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6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:09am On Apr 20, 2018 |
When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are known to be actively engaging. Apart from their culture of carrying the financial burden of relationship with women, they harness every opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on social-network sites, in their respective offices, religious organizations, clubs among others. Now I'm going to list 6 reasons why Nigerian men run from marriage 1. No wife materials Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. 2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole. 3. Nigeria weddings are expensive In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. Presently the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N700,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost. 4. In search of a ‘working class’ Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home. 5. Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships. 6. Trust issues Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there. 67 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by IamGoke(m): 6:11am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Ok... |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by eezeribe(m): 6:14am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Women are the ones who benefit more in a marriage.the only reason why God created them is to have sex with men and bear children.once a woman gets married,her destiny has been fulfilled on earth.most women are natural liabilities,so the least a man should take from them should be wife material and working class.I HEREBY AGREE WITH POINTS 1 & 4. If a woman meets points 1 & 4,points 2,3,5,6 become inconsequential. 120 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by TheHotspur(m): 6:14am On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:21am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat 20 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by highpriestess: 6:24am On Apr 20, 2018 |
some of them are lazy bunch of retards.
stay away from them,better to be single than to marry a hell fire. 6 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by izzou(m): 6:33am On Apr 20, 2018 |
[quote author=TheUpsetGirl1 post=66865829][/quote] 1. No wife materialsThis is the most deluded statement I've heard from a lady 2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time pastSo in marriage, you don't get sex freely baa? Another trash as I expected 3. Nigeria weddings are expensiveSo gatemen, drivers, and people that work in the same biscuit factory with you don't have husbands and wives baa? Did they spend as much as 700k? Keep living in delusion 4. In search of a ‘working class’Well,this reason makes a little sense 5. Unrealistic Expectations from In-lawsGive an example of an unrealistic expectation or for ever 6. Trust issuesYou are talking about marriage. This means they must be in a relationship already. So how is the issue of trust here again.? Mtcheew Good morning dear 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:36am On Apr 20, 2018 |
highpriestess:I tell you I'm always honest when it comes to relationships better be single than date a broke guy... Girl where have you been deadrat thought because you do buy him pop corn he has the right to talk to me the way he likes dude got more than what he bargained for yesterday 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by IamD18: 6:37am On Apr 20, 2018 |
izzou:It's not a deluded statement, blame her not for making such statement because ladies of this generation have being ruined, this generation is fvcked that women marry for money and to ease pressure. I stand with her with that statement because a woman can only pretend to be a wife material when there's money, disguise yourself and see how they'll flop woefully. The post below was made by a Nigerian lady for you to understand what I mean. Thegeneralqueen: izzou:No! Sex is not free in a marriage, you are indirectly paying for it. izzou:Even if they spend 300k for their wedding, it still doesn't mean it isn't expensive, we'v got different financial worth. Marriage is expensive in Nigeria both for the rich and the poor, that's the truth. izzou: Go and get married to Dangote's daughter, then I'll believe that inlaws don't give unrealistic expectations. izzou: Trust is the very last thing most partners pay attention to in a relationship. A woman will channel her concentration in your financial abilities, while a man will channels his concentration in your loyalty and respect. Even, we are not even suppose to trust anyone. highpriestess: What can you offer a rich man? Absolutely nothing! 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by ipobarecriminals: 6:39am On Apr 20, 2018 |
nah baby mama dem dey nowadays. u get preg for unserious fellow, nah ur toro be dat. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by eezeribe(m): 6:40am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:This is actually more applicable to women... 10 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by iQUOTE: 6:43am On Apr 20, 2018 |
You gave 6 reasons, but this is the main reason why you made this post - Money. If we're to go by your thinking, people will never have a relationship because of their financial situation. It's only a broke girl that recognize a broke guy. Relationship is not a sure way out of your predicament. Go and make something out of your life and stop being a dependent leech. There is no free money anywhere, especially for girls like you with this mentality. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:44am On Apr 20, 2018 |
izzou: you must be stupid, you changed your gender from female to male to say trash. you don't know me in person, how did you know I'm working in a buiscuit factory? please don't get me angry this morning 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by highpriestess: 6:45am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:goodmorning darl. project in progress sis. what did he do this time. seems I will start buying koboko for him. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by eezeribe(m): 6:45am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Guys please stop dating or marrying ladies from poor families.marry within your social class... 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:46am On Apr 20, 2018 |
eezeribe:Nah don't compare yourself with a woman go work hard 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by UDUJ(m): 6:46am On Apr 20, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: My dear you told us yourself Or you've forgotten 16 Likes 1 Share
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Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by littlewonders: 6:47am On Apr 20, 2018 |
To join to that "Men(not all, majority) are not ready for challenges. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by izzou(m): 6:49am On Apr 20, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: You sound so angry this morning. Are you just coming back from your night shift? The internet never forgets. Remember how you came here to tell us of how you work in a biscuit factory? It's not my business sha. At least you qualify for the so called "Working class" Anyway, back to your thread. You haven't countered my points yet. Abi is that not your reason for creating this thread? To engage us in a discussion? Now leave biscuit wahala and let's discuss 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by eezeribe(m): 6:49am On Apr 20, 2018 |
UDUJ:Maybe she has forgotten... 4 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by UDUJ(m): 6:51am On Apr 20, 2018 |
eezeribe: hahahahahaha I tell you bro. She doesn't know Nairaland never forgets 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by eezeribe(m): 6:51am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:Why would you change an argument from general to personal,there is difference between logic and emotion. 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:51am On Apr 20, 2018 |
highpriestess:Awww good morning darling Still can't believe how I overcome mine in 2016 so stressful glad I'm done with it Deadrat seems to have forgotten that he's talking to the general queen he got so carried away by hungry and starts calling me names thinking I'm like you that do buys him pop corn but he got it on a hard row made sure I dealt with him 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:53am On Apr 20, 2018 |
eezeribe:Now leave this thread and go make yourself useful 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:54am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: Nigerian guys are tired of the "head of the home" title.. father lawd... 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:55am On Apr 20, 2018 |
highpriestess: you mean Nigerian guys? 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by eezeribe(m): 6:55am On Apr 20, 2018 |
UDUJ:Most of them can't state their points without being defensive end abusive like their role model CEE-C... 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:56am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: on track... go girl!! |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:56am On Apr 20, 2018 |
eezeribe:I didn't change anything you got it wrongly |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by highpriestess: 6:57am On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:58am On Apr 20, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1:That word bust their ego 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by eezeribe(m): 6:58am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:Double standards... |
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