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Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by fykes(m): 5:37pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
I met a lady who wanted to marry me...just me, not for anything else, i wasnt rich, just had a good job, a home and my dreams yet ahe wouldnt trade for anyrhing not even money.because she was so fine she could have any man wanted and she had lots of suitors...her dad didn't want me but she insisted... I wasn't even ready but I knew if I missed out on her, I won't rind her again. I married the only lady I always asked myself what exactly did she see in me? D woman that made a man out of the boy I was. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Stycon(m): 5:39pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Rizzoli: A Quick one; sincere love don't fail and can't fail, especially when it's mutual. If you don't have a rock solid, genuine and convincing reason for going into marriage, then I don't think you will find any for staying in it. Mind you, marriages fail today because they lack purpose. And when there is no purpose, the incentive to continue won't be there neither. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:41pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
humilitypays:Speak for yourself you wrote balderdash but it is your opinion. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
[quote author=Stycon post=66994673] A Quick one; sincere love don't fail and can't fail, especially when it's mutual. If you don't have a rock solid reason, genuine and convincing reason for going into marriage, then I don't think you will find any for stay in it. Mind you, marriages fail today because they lack purpose. And when there is no purpose, the incentive to continue won't be there neither. [/quote Sincerity is the word, love doesn't exist in isolation .. Purpose could be used synonymously in this context as commitment |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:45pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Icon79:Hence the insults at soapqueen can't you at least tell her in a respectful manner.Someone you don't know in person. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Icon79(m): 5:47pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Where did I insult her? I asked her a simple question. Can you show me where I insulted her? Or are you suffering from comprehension deficit as well O pari AmazonTopaz: |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Stycon(m): 5:48pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
@Rizzoli Yeah. I will rather say purpose birth commitment. You cannot commit to nothing. |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:48pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Icon79:So mugu is a compliment abi?And no I am not suffering from such. |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Icon79(m): 5:50pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
I didn't call her a mugu. I said #mugu. That's NOT calling her a mugu. O pari AmazonTopaz: |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:53pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Icon79:No it is not calling her mugu it is telling her mugu .What is the meaning of #mugu?O Pari. |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Mskrisx(f): 5:58pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Stycon: You right. Make I enter market go find Johnny oo |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by emperormossad(m): 5:59pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: It is possible to love your partner through long years of marriage. I've seen people do it. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Devane(m): 5:59pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
kingkakaone: Oga, 'what is the core reason why you got married or intend to get married?'. That was the question. Simply answer and stop writing epistle of St. Paul to the Amphibians!! 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Stycon(m): 6:04pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Mskrisx: Why enter market when he's been waiting for you already- haven't you noticed |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by emperormossad(m): 6:04pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
When I'm matured enough for marriage, I'll marry for the right reason. One thing is certain. I'll get married to the mother of my kids. |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Eberex(m): 6:04pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
I got married on the 14th April, so I am 10days old in my marriage. Now back to the question. I got married because I felt it was time I have someone to share my life with, which include plans and ideas. Secondly , Steady pumping and sending spec product straight to the tank. No more disposals. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by olujastro: 6:06pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
The older I get, the less I understand the meaning of the word love. Right now I feel marriage is simply tying the knot with whoever you're dating at the time you are ready to get married. Whoever is the eventual beneficiary at that time ends up as your wife. That's the way things are looking at the moment. All my fantasies about marriage have been wiped away by reality. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Mskrisx(f): 6:08pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Stycon: No. where is he? |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by hot1sauce(m): 6:12pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Its so sad these days, this generation ..... everything about life is so hard so we cant marry for the reasons say our parents did- like it always gets me when I ask my dad why he married my mum? and he always says the same sh*t- " for her cooking"- I mean WTF? for me personally that's not even a good reason to marry..... because if you cant cook doesn't mean u wont make a good partner. but u see this African mentality of a thing- in these trying times, it helps people to really prioritise and see what is important in life, because afterall this life is short! You Only Live Once |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by gonkin(m): 6:16pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
