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Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Ogaonos: 1:22pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
kimbraa:my sista I tiya o 4 d kind of ladies we dey c nwadays o.they are too immature nd irrational in reasoning.dis kind ones if d op dump am na Fb she cum dey wail cum make pple cum dey console Am.sum galz can make a guy hate females.but wetin I notice b sey ever seen small pikin cum full university relatnship have gone sour.4rm d op write up u knw d gal get small pikin brain.mature lady no dey reason like DT.miss s days wen we had more mature young ladies nowadays so so kids dey form ladies.they spoilt relatnship na make guys dey go 4 ashawo sorri 2 say.bcis na 2 act real man wer go dey spend spend na b relatnship of 2day which was not like DT in 2004 down wen mature ladies dey campus nd single hood. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
ade2291: Why do you think Jesus says any man that marries an adulterer is an adulterer? Simply put, before any woman leaves a man, there's a voice making false promises, can you see how quick the oP is quick to declare she left him on her own, erasing his own footprints in the break-up as though he was not involved. Should a man be asking out a lady who's with a guy or rather already close to the altar? Karma's serving the dude a taste of his own bitter pill, what a wicked soul the dude is. Their relationship is built on a foundation of lies, deceit, dishonesty and will not breakup without both of them hurting themselves for the treachery they committed against a pure soul with honest intent.He committed a crime in secrecy, he ran into problem he's here telling us. 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by phemmyfour: 1:24pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
CrescentMoon:In relationship, 1+1 is not 2. Forget about mathematics skills and formula if you really want to have peace |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by markbenny(m): 1:32pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
run for your life if you care about your happiness. she can dump you as easy as she dumped the other guy. read the signs and dump her first. you can never have control over such women CrescentMoon: 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Oshomo12(m): 1:34pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Is Buhari right, youths are VERY lazy? 0-3 page only one person did a research on the op before posting, na wa o! https://www.nairaland.com/4365951/she-destroyed-marriage-because-me |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by naeto2(m): 1:42pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
In this post, she canceled her wedding for you. In another thread, another lady with four kids destroyed her marriage for you. You are not lazy at all! 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by ImaIma1(f): 1:44pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
You shouldn't be threatening her with not going ahead with the marriage plans. She offends you and the next thing is to threaten her with not marrying her. Is the marriage a favour to her? Are you perfect yourself that you never have never offended her? You are also wrong. 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by adedehinbo(m): 1:58pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
rikemsmedia:I mean it,is the girl not fair in complexion? |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by adedehinbo(m): 2:00pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
markbenny:just escaped from this kind of girl,they tend to ruin ur happiness, life and make you a miserable person 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by godofuck231: 2:16pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Rules of engagement 1. Do not fire except when fired upon- you woke up a part of the woman's mind for warfare,she left an existing relationship for you and you are turning her mind into a nightmare storm, brewing a potent for psychological abuse which becomes physical with time, and you are "claiming alfa" she will hunt you down, God help you if you survive. 2. If you are in range of firing your weapon, so is your enemy- if your words can ignite fire hers can detonate a nuclear bomb killing even she herself: fear 3 things in life: (i)God (ii)guns (iii)women If you do you will live long. 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by talk2percy(m): 2:18pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
CrescentMoon:...Bros, are u sure u can live peacefully with that ur lady if peradventure u end up as husband and wife?? |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by steveDpro: 2:22pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by godofuck231: 2:43pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
TOMSY: No woman opens her eyes and would be willing to walk into an abusive marriage, it's a nightmare for women, it's the reason most women don't get married, the fear or being humiliated and abused, talk more beaten, if she sees her condition as deteriorating, the next man who sees her as valuable will win her heart and she will go with him, Na small thing, just study women and know how they think and react, ignorance and pride kills men mostly black men. I once told my lady that she will get it hot from me the next time, if she burns anything she's cooking for me, it took me 2 hours to realise I had primed a sappers M18A1 claymore on my neck, without calling I snook into her house that night and went straight for the room, only to see her pillow was wet with tears, eyes swollen, took me time to plead and beg her to not see it that way, and that I meant sexual plays, it cost me 1 pizza, 3 roses, 4 exotic chocolates, an iPhone 7 that night ,plus eating her apple for 45 minutes plus to beg her and made her smile. Men should be the men they should be, do not fight wars in your home talk less start one, your home should be your zen not your combat zone. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by clemmonce(m): 2:47pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
CrescentMoon:life has thought me somethings I will teach you some. Choose your fight carefully not every war is worth fighting. It is not everytime you will shoe yourself as the alpha male so times apply wisdom. You like the girl like you said will you now say you broke up with someone you love because she did not apologise for something as flippant like that ? Sit her down .. Tell her she needs to change not that you won't marry each other but it will only tear you guys apart. Wahala no dey brother. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
