hayzed1090:


So Wats d essence

True honesty between both parties to begin with.

kingkakaone:
I think most people marry today because of what they lust after and when their fantasies are satisfied, they get tired of the partner they have and wished they never rushed into such a very complicated decision of a lifetime commitment.
While a lot end in divorce, some (the religious ones) become so boring and filled with regrets.

Not far from the truth....it should be based on “true deep rooted love” and unwavering commitment towards one another

Biglittlelois:



You cant love someone you live with consistently for a long period of time, it's like an on and off switch, at a point it will be off and what you'll have left is tolerance, understanding, mutual respect etc.
It cant always be rosy.

all u r have listed in bold r the fruits of love... Don't get it twisted

I will revisit this thread when I eventually get married..... but for now am still single.

look at this guy o, you don't even know who u r talking to.you must think i'm a xtian, Hebrew of the Hebrews is what I am...If i expounded to you you wouldn't understand that being born again is not what you xtians think it is, really dont wanna talk more about it, i'm still in the process of being born again,it takes years to be transformed and there's a transformation that happens at an instant..im gonna stop here

BdorianGray:


Go Jor.. U can't be sure... Go and meditate...

It's spiritual and natural but if you have the eyes then you can find the answer in Exo 21:10,Isaiah 30:32,Song of Shlomo 7:10-12 etc without it there will be no salvation for man or woman

BdorianGray:


So while we are at it... What wld be your own reason for matrimony

To start a family; kids, husby and the emotional connection that comes with having something as beautiful as a family. Its gonna be a total experience and journey for me when the time comes.

I wanna marry someone I truly love someone I can learn from

I want to marry my fiance because he's what I need, and not what I want.
He's matured, responsible, a great father and provider.
I made a list of character qualities that I desired in a mate over a decade ago and he's fulfilled over 65% of my list. He's not perfect, but neither am I.
He is not the richest, but he's hardworking and I know we'll be rich in future because we both encourage each others hustles. I want to marry him because he is stable. He doesn't play mind games or create unnecessary drama. He's a man that I respect and look up to and I'd be proud to raise children with him.

SyberKate:
Unlimited early morning s3x

chia, this girl has the real answer, can i be giving u that?

well iv not really gotten a hang of what marriage is all about. but one thing is certain love is not the first thing anybody should look at before considering marriage, but compatibility... are we compatible? do we share the same values, likes etc...then love comes in..

then companionship that's the second one.. the bible says that God said it is not good for man to be alone..that's y he created woman out of man for man..
3 rd reason is to procreate..bring up godly seed
God commanded Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply to fill the earth

chenzen:
The y there is too long Mr Man... tell me one thing l can't get as a single fufilled happy free man that marriage can offer me

Nothing.

Absolutely nothing.

Marriage is total rubbish.

Look at so many stupid fools saying they will marry because of sex.

Sex with one person for the rest of your life is the worst type of punishment any man can assign to himself.

I can't even begin to imagine how boring such a life will be.

Marriage only favours women because it adds to their status.

Which is even another reason why I strongly believe the whole idea of marriage is very foolish.

trublvr:
I want to marry my fiance because he's what I need, and not what I want.
He's matured, responsible, a great father and provider.
I made a list of character qualities that I desired in a mate over a decade ago and he's fulfilled over 65% of my list. He's not perfect, but neither am I.
He is not the richest, but he's hardworking and I know we'll be rich in future because we both encourage each others hustles. I want to marry him because he is stable. He doesn't play mind games or create unnecessary drama. He's a man that I respect and look up to and I'd be proud to raise children with him.

Highest five years into the whole scam....

He changed.

I don't want to continue.

It's like he deceived me.

Nonsense!

sexdoll:


Highest five years into the whole scam....

He changed.

I don't want to continue.

It's like he deceived me.

Nonsense!

So sorry if you experienced the boldened. But, why did you marry him in the first place?

OptimusPrime3:
All of you intending to get married because of sex are in for a big surprise!

Kindly educate people like us. How are we supposed to know if you won`t teach us so that we can set realistic expectations?

emperormossad:
When I'm matured enough for marriage, I'll marry for the right reason.
One thing is certain. I'll get married to the mother of my kids.

