donstan18:


Evening, how you, today?

I'm fine, thank you. You?

TheUpsetGirl:
I've come to understand what nairaland feminists mean when they talk about feminism, to catch them in the hook I decided to create a thread meant for bashing broke people and luckily they fell for it except Amarabae which I commend for her real advocating of the feminist ideology.


there's a lady called shugavee on this platform who usually run from thread to thread shouting ladies should be independent, ladies should embrace feminism and others.

it came as a bombshell when I saw a post where she said;
a guy must give his gf 3 to 5k every 2weeks for her hair

for a supposed feminist advocate to say this, I now understand what she has been preaching about.

a guy must be the one to spend on a date


a guy must purchase some clothes for his gf every month.

A feminist who said she's hardworking, independent and can cope 50/50 said this, it only shows that her hypocrisy is greater than the sins of Satan.


feminism doesn't exist on nairaland, there are few feminists I think are sincere, but only God knows what their true intentions are about.


it is better to say you're not a feminist and bash broke people, say your guy must provide what you need, truly I won't be offended

but when you create useless threads about feminism, always shouting equality and independence and you don't practice what you preach it only shows the kind of person you are and what your true intentions are.




gratitude to amarabae, ladyhippolyta, makydebbie, xhosanostra, rukkydelta, ladyF, and safarigirl.

the only people I think are real.


I don't believe men and women are equal, because even the Bible denotes that .
because of that I don't rant about feminism just because of likes because I know that I can't practice that independence stuff, that's me I like being real.

but you can't be ranting and making poor ladies feel bad when you create useless threads about feminism, advocating for gender equality and independence when you're a lazy fake bitch who can't practice what you preach in reality.


be real,

Ok who is it that got you this perturbed?
Why don’t you point fingers?
Name them!

Cuteamigo1:
owk once again. the Internet is an alternate universe where people form different kinds of narratives and rules about how people should live thier lives but this happen differently in the real world. i will live you to your opinion.

good for you
you can date a liability if you like


walks away ……

MissRaine69:


Ok who is it that got you this perturbed?
Why don’t you point fingers?
Name them!

hungry fake feminists

Preshy561:

lool.

just observing,nothing for now.

you're still observing

TheUpsetGirl1:


hungry fake feminists

This is the problem with some women. I asked in a none insulting to call a spade a spade. And you respond with name calling.
I won’t respond in anger nor will I return the insult I have absolutely nothing to prove to you if that’s your view then it is what it is.

MissRaine69:

This is the problem with some women. I asked in a none insulting to call a spade a spade. And you respond with name calling.
I won’t respond in anger nor will I return the insult I have absolutely nothing to prove to you if that’s your view then it is what it is.

lol, Missraine you said I should call the names of the people I'm referring to and I said "hungry fake feminists"

thought you once said, you ain't a feminist?

I don't understand this drama

TheUpsetGirl1:


lol, Missraine you said I should call the names of the people I'm referring to and I said "hungry fake feminists"

thought you once said, you ain't a feminist?

I don't understand this drama

There is no drama.

TheUpsetGirl1:

@bolded.. what do you mean by having their way with women? when did sex become pampering?

i never meant sex

Ladyhippolyta88:

@emboldened,It's high time people begin to understand that the word equality is not a literal meaning but a figurative one.
Gender equality does not mean that we are the same but that the opportunities,resources,access,rights etc.
Should be given to all.
And don't try bringing in religion to social affairs Genesis 1:27 would discredit your assertions.
It seems some people do not understand the gender equality thing not to even talk about racial or social equality.
One of the aims of equality of to fight discrimination.

As for shugavee I have noticed the lady avoids your mentions try to stop looking for her trouble and discredit her on this forum.
You don't know the lady in person so you have no right to tell her who she is or judge her by her comments on this forum because I have also seen her write about splitting the bills as well.She encourages female independency in her post.

Foolish talk but opportunity resource access etc should be shared equally but when it comes labor intensive work it should be left for the men.

If you have any idea how foolish you sound you will personally ask to be slapped out of such foolishness.

So any foolish girl can wake up determine what she needs equality on n all the men should do is kiss her butt. Your brain need rewiring ma.

MissJoy29:
These are my opinions about feminism;
*Strive for fairness especially in the way women are treated in marriage. For instance, it's not set in stone that a woman should be the only one doing house chores. A man can help out too without his manliness reduced. On the other hand, a woman shouldn't take his helping for granted.

A true feminist will contribute half of the finances in the home.

*Be independent to an extent as a lady. In the sense that you can have your own money and pay up your bills without having to depend on a man. Depending on a man has levels. It gets really irritating seeing mature ladies begging for everything from a guy. A man that wants to help can help but don't beg.

A true feminist should decline help from her man since feminism after all is about asserting her independence.

*There's nothing wrong in helping out a man financially. There's nothing wrong in buying gifts for a man. There's nothing wrong in pampering a man & surprising him once in a while. But use your head. "Using your head" could mean a lot of things & could also prevent a lot of things.

A femist should also allow men to use their brain as pampering a woman could mean a lot of thing e.g mumu n being foolish.

*Be strong and firm yet feminine. That's a woman's strongest weapon, her feminity. Be sweet and gentle and cute. Stop with the bitching & the bad attitude. That you can foot your bills doesn't mean you give oit that air that you don't need a man. Your independence should attract men to you not repel them.

The only point you made without bias .

*Finally, never look down on any man. Never broke-shame a guy because you think he's not up to a level you want. You see, no one knows tomorrow.

Class varies n so does views. No one deserves to be look down upon but people just need to get up to an appreciable class or status not to be look down on.

These being said, I am a feminist. The real one not the ones moved by hungry, frustrated leeches.

You are getting there but not there yet. You need to understand as a feminist you do not eat your cake n have it. You can not cherry pick what a man must tolerate. It as to be “fiftied” no questions.

Feminism is a deliberate act by a class of women to change the social order. That’s fine since the only thing constant in life is change but they should come change it with equity my only take.

funmisticqueen:
i never meant sex

what do you mean then?

triblehaul1:


Foolish talk but opportunity resource access etc should be shared equally but when it comes labor intensive work it should be left for the men.

If you have any idea how foolish you sound you will personally ask to be slapped out of such foolishness.

So any foolish girl can wake up determine what she needs equality on n all the men should do is kiss her butt. Your brain need rewiring ma.

Read what you wrote and tell me if it has sense or correlates with my post.
I don't care about your experience if you have a problem with my post go and ask the UN and Wikipedia who defined it like that.
Your problem is with them not me.

BabbanBura:


I see no where in your clarifying essay quoted herein that feminism or gender equality is 'a man taking all or some of the financial responsibilities of his girlfriend' - why then do you feminists keep insisting on this?

No true feminist would insist on a man paying all her bills. I am a feminist myself and personally I won't allow a man pay any of my bills at all because I have the means to provide for myself

Ranelle:

No true feminist would insist on a man paying all her bills. I am a feminist myself and personally I won't allow a man pay any of my bills at all because I have the means to provide for myself

I think this is misleading, the true meaning of feminism is about having a {CHOICE}.

Pointless thread. The internet is full of people living fake lives. so don't bother yourself.

pryme:


I think this is misleading, the true meaning of feminism is about having a {CHOICE}.

I agree with you and I choose to pay my own bills.