Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,714,016 members, 6,412,551 topics. Date: Friday, 30 July 2021 at 12:08 PM

.. - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / .. (2743 Views)

Does The Rich Always Marry The Rich? - Solomon Buchi Bartholomew / How Do I Know If My Girlfriend Will Get Fat When I Marry Her? / Should I Marry This Single Mother? (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (Reply) (Go Down)

.. by Juliuss01: 9:10am On May 03, 2018
Hello house, thank you all for ur comments!!!
Re: .. by pyyxxaro: 9:13am On May 03, 2018
The next person has something useful to say embarassed

1 Like

Re: .. by ebuk4real(m): 9:28am On May 03, 2018
Hmmm.. From experience, I suggest you follow your heart..

Have been in that shoe before. But the only difference was that my gal wasn't working then. So was I too but she really did love me. I let her follow the guy that was ready since she was really facing enormous pressure from home as her people at home are struggling too.

But since you're okay and you love this guy and you are certain he feels same way too and you know he has prospect, it's your CALL nonetheless..

For the other guy, still your call if you think you can love him with time... smiley

6 Likes 1 Share

Re: .. by Twoclans(f): 9:30am On May 03, 2018
My dear,never marry a man because he is financially ready or because of money.Especially when you dont have feelings for him.Your mum will not be in the marriage with you.Your happiness must never be compromised.

If you go into a marriage because the guy has money,a house or financially ready the possibility that you will cheat in that marriage is very high.Marry a man who is your friend and who you have deep feelings for.If you work hard as a woman you can buy the world so why mortgage your happiness because of money.

I hope you can make the right decision.

18 Likes 3 Shares

Re: .. by eniorisha(m): 9:30am On May 03, 2018
Stay with d jobless man. U are marrying to d rich dude not anyone else pestering u on his behalf. U you settle for d dude, they'll control & treat u as a possession, aside d fact dt u don't love him & divine revelation is against choosing him.

God will help u choose aright.

5 Likes

Re: .. by ferdison(m): 9:31am On May 03, 2018
Peace.....
Follow your heart dear n let "peace" b what you get after Ur decision.

2 Likes

Re: .. by JasonScoolari: 9:33am On May 03, 2018
You're indeed "25 years SOLD"




You allow your mum and your potential father in law to be messing with your brain? Damn!!!

7 Likes

Re: .. by IamD18: 9:37am On May 03, 2018
Lol, many fellows are not being honest with their comments here cheesy cheesy cheesy, I had to laugh reading your writeups and some comments herein.
Love matters in a marriage and money matters also.

But let me tell you a secret about the guy you love; No atom of loyalty and love can be compared with that of a broke boyfriend, they are so loyal and loving possibly because they are broke , if you know, you know grin

Now let me tell you another secret about the rich boyfriend ; It's important for a man or woman to marry a partner who loves him/her more than he/she does , it's safer, if you know, you still know grin


Now, let me tell you the secret about yourself ; The pure and true definition of LOVE from an African woman is a man who's committed and a good provider , if you know, you know grin

Now, let me tell you a secret about men as a man Our true and real love and loyalty should be judged when we are rich, not when we are broke

My advise is this I cannot come by myself to be the cause of your misfortune because of myself by myself cheesy cheesy cheesy




Note: I did not advise you to marry who you'v got no feelings for.
I did not advise you to leave the man you love.
I did not advise you to miss the opportunity of a committed man.

I only revealed some secret facts for you to decide from.

Use your head.

To whom big ass is given, brain is expected

27 Likes

Re: .. by austyn0(m): 9:38am On May 03, 2018
Marriage is a life-time engagement,, it should involve you going for your happiness other than wealth that can disappear anytime,, forget that "you will love him with time", it's like placing your entire savings on a betslip and hoping for the best.... I can only question the other guy you love if he is not hardworking or ambitious, if he is hardworking, have faith in him, keep praying for him, encourage him steadily and coupled with your efforts your lives will be crowned with success.....


YOUR HAPPINESS SHOULD COME FIRST!

2 Likes

Re: .. by makydebbie(f): 9:41am On May 03, 2018
Lol, babe.

Never compromise your happiness and we're talking about long term. Please you're just twenty five, no need to rush. Stick with the one you love.

2 Likes

Re: .. by thorpido(m): 9:48am On May 03, 2018
You are a working class lady so you're earning some income.The other guy doesn't work but does he have prospects,is he ambitious?
Most girls in your shoes always choose the money/ready made only to find out life isn't always about money.
Money is good but you can get it too.If the other guy is committed, hang on with him.Pray to God to help him secure a job.
Never go into marriage with someone you don't have deep feelings for.It can be frustrating later.Even his presence can irritate you.

2 Likes

Re: .. by okenwa(m): 9:58am On May 03, 2018
The road in marriage can not be sustained by anything other than love.


When you quarrel with your partner in marriage ..... can you please imagine the utterances that will come out of his mouth?

Your answers are good as mine.