Lol, funny you.

olujastro:
The older I get, the less I understand the meaning of the word love.
Right now I feel marriage is simply tying the knot with whoever you're dating at the time you are ready to get married. Whoever is the eventual beneficiary at that time ends up as your wife.
That's the way things are looking at the moment. All my fantasies about marriage have been wiped away by reality.

Keep your dreams alive.Those realities are not yours.

gonkin:
I would wanna marry for love, companionship, have my 3 kids and enjoy my life with my wife and kids.

I hate it when a lady wants to get married because her friends are already married. Imagine that, then after i marry she would start giving me attitude and refuse me sex. That's how cheating starts cuz the man is denied sex.

There are many girls out there like that. I just wish to settle with someone that feels me as a part of her. That feeling of having someone in your heart .

I pray God assists me with the right partner cuz the way some people complain of their marriage its like marriage is a bad thing.

I hope to marry someone that will love me more than i love her. Even wowo guy still dey marry na shuu

That guy in your meme is very handsome please.

AkpaMgbor:
I’m getting married because I crave for a lifelong companion/friend..and also to have unhindered sex..I’m not getting married because of kids or who to ‘continue my lineage’....when I’m gone from this earth I won’t be aware if anybody is continuing my lineage or not, I won’t be aware,ashamed or proud of anybody here on earth...I will know NOTHING..but while on earth, I need a companion....

hahaha...I remember one guy in my school that year lol, the guy shared with me how he changed his surname to an English name.
(English because of bigots.)
So I questioned him, "why?". He felt he was a grown man and can take that decision. His dad is late but nonetheless I felt bad for him (dad).
So I tried to reason with my friend, "guy, but why do you think there was rejoicing on the day you were born? Your dad must have rejoiced to have a son to carry on his name...and now you`ve changed it." And he went, "abeg, leave that thing. which name? My dad has lived his life and made his decisions and now is gone and that, is never gonna change. This is my life to live."

My reason was simple. We were tired of saying bye bye and leaving each other every night.

Malakh:
look at this guy o, you don't even know who u r talking to.you must think i'm a xtian, Hebrew of the Hebrews is what I am...If i expounded to you you wouldn't understand that being born again is not what you xtians think it is, really dont wanna talk more about it, i'm still in the process of being born again,it takes years to be transformed and there's a transformation that happens at an instant..im gonna stop here

Yes... That's why I quoted you of all posts in the first place.
You seem correct in most of your ideas, but seems u got it mixed up at some point.Or I got confused at some point.

So what part of the world do u hope to meet such lady... ?

the things im saying aint gat nothing to do with a lady, I told you they are spiritual things, figuratively i'm married and so I perform my duties as a "wife" but if you wanna talk about natural women/lady/wife ,scriptures already told you who can find a virtuous woman? they are very rare to find now, a "man" must teach them how to be virtuous that is if the man knows what it means to be virtuous, like Coolio said how can they teach me if they don't understand it and Paul said desiring to be teachers of the law not understanding what they affirm..Anyways those kind of ladies will come in that day when seven women will hold on to one man Isaiah 4

BdorianGray:


Yes... That's why I quoted you of all posts in the first place.
You seem correct in most of your ideas, but seems u got it mixed up at some point.Or I got confused at some point.

So what part of the world do u hope to meet such lady... ?

ogorwyne:
To start a family; kids, husby and the emotional connection that comes with having something as beautiful as a family. Its gonna be a total experience and journey for me when the time comes.

I'm here...whenever you're ready .

frugal:


I'm here...whenever you're ready .

Lol . No problem.

sexdoll:


Highest five years into the whole scam....

He changed.

I don't want to continue.

It's like he deceived me.

Nonsense!

Wow. You need to stop skipping your meds. Stay blessed, not bitter

Cos people are getting married
To have sex

boyjo:

That guy in your meme is very handsome please.

Thanks

boyjo:


Lol, funny you.

Abi na. Man must know where him power stop.

solasoulmusic:
I wanna marry someone I truly love someone I can learn from

Marry me.

emperormossad:


Marry me.

bless

solasoulmusic:
bless

But I'll give you all you desire