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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 11:17pm On Apr 19, 2018
wristbangle:
Thanks for sharing OP even though your source of income seems suspicious to me. This would be a lesson to guys who have misplaced priority, spending foolishly on a gold digger while their family especially mum vanguise in pain. May our parents enjoy the fruit of their labour. It's a wake up call to single guys never to prioritize stupid girls over their family and career. Thank God you dodged a bullet OP.
all those guys placing gwefwends on relationship salaries on salaries,allowance,pension, can learn from this story.

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by amykwuba(f): 11:19pm On Apr 19, 2018
Sorry dude ur story is a sorry case, I really feel for u, but u can't because of one girl treat others like monsters and see dem as Gold diggers, there are still responsible God fearing girls out there like Cee cee

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by dominique(f): 11:20pm On Apr 19, 2018
dondemex:
Come which business are you doing. That's what I'm interested in

His username should give you a clue
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by crafteck(m): 11:23pm On Apr 19, 2018
My story exactly
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by AlanSugar(m): 11:25pm On Apr 19, 2018
AntiBrutus:

You're very silly. This isn't love.



This is where you should have cut her off, but your dream of administering on her won't let you. Wrong source of inspiration...appreciated all the same.


Smart girl...



Very very smart girl. Some men wanna have sex with you, not because it's an act of love...but because it is a collateral to them. Something to console themselves with if the relationship doesn't go their way. Some ladies withhold the sex for same reason. Your ability to identify which category s/he falls into is wisdom...like that of Solomon.


There would always be someone richer than you. If you earn love and respect via money, try hard never to lose it. The money must increase exponentially... kiss


Good you didn't...


Prodigal son, good you found your way home. Now you know the importance of family.



You're still hurting. In life's journey, we would hurt people and people will hurt us. How we handle the outcome would tell a lot 'bout our emotional intelligence/maturity. Let go of the grudge...you'll be glad you did. Treat people as an individual, not gender...race, tribe, religion or whatever.

Gawd! All this quotes, analysis and advise toward a stupid lie lie story? Haba, you're not that smart, (OK dull) , are you?

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Lifeofpolice1(m): 11:30pm On Apr 19, 2018
CaptainFM1:


Na was oooo....You sabi do investigation o!
abi

All this things he said is fake
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by safarigirl(f): 11:30pm On Apr 19, 2018
If you are happy and have moved on, you wouldn't be creating this topic or comparing yourself to your ex'a current guy.

How do you know you're richer? You check them out on FB or IG?

Having money can never equate to happiness. Right now, all you have is money. You clearly are unhappy and that is because you are still bitter

Making up your mind to never love any girl (even though I find the concept of love ridiculous), na yourself you dey do. Your ex fit marry, born children with her guy that is not as rich as you, be filled with happiness, and you will be balling and unhappy because you have put your happiness in the hands of someone else.


You are doing yourself bros.

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by HoodBillionaire: 11:33pm On Apr 19, 2018
nepa wont allow me enjoy my split unit
wtf
hw long wee ai keep on like this
na God go punish u bastard buhari
in d whole of 24hrz
na ony 40mins i dey see light now
wtf
my zpectranet sub dey waste
laptop dey sleep
heat dey hammer me
which kind life be this
i cant afford gen again
once my dstv sub expire with my spectranet
na to dey wait make tstv launch dia wifi
naija don tire me.
wtf
i now regret this month.
wtf
can u u imagine.
frm 12am to 11.20pm no light.
den frm 1120 to 1140
light come dey
im so pissed off

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 19, 2018
true story or lie whatever the case maybe, even my wife must never interfere with how I spend on my blood relatives most especially my parents. My blood will always be my top priority especially my parents & kids, she is also a top priority but not as important as mom & dad, but the same level as my brothers & sisters


How can you even ignore your mom because of some hoe anyways, some people get brain problem

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Rexeffiom(m): 11:37pm On Apr 19, 2018
Dude if I were you, I'll sit and think back, then realize she helped you get to the top.
She was a blessing to you, cuz she inspired you from the onset.
And after you found out she was cheating on you with someone richer than you, you broke up with her and stepped up your game... and this made you more richer and eventually learnt your lessons.
Nigga what more can you ask for?

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Therealev: 11:38pm On Apr 19, 2018
GeeWire:


Its my true story.h

You get time to dey answer. It's your story and you owe nobody no explanation. They say better late than never, but never late is better. You prolly won't be the man you're today if that lady didn't cross your part. You'd prolly be stuck in that situation whereby 5k is like 5m to you. So that was a phase, you've passed it. But don't stop cos you tripped, gather strength rise and reach your destination. Tomorrow is Friday, dress up nicely and hit some social hubs. Meet nice people, make friends and see where it goes.