Lesson learned from bbnaija is that not every lady in that house will go for Miracle despite all accolade

1 Like

Re: .. by GrammarNazi1(m): 10:01am On May 03, 2018
Juliuss01:
Hello house, pls kindly assist.
I am a working class lady, I'm 25 years sold but I'm confused about an issue. There are two guys proposing to me, one is financially ok and he has a good job, even his dad has been the one playing front for him before he gained the courage to propose to me, his dad has also been acting so nice, telling me to go get visa that we may travel out, that his son is also about to finish his house, we can move in after wedding.

The father even told his son to call my mum and now my mum is having interest in him but i don't love this guy no matter how much I try to, though he's financially ok. At a time I prayed over it but the revelation I saw was against the guy, I told his dad about the revelation because his dad will not stop pestring me but his dad said I should not be bothered about the dreams as a believer.

However, I love the other guy, he loves me more, always ready to do anything to see me happy, he's so nice, caring and love God but he has no JOB, not even an apartment of his own, though he's a graduate seeking for job, i have interest in him but my mum wants me to settle down so soon with the guy that is ready that I will later love him in the marriage.
What can i do pls. should wait for the guy I love or follow my mum’s advice.
...I'm 25 years old...

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: .. by Safiaa(f): 10:02am On May 03, 2018
Listen to your mum. Please! Listen to her. I know right now it may seem like your head over heels in love with this guy, but love is not enough. Think long term and not short term. If you really want to marry this guy you love, then you need to see that he’s capable of being a provider and father. Don’t rely on hope it leads to disappointment. Watch his actions and think about it properly. This love will faze out when you can’t pay the bills, take care of your children or provide the lifestyle needed for them. Good luck.

4 Likes

Re: .. by Auladimeji(m): 10:03am On May 03, 2018
25years sold indeed cheesy

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: .. by GrammarNazi1(m): 10:03am On May 03, 2018
Juliuss01:
Hello house, pls kindly assist.
I am a working class lady, I'm 25 years sold but I'm confused about an issue. There are two guys proposing to me, one is financially ok and he has a good job, even his dad has been the one playing front for him before he gained the courage to propose to me, his dad has also been acting so nice, telling me to go get visa that we may travel out, that his son is also about to finish his house, we can move in after wedding.

The father even told his son to call my mum and now my mum is having interest in him but i don't love this guy no matter how much I try to, though he's financially ok. At a time I prayed over it but the revelation I saw was against the guy, I told his dad about the revelation because his dad will not stop pestring me but his dad said I should not be bothered about the dreams as a believer.

However, I love the other guy, he loves me more, always ready to do anything to see me happy, he's so nice, caring and love God but he has no JOB, not even an apartment of his own, though he's a graduate seeking for job, i have interest in him but my mum wants me to settle down so soon with the guy that is ready that I will later love him in the marriage.
What can i do pls. should wait for the guy I love or follow my mum’s advice.
...pestering...
Re: .. by pocohantas(f): 10:06am On May 03, 2018
makydebbie:
Lol, babe.

Never compromise your happiness and we're talking about long term. Please you're just twenty five, no need to rush. Stick with the one you love.


Just twenty-five ke?
Almost evening newspaper...

1 Like 1 Share

Re: .. by makydebbie(f): 10:11am On May 03, 2018
pocohantas:


Just twenty-five ke?
Almost evening newspaper...
Alot can happen in five years before the sun sets. grin
Re: .. by pocohantas(f): 10:17am On May 03, 2018
makydebbie:
Alot can happen in five years before the sun sets. grin

If nothing happen nko? embarassed embarassed

Where are the evening newspaper identifiers?
I will love to see their comment here grin. They don't know na where some of us dey wait our guy to blow, na im we turn evening newspaper... cry cry cry

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: .. by makydebbie(f): 10:22am On May 03, 2018
pocohantas:


If nothing happen nko? embarassed embarassed

Then she joins the evening newspaper association. embarassed



Where are the evening newspaper identifiers?
I will love to see their comment here grin. They don't know na where some of us dey wait our guy to blow, na im we turn evening newspaper... cry cry cry
Lmao, you'll not see them here. Check out any ladies are hoes and bitches thread.
Life is so unfair. embarassed

1 Like

Re: .. by ibkayee(f): 10:57am On May 03, 2018
2nd guy may not have a job as of now but it sounds like he has potential, if you hadn’t mentioned that he was a graduate and seeking I would’ve said otherwise, most people have to start from somewhere

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: .. by Juliuss01: 11:06am On May 03, 2018
IamD18:
Lol, I had to laugh reading your writeups and some comments herein.

But let me tell you a secret about the guy you love; No atom of loyalty and love can be compared with that of a broke boyfriend, they are so loyal and loving because they are broke , if you know, you know grin

Now let me tell you another secret about the rich boyfriend ; It's important for a man or woman to marry a partner who loves him/her more the he/she does , it's safer, if you know, you still know grin


Now, let me tell you the secret about yourself ; The pure and true definition of LOVE from an African woman is a man who's committed and a good provider , if you know, you know grin

Now, let me tell you a secret about men as a man Our true and real love and loyalty should be judged when we are rich, not when we are broke

My advise if this I cannot come by myself to be the cause of your misfortune because of myself by myself cheesy cheesy cheesy



Use you head.

To whom big ass is given, brain is expected

2 Likes

Re: .. by IamD18: 11:09am On May 03, 2018
Juliuss01:
To be candid, the guy was working before he lost the Job, while he was stil on job, he sends money to my account without asking, buy things n all that at his level, he's just the kind that doesn't mind spending his lasy penny on me, he's just different

Then follow your heart. kiss

It's simple embarassed

4 Likes

Re: .. by Juliuss01: 11:15am On May 03, 2018
Thanks guys, enjoying ur views

2 Likes

Re: .. by mrphysics(m): 11:16am On May 03, 2018
pyyxxaro:
The next person has something useful to say embarassed
grin grin grin
Lol, you sound like you don't believe the story.

Just wait for the I won't marry a broke guy team to arrive. Seeth thou a woman wanting to settle down with someone who is still looking for a job over someone who has a job and coming from a rich home. Trust me, this is scarce judging from the kind of comment we read from these ladies.
Re: .. by Ifakiland(m): 11:18am On May 03, 2018
So in other words you're dating two guys abi?
Smh forking hoe....get the fork out of my sight u disgust me....see you feeling fly talking not knowing who to go for?? Leave the jobless guy alone, he ure probably the one hindering his blessings....witch!!!
Re: .. by mrphysics(m): 11:22am On May 03, 2018
Juliuss01:
Thanks guys, enjoying ur views
The case has been settled already.

If you know the history of the one without job now and you can confirm that when he was working he didn't lead an extravagant life, then go ahead and stick with him. Something big will happen to him soon. But if he has a history of leading a wayward and extravagant life while things were still working for him, sister, run. Such people hardly rise again.

Like people opined, though money plays an important role in any marriage, only love and trust can sustain it. Something is telling me that the rich guy is being forced to marry. Perhaps marry someone that will help him lead a better life. Better run before something as heavy as caterpillar fall on you in the marriage. Money isn't everything.

Go for the one you love.
Re: .. by Ifakiland(m): 11:23am On May 03, 2018
JasonScoolari:
You're indeed "25 years SOLD"




You allow your mum and your potential father in law to be messing with your brain? Damn!!!
She's just a cheat...I'm sure she already making out with the rich dude...

1 Like

Re: .. by mrphysics(m): 11:26am On May 03, 2018
Ifakiland:
So in other words you're dating two guys abi?
Smh forking hoe....get the fork out of my sight u disgust me....see you feeling fly talking not knowing who to go for?? Leave the jobless guy alone, he ure probably the one hindering his blessings....witch!!!

Bros, life is good.

Let's be real, everyday, ladies get countless approaches/request/proposal etc from guys. Do you expect her to put her egg in one basket?

Even you bro, do you call only one girl? grin grin. She asked for advice, it's either you give or you leave. Your comment is uncalled for.
Re: .. by mzangy: 11:27am On May 03, 2018
IamD18:
Lol, many fellows are not being honest with their comments here cheesy cheesy cheesy, I had to laugh reading your writeups and some comments herein.
Love matters in a marriage and money matters also.

But let me tell you a secret about the guy you love; No atom of loyalty and love can be compared with that of a broke boyfriend, they are so loyal and loving possibly because they are broke , if you know, you know grin

Now let me tell you another secret about the rich boyfriend ; It's important for a man or woman to marry a partner who loves him/her more than he/she does , it's safer, if you know, you still know grin


Now, let me tell you the secret about yourself ; The pure and true definition of LOVE from an African woman is a man who's committed and a good provider , if you know, you know grin

Now, let me tell you a secret about men as a man Our true and real love and loyalty should be judged when we are rich, not when we are broke

My advise if this I cannot come by myself to be the cause of your misfortune because of myself by myself cheesy cheesy cheesy




Note: I did not advise you to marry who you'v got no feelings for.
I did not advise you to leave the man you love.
I did not advise you to miss the opportunity of a committed man.

I only revealed some secret facts for you to decide from.

Use your head.

To whom big ass is given, brain is expected
You've said it all. A man is only loyal when he's broke.
Re: .. by Ifakiland(m): 11:30am On May 03, 2018
mrphysics:


Bros, life is good.

Let's be real, everyday, ladies get countless approaches/request/proposal etc from guys. Do you expect her to put her egg in one basket?

Even you bro, do you call only one girl? grin grin. She asked for advice, it's either you give or you leave. Your comment is uncalled for.
This is not a case of having guys call a girl...she knows the guys dad and they so close she told him her dream!! That's cheating bro nothing more...
Re: .. by Ifakiland(m): 11:34am On May 03, 2018
mzangy:

You've said it all. A man is only loyal when he's broke.
Says who? Broke or not when a guy is seriously in love he's in love...u never see jobless guys wey Dey even beat their working class babe to collect money from her and/or even rape her ontop.

2 Likes

(1) (2) (3) (Reply)

Why Candidates Fail The Ielts Writing Test And The Solution / Man Marries His Physically-challenged Fiancee After 4 Years Of Dating / He Proposed To Me,he Went & Marry Another Woman"i Want To Send Assasins To Him"

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2021 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 179
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.