consciously

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by tunbosun9: 9:14am On Mar 18, 2018
Its the interpretation that's matter here.
Penisinpenisout:


Chill pill or black pill? Won't this kind of thinking lead some people to Nihilism?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Mar 18, 2018
Pentools:
Never rely or judge on hearsays confirm yourself before winding up (be an audience of both parties)..views are subject to opinions...

Never feel arrived enough not to explore new opportunities.

focus solely on yourself and if you must live a competitive lifestyle..Be your own competitor always striving to be better than you were. Above all be grateful way often than enough...
You sent me a mail?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by IamLaura(f): 9:27pm On Mar 18, 2018
ameri9ja:


Not true. Some also have their own already. They clearly only want friendship. But I simply don't have the time. It is not lonely at all. My prefered escape is NL.
Ok.
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by justanie(f): 9:01pm On Mar 19, 2018
I am taking in on everyone's life's lessons. this is great
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Mar 19, 2018
To learn to read Nairaland in guest mode, and stop liking every comment, even the good ones.
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Ceemann(m): 10:19pm On Mar 20, 2018
serialkilla:
what do you mean by disappear for a while?

My understanding of that is: if you want to be successful, put your head down and work hard in silence. When you come up with something remarkable, people will begin to wonder where you've been! Let your achievements make the noise.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by meobizy(f): 5:03pm On Jul 01, 2018
I learned further in life a man chooses the woman he wants and a woman's role is to try her best to make sure she is his first choice.

I also learned happiness is a product of one's own doing. We should ensure to make ourselves happy but not at the detriment of others.

Reading a book makes you more interesting an individual. You may read the literature and forget but when a related conversation comes up the memory will spring back to mind like a lost friend.

Good grooming and personal hygiene make one approachable and cut the risk of diseases by up to 30%.

Friends in these modern times are not a necessity but if you see need screen them carefully. Wrongly picked friends are always a personal and/or financial liability.
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by phillippians(m): 1:00am On Dec 11, 2019
Women are all the same, all over the world. There are black, blue, yellow, white, red etc THEY ARE ALL THE SAME!
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by phillippians(m): 1:08am On Dec 11, 2019
phillippians:
Women are all the same, all over the world. There are black, blue, yellow, white, red etc THEY ARE ALL THE SAME!
1. In Nigeria, nothing goes for nothing
2. Aside your mom, dad, wife and kids, no one else truly cares.
3. Don't be too quiet or gentle, people will always step on ur toes and think they can get away with it.
4. Do things discreetly everytime, don't share too much information with people/friends/some relatives
5. Nigerians are not honest. It's a dog eat dog world out there, everyone is looking for money to feed family at ur expense so be smart.
6. Believe in yourself, and put urself first, learn how to manage money, if you go broke nobody will come to your aid.

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