PS: Stay away from the Island. If your previous babe made use of straw to suck you, trust me, these ones will make use of hose. You'd be gone in a jiffy. Above all, use your brain and not your heart or your dick. #ThankMeLater
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by slimmykisses(f): 11:40pm On Apr 19, 2018
It's a good thing you have a good family. Never ignore your family for anything in this world. After God it's family first. I would simply say you loved the wrong person in the right way.
I do hope you meet the right person and love her the right way, then you will surely know the difference.
[q\uote author=GeeWire post=66834942]Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.

I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.

I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.

When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.

One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.

I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.

I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.

Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.

I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....

I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.

I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..

Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.

I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.

Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by slimmykisses(f): 11:42pm On Apr 19, 2018
It's a good thing you have a good family. Never ignore your family for anything in this world. After God it's family first. I would simply say you loved the wrong person in the right way.
I do hope you meet the right person and love her the right way, then you will surely know the difference.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by freecocoa(f): 11:51pm On Apr 19, 2018
Mumu story from a mumu writer.

I just knew your story would be bullshit at reading that, you were willing go slap your mum to be with her, talking about how you abandoned your family to please her, my friend you are a mofo with your fake stupid a$$ story.

You spent millions indeed! C'mon gerrout of here make we see road. angry

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Diso60090(m): 11:55pm On Apr 19, 2018
GeeWire:
Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.

I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.

I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.

When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.

One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.

I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.

I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.

Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.

I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....

I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.

I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..

Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.

I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.

Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.





girl wey you meet for dating site na you wan turn to house witch you get your own product

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by freecocoa(f): 11:57pm On Apr 19, 2018
lefulefu:
Op congrats on u making it and u being richer than ur ex's boyfriend. Now dat u self made ..biko don't accept her back oo into ur life. She might come back to u crying and begging u to accept her back and dat she made a mistake and blah blah blah. If she beg don't listen to her..in short if u sight her for window dey come ..set ur alsatian dog on her if u get one. Make d dog bark at her to scare her away cheesy.
Of course you go believe the mumu lie lie story cos you be mugu na, mutula! undecided

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 12:05am On Apr 20, 2018
freecocoa:
Of course you go believe the mumu lie lie story cos you be mugu na, mutula! undecided
jakandeola's crushcheesy.. Wetin na? Why u vexing? cheesy. One rule for nairaland is dat u have to believe every story or pretend to believe itcheesy.

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by freecocoa(f): 12:08am On Apr 20, 2018
lefulefu:
jakendeola's crushcheesy.. Wetin na? Why u vexing? cheesy. One rule for nairaland is dat u have to believe every story or pretend to believe itcheesy.
I pray say I believe rubbish o!

This guy be sounding like he's talking to idiots, who is he telling those kinds of lies to? Anyways, Its like he's mad sha, so make I free am. tongue angry angry

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Globalworks77: 12:11am On Apr 20, 2018
This Guy John balogun is a OLX big time Scammer.. General Public Please Beware

Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by mamawin(f): 12:11am On Apr 20, 2018
okorro1:
Lemme get this straight, your story is too long so I merely skimmed through buh you say God did it for you so you're now bigger than the guy, the girl cheated on you with abi? Lemme now ask you a question do you think God did it so you can live a half ass life? I don't think so � , God fixed you up so you can have better opportunities � so don't be lazying about being a monster, better get up find a good shirt and a tie maybe, put on good pants (don't look at me like that I mean trousers) and go out and find yourself a great lady there are so many out there... Remember you can't wear black everyday of your life just cos when you were little you lost a dear one so Oga bath, dress up nice, put on cologne and go out and stay out till you find a woman... Lemme coman be going now
Epic!
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 12:12am On Apr 20, 2018
freecocoa:
I pray say I believe rubbish o!

This guy be sounding like he's talking to idiots, who is he telling those kinds of lies to? Anyways, Its like he's mad sha, so make I free am. tongue angry angry
i enjoyed reading op's story..i wonder why u no enjoy d Torycheesy.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 12:13am On Apr 20, 2018
Am I the only one that feel op is a g-boy?

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by tartarus(m): 12:15am On Apr 20, 2018
Yet another weakling! Are you the first to be heartbroken?!. Rubbish story! undecided undecided

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by demmydy(m): 12:15am On Apr 20, 2018
Typical 9ja film. #watched.the.movie.b4
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by prince2pac(m): 12:18am On Apr 20, 2018
OP just PM me abeg.... we gat unfinished business to talk
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 12:24am On Apr 20, 2018
what are you selling? are you importexpert?
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by BadBradley: 12:24am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.

#selfmade #Geewire says so
just one girl turned you in to a miserable whelp hating all women?

And you think you have a wonderful story? You're a loser if you ask me.

Funny how you yoked Christ into your sadistic story of bitterness!

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by emperorblog(m): 12:28am On Apr 20, 2018
SOME LOYAL BITCH ARE BETTER THAN SOME FUCKUP GIRL CLAIMING SAINT

THE WORST THING THAT CAN,HAPPEN TO A,MAN IS BEIGN FRIENDZONE BY A LADY AFTER SPENDING HEAVILY ON HER

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