I would wanna marry for love, companionship, have my 3 kids and enjoy my life with my wife and kids. I hate it when a lady wants to get married because her friends are already married. Imagine that, then after i marry she would start giving me attitude and refuse me sex. That's how cheating starts cuz the man is denied sex. There are many girls out there like that. I just wish to settle with someone that feels me as a part of her. That feeling of having someone in your heart . I pray God assists me with the right partner cuz the way some people complain of their marriage its like marriage is a bad thing. I hope to marry someone that will love me more than i love her. Even wowo guy still dey marry na shuu 1 Like
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Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by IdeyFindWife: 6:19pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
@ FrenzyDuchess She's warm, witty (fiery when riled) got her own mind (views, dreams, ideas) and holds her own well ( no pushover) passionate enough to be committed but also real enough whether in love (not to be reduced to a mindless vegetable) or at war ( to make fair conclusions in the interest of progress) she has a way with words that rocks my world and equilibriates like no other I could rock that, would love to rock that thrill ride for a life time. I would definitely wanna be there, honored, to see & aid that diva rise to her best, shine at her brightest and live life to her fullest! 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Cupie22(f): 6:21pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
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Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Biglittlelois(f): 6:22pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
emperormossad: You cant love someone you live with consistently for a long period of time, it's like an on and off switch, at a point it will be off and what you'll have left is tolerance, understanding, mutual respect etc. It cant always be rosy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by iomoge2(f): 6:23pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
I got married cos i met the man who loved me 100%. Someone who wanted me. Cared for me. Someone who couldn't stand my feeling sad. Its been over 4 years and it gets better.... My happiness is what he craves 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Cupie22(f): 6:26pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
dbynonetwork:Whether marriage is a scam or not, you will not like it if you remain single,although not everyone will get married but it is also ordained by God |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by ItzBIM(m): 6:27pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
chenzen: Hope you won’t be lonely when u get old 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by vicdon(m): 6:31pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Mofpearl: Comman breastfeed me.. |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Stycon(m): 6:32pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: Are you for real @the colored? So, love now get switch In my opinion, the presence of ups and downs in a relationship doesn't mean love fluctuates. In fact, staying together despite the unusual is a testimony that love never switch, it's constant. Love doesn't deplete with time biko Or which version of love are you talking about please? 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by emperormossad(m): 6:33pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:My dear it is possible. Before we go further I'll have to ask an important question. What's the basis for the love share between two people? Is it a matter of deliberate choice to love the other person? Or is it a case of 'falling' in love? When people fall, at some point it's inevitable that they'll have to rise again. Yes it cannot always been rosy and good, but to state that love no longer exists because things are not rosy are the moment is to deny the foundation of what brought them together if legitimate. People fall easily and for various reasons. But I don't advocate for falling in love. I rather advocate for a deliberate decision to open your eyes and grow into love with the person. It must be a deliberate act, not that one of butterflies in the stomach or missing a heart beat. Even the best of lovers tolerate one or two things about themselves but one thing that is undeniable is the love shared between them. It takes so much to get to where they're. You cannot just conclude that they no longer love themselves in those 'difficult' moments. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Truthsbitter: 6:34pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
humilitypays:Brotherly.... #thumbs-up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
ItzBIM:in a country of over 170 million people? ... by the time l m old it would have skyrocketed up to 250m... Nah bro.! 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Core Reason Why You Got Married Or Intend To Get Married? by AkpaMgbor(m): 6:49pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
I’m getting married because I crave for a lifelong companion/friend..and also to have unhindered sex..I’m not getting married because of kids or who to ‘continue my lineage’....when I’m gone from this earth I won’t be aware if anybody is continuing my lineage or not, I won’t be aware,ashamed or proud of anybody here on earth...I will know NOTHING..but while on earth, I need a companion.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
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