stupidity:
but the girl must be expecting Porsche from him.


All those below me bashing the OP for taking the girlfriend to be slave, does washing dish for someone you love and dating automatically make you a slave and maid? We have lots of ladies out there looking for men with husband materials. If you can’t show your side of wifery, how do you expect to meet a man with husband material?

Secondly, I tire for the way people reason, this is why men feel they own their wife, some of yall are saying she’s only his girlfriend and not her maid or slave, so when he decides to pay her dowry and marry her, only then we can now call her his slave and maid. By then na to carry all my friends dirty clothes give her to wash. Nonsense.

sanpipita:


Some men are a mess, imagine not understanding the need to keep your own home clean instead of waiting for some random gf, bet its way they were brought up, funny they don't realize they lack home training and never a husband material

XhosaNostra:


I see your point, but I still believe she should have done the "right thing", irrespective of his chauvinistic beliefs. Guests come into two categories, too. There are good guests & there are bad guests. IMO, she falls into the later. You just don't walk out as a guest, like a snake slithering out of a hole. It's not right imo, but that's just me. I hope she at least made the bed that she laid her greasy head on.

Preshy561:

bla bla bla shiit.
You think it's everyone that's even interested in that marriage balderdash you use to get some women to their knees?

what of the ones that did the washing nonsense?where are they now?
exes right? to hell with him and his wife material nonsense.

engrelvis:
is nt global my bro.d Africa way of a wife material is when she washes d dishes washes d man clothes even d whole family self runs errands for dem n den keep quiet when being spoken to.bullshit.a woman can easily fake all dat n turn to terror when she finally enter yr house.eveytin still boil down to master slave relationship being exhibited in Africa

Okoyeebos:
See girls coming online to castigate the guy for expecting such from his girlfriend but offline, most of them do much more for their boyfriends.

XhosaNostra:


I see your point, but I still believe she should have done the "right thing", irrespective of his chauvinistic beliefs. Guests come into two categories, too. There are good guests & there are bad guests. IMO, she falls into the later. You just don't walk out as a guest, like a snake slithering out of a hole. It's not right imo, but that's just me. I hope she at least made the bed that she laid her greasy head on.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
They keep crying feminism up and down but still don't know that keeping oneself clean is a personal responsibility. You can't say a woman who thinks