austyn0:
Broh,, it goes without doubt that money is terribly and totally needed in every relationship,, if you truly know how life works,, she might be loyal and understanding of ur managing state, buh man, provided life is concerned, she will get tired someday unless you become financially strong before she does.... So, my suggestion is, a man should try to keep those good girls fate played tricks on him with very close and hustle hard.. Hope I made sense

dinachi:

You don't need money to date except it is a prostitute!

austyn0:
Really?....... A conscientious niggie should know fully well that even if his lover doesn't request for anything doesn't mean she is not expecting anything, at some point you gat to surprise her, especially on her birthdays, what are you gonna surprise her with?.... MONEY

Oyindidi:
No money No erection

don4real18:
I don't support a guy going into a relationship being broke but what happens if you were financially stable and in a relationship but later become broke. Will the lady breakup with you?

prechbills1:


As a man one thing you should never do in life is using money to keep a lady or making ladies your priority. Money is terribly needed in a relationship to make it work but that money should be provided by both partners.


"Old age doesn't really equate sense -Igbo tribe

Oyindidi:
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Bite me

Explorers:
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JimiCoker2:
Guess it depends on the reason why he doesn't have money to spend on her, is it that he isn't working/hustling, or he's spending all his money on getting standard things a guy should have/preparing for the future. If its the former, he should forget about dating and focus on getting his life on track. Your comment is only applicable in the latter, but such a girl should ensure the guy is actually interested in something permanent, unless she's just looking to have some fun.
Some girls don't want to be with a guy that has an income and is starting out in life independently so he has to manage his finances to get basic necessities, they feel such a guy should stagnate in whatever stage of life she meets him and be spending his entire salary on frivolities. Then when its time for marriage she'll start talking about how she can't start a family in this neighborhood, without a car, large gen/furniture/appliances etc. These things don't fall out of the sky (unless you're the type that collects money from daddy and mommy), you have to save for them

grossintel:
The guy should have better concerns than dating... He should channel that energy into something productive. Except maybe he was financially stable and got temporarily broke because of a failed business or he executed a contract with all his money and is yet to be paid, it will be foolishness for his girlfriend to live him because his broke.

greiboy:
It goes to show that some ladies are merely financial liabilities


They can't see themselves as financially independent in a relationship, but when anyone confront them with these allegations, they will find it insultive

Here is a fun fact; I am not struggling to get money in order to date a lady that is probably enjoying a romantic experience with another man while I am struggling despite being poor herself, I am hustling for myself and to appreciate those that are ready to stand beside me through the process