clemmonce: it's not something to walk over, it's a pointer, every human trait has a deep reservoir it derives its energy and nutrition from, it's not something little. Any human being male or female that can't apologise, or feel apology makes them weak has issues, a complete sociopath, anyone that can't apologise should not bother about marriage at all. In the journey of life, lots of apology is needed for the journey especially marriage. The lady in this condition is not marriageable. From his small texts, you can see many negativities with the said personality, some ladies can't marry, men know this. No matter what is done to them, some ladies can never and will never marry |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by clemmonce(m): 2:59pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
rikemsmedia:smiles.. you have a point though. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
clemmonce: Before taking any non-Churrch Nigerian lady serious, take them to church is what i can advice guys, many of these ladies are demon-possessed and their attitude has been spoilt by the inter-twining of demonic activity with their spirits being the under-cause of their filthy character lots of times |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by CosmicJames(m): 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
CrescentMoon:Bro, when you cancel a marriage because of another girl, supposing you were the one, what does it mean? You must finish what you started. By the way, the lady haven't offended you yet. She only asked you a question. Instead of you to answer her, you are asking her to apologise. Karma is already after you because of the pain you caused the other guy. Just be very careful. Leaving this lady will not save you from karma. 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
CosmicJames: This one strong Leaving this lady will not save you from karma |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
How is my/our one and only Rorachy aka Chikita66 doing today, i don miss you tire. Babe wey no dey take nonesense |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by CosmicJames(m): 3:27pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
ImaIma1:I think the op is looking for escape route. As far as I'm concerned, the lady haven't offended him just yet. She only asked him a question. Instead of him to answer her, he asked her to apologise. Apologies for what? 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by ImaIma1(f): 3:43pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
dairykidd: Oshey!!! Alphamale |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by eflintsone(m): 3:45pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
for me i do not forgive those who do not apologize |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by CofOLandOfPeace(m): 3:59pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
rikemsmedia: |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by obillyj(f): 4:18pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Love your neighbour as yourself. Lack of compassion n empathy to our neighbour is part of d reason we still go round in this nation. Op, u knew she had fixed date with someone, u didn't put urself in his shoe but permitted her to break d guy's heart n took her in now, u want out if she dosen't apologise. what goes around comes around. Why does she have 2 apologise?what she said was right? U are d chief blackmailer. Why would u threaten to break up with her after what she did for ur sake?why is ur ego making u pompous as thou u hold d key to her marriage?u talk of flaws but urs are glaring. Better work on making urself a better person. By ur actions u are suppose to marry her cos u can't bring her out n leave her stranded but then to avoid future marital crises, if d r/ship does not work, then both of u shld separate. Marriage must not be based on sentiments, pity, debt etc. A broken date is better than a broken marriage. She will cry over it for sometime n move on after all she caused her own doom. But woe to u Op if she is d vindicative type cos u must be ready for acid bathe or even worst. She on her part was foolish to abandon substance n pursue shadow. She is unstable as water.she sure doesn't knw her marital priorities. I hope she has learnt n is making amends. She better go n apologise well to d guy n obtain his forgiveness if she wants happiness in her home. There is nemesis. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
rikemsmedia:Been busy dear |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by clemmonce(m): 4:48pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
rikemsmedia:that is my number one advice. Pray before you get married. Character is one thing Spiritual cleanliness is another thing. Pray hard. I like your sense of reasoning thumbs up... I almost gave up on nairaland. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Chikita66: I love your guts, your strong sense of self belief and how you stand for our values. God bless you, if the world has more people like you, especially Nigerians, we would be better. Ass-lickers everywhere, people's belles and stomachs have turned them to something else. In the main time, oya dey dance for front, make i use my typical tambourine dey dance for your back, rorachy wey no send. Heart eater |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
clemmonce: Character sprouts from spiritual state is the scenario |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by CosmicJames(m): 4:56pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
obillyj:Exactly! She needs to apologise to her ex and not the op if she wants to be happy for the rest of her life. Karma is also after her too. I think both of them are running a karma kind of relationship and will be unable to find happiness |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Coldfeets: 5:24pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Chi59: Nice. I'm impressed. Succinct and objective opinion devoid of any gender bias in any way at all. I love that. Remember me, from our last discussion... huh? Okay. You've triggered it. I'm now in your radar... |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Apologize: Should I Forgive Her? by Eagba(m): 5:35pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
CrescentMoon:op she will and you deserve it. She will be humping your friend while she stays happily married to you. |
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