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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by airlord2020: 6:01am On Apr 20, 2018
You have actually improved from whatever level you were coming from but out of everything there's one area you need to work on. The fact that you are still comparing your self to that of your ex girlfriend's boyfriend means something is still wrong. Grow above that and you'll be more happy.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Ebukamath(m): 6:02am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.

I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.

I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.

When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.

One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.

I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.

I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.

Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.

I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....

I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.

I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..

Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.

I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.

Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.

so what kind of business did you do when you dropout of school?
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Daniyomex(m): 6:21am On Apr 20, 2018
Hmmmm.... girls sha. Mine just broke up with me on Monday after six years of being together cause she's afraid I might leave her soon. What a coward and in secured being?!
It really hurts but I'm learning to heal and move on with life.

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by mikejj(m): 6:27am On Apr 20, 2018
bro thank God for your deliverance bro...but try and look for a gud woman OK.their are gud women out there,you were very unfortunate to meet a bad one at first... i would advice you to take your time and look for a gud lady ...one day u will need a companion,,and u might rush into looking for one,,and fall into the wrong hands again.there are still gud women out there.

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by isybeke(f): 6:30am On Apr 20, 2018
The truth is there are still decent nd responsible girls who can be trusted but you guyz are always chasing after bitches who are nothing but scums who have nothing to offer than pain nd heartbreak. Don't love with ur eyes closed and stop running after girls that ain't loyal
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Mikepenny5(m): 6:31am On Apr 20, 2018
okorro1:

Hmmmm i didn't say he must fall in love or fall Mugu for another one oh I'm saying love is like a business deal sometimes it falls through sometimes it doesn't but you don't stop trying and every time you do you learn new things...
when you try is it wit investment?

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by shakyum: 6:32am On Apr 20, 2018
The girl was the one that inspired your dreams, but if I was the one that saw her WhatsApp messags ehn, lemme not say what is in my mind first
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by DonMekino(m): 6:43am On Apr 20, 2018
Its people like u that encourage buhari to tell Nigeria youths nonsense.... All because of a pussy that will pass away...whatever happened to families are forever
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 6:44am On Apr 20, 2018
@ Geewire.
If this story is true than organized the girl matter.
Pay her back in her coin,
In fact read zubby story then pay her back.

Dude who lost when you broke up with her? It definitely wasn't her.
You just sponsored a thief. I wish you could man up and take what is owed you. of course with interest, don't banks find ways to take back their loans.
Guy use your sense, the lady still dictates your life. She has bleeped you up and you are proud of it. She still controls you abi you can't see that your actions are a result of her actions even after all this time.

So dude wake up, settle the score with her and then MOVE on make sure you really have moved on.

The girl must be laughing right now if she's reading this thread, she'd rub her tummy and tell her friends that she was the ONLY true woman you never had.
That you are a maye and your still doing what she wants. Which can be seen by having no other woman.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Franzinni: 6:47am On Apr 20, 2018
Dickless FUCKBOI
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by mrdna(m): 6:47am On Apr 20, 2018
Odi egwu
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by larrywax: 6:54am On Apr 20, 2018
#WORD ON MARBLE# for person wey get ears...."When you spend money on someone else, be convinced that it's money within your budget limit and not just to impress. Never assume that money equals loyalty from anybody"
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Dreydoe(m): 6:58am On Apr 20, 2018
opebiboy:
Women prefer guys who treat them like shit. Dont ever show weakness around a woman
90% correct..

But its better to just be urself and find d right person dt will stand by u d rest of ur life...which is very hard!

U GATS strong mind cus a lot of ds naija girls will heartbreak u b4 d rite one comes Along.. Dey will almost switch u 4rm a good guy to a Monster..

Just GATS b strong and pervail..
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by kabie(m): 7:00am On Apr 20, 2018
Kikiki....jst here for comments.didnt evn get to read the post.Abeg Na who e help??if u lyk turn to lizard man,Na ur life
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by shugatee(f): 7:02am On Apr 20, 2018
I dont know which is more annoying,you not footing your mums bill because of a lady or u trying to turn it on the lady.bottom line that was stupid...the lady didnt broke your heart the universe was just purnishin u for leaving ur family...secondly you despising girls aint just it you learn from your past and move on how long do u think you can mess around and not get bored or feel empty still.
To every young guys pls try and remember your families cos we ladies are just ready to take take and take nd i dont think any woman is worth abandoning your mum for.as a lady i cant imagine buying a hair or 100+even 90k for myself without calling mum to see if she needs something. Anyway i hope you find love again
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by IVORY2009(m): 7:03am On Apr 20, 2018
Almost everyone wants to know the kind of business the guy does for a living, from investigation carried out the guy is into, carding, wu, cash out, c.vv, etc.....


Stay away Frm him, or get caught....
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Xisnin(m): 7:04am On Apr 20, 2018
Your ex dumped you because you are into yahoo.
She doesn't want to be your sacrificial lamb.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Xisnin(m): 7:04am On Apr 20, 2018
Ebukamath:


so what kind of business did you do when you dropout of school?
Check his name again.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by larrywax: 7:05am On Apr 20, 2018
Its not a Nigerian thing bra & moreover, the poster said she's South African which I know for sure 7 out 10 won na Olosho & theres absolutely nothing u can do to it even when u know except u want to be arranged with their Police padis not even when u are a foreigner & a Nigerian for that matter!

Rexnegro:

I told my parents that they got 10 grandchildren that they should not disturb me, am their last born out of six, bro most girls are seen as sex objects cos of experience like this Ur own which is just one out of many.... wish to have kids but don't marry. and if am to marry then definitely not a Nigerian girl by the special grace of God. hope u doing great now bro... #JahBlessYou
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Xisnin(m): 7:08am On Apr 20, 2018
opebiboy:
Women Immature girls prefer guys who treat them like shit. Dont ever show weakness around a woman
Fixed
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Xisnin(m): 7:08am On Apr 20, 2018
Daniyomex:
Hmmmm.... girls sha. Mine just broke up with me on Monday after six years of being together cause she's afraid I might leave her soon. What a coward and in secured being?!
It really hurts but I'm learning to heal and move on with life.
She took a smart decision, there is a high chance that you will find a younger chic
then you blame her for your decision by listing all the sins she ever committed since
you knew her.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by charain: 7:11am On Apr 20, 2018
Liar, you are looking for mugu girlfriends using fake story.
Young rich nigga my ass.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Splendblex(f): 7:13am On Apr 20, 2018
Insulting your mom cos of a girl! You said, you could even slap your mom, toh and you think everything will work out well with you. Become a monster na, who you dey do? Yaself!
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by propanet(m): 7:17am On Apr 20, 2018
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Basalt(m): 7:19am On Apr 20, 2018
I have always maintained my ground that dating without sex is nonsensical.

Sex is the major confirmation and entitlement for Love
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Bsideboi(m): 7:22am On Apr 20, 2018
KillaBeauty:
angry

Are you sure that girl didn’t knack pigeon on your head?

Shît happens, thank God you've moved on and become stronger. But don’t use this terrible occurrence to judge every girl you come across. There are some really good hearted and genuinely loyal girls out there, you just had the misfortune of meeting an evil one.

Now you’ve learnt your lesson. Family should be your number one priority. Don’t invest heavily on any girl that isn’t your wife. If you do, make sure the worth of the investment is something you won’t regret if things go south and don’t work out for you guys.

It’s very important that you forgive this girl, not for her sake but for your peace of mind and release.
Knack Pigeon! SDK Blog visitor alert

Only a handful are genuinely loyal.How do a explain a girl making requests that are quite difficult to grant knowing you earn just a little ... even when you are able to do a few, no gratitude is shown.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by goshen26: 7:23am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.

I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.

I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.

When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.

One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.

I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.

I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.

Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.

I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....

I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.

I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..

Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.

I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.

Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.


If you are really born again as claimed then you should forgive the girl, listen to God instruction and get another decent God appointed girl, cos they are out there, love again and be married. Try see a psycholigist too.

God bless you
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by EKPETI(m): 7:27am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.

I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.

I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.

When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.

One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.

I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.

I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.

Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.

I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....

I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.

I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..

Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.

I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.

Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.
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Pls help me with ur number or call me 08064092991. Na biz I wnt to discuss with u. Make u teach a bro too.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by MDGsVISIBLE: 7:31am On Apr 20, 2018
AntiBrutus:

You're very silly. This isn't love.



This is where you should have cut her off, but your dream of administering on her won't let you. Wrong source of inspiration...appreciated all the same.


Smart girl...



Very very smart girl. Some men wanna have sex with you, not because it's an act of love...but because it is a collateral to them. Something to console themselves with if the relationship doesn't go their way. Some ladies withhold the sex for same reason. Your ability to identify which category s/he falls into is wisdom...like that of Solomon.


There would always be someone richer than you. If you earn love and respect via money, try hard never to lose it. The money must increase exponentially... kiss


Good you didn't...


Prodigal son, good you found your way home. Now you know the importance of family.



You're still hurting. In life's journey, we would hurt people and people will hurt us. How we handle the outcome would tell a lot 'bout our emotional intelligence/maturity. Let go of the grudge...you'll be glad you did. Treat people as an individual, not gender...race, tribe, religion or whatever.



Wao, Impressive! You such a rare gem with good understanding...
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Hybrid606: 7:32am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.

#selfmade #Geewire says so

ON POINT SIR!!
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by doctokwus: 7:32am On Apr 20, 2018
Ishilove:

How anyone can believe this mediocre and predictable piece of Onitsha market literature is beyond me. That is why we must trumpet the need for people to read more because the comments i have read on this thread is quite disheartening.
People,sorry to say particularly some Nigerians,like to fantasize about their dreams,no matter how impractical.Same way they believe in some totally false and childish acted miracles performed by churches.
That any person can believe the story of the Op,poorly scripted as it is and full of not just loop,but even gutter holes,shows you how deeply we are regressing collectively as a people,while people in other climes,including their up growing ones,are daily using the wonderful gift of information technology and the internet to advance.
Take a sample analysis around you,you would find that despite the internet and further insights into our world,freely available to many now,many Nigerians,still hold unto those beliefs and practices,that held us down,before the arrival of the missionaries and colonialists.
We,on average,as a people,have refused to progress in thought,ideas and critical thinking.

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by AiiVee(m): 7:45am On Apr 20, 2018
this OP self...your own wrong doings plenty pass the girl own by far.. I just pity your Mother and siblings who would have been happy to see you as their savior only to be brainwashed by a skirt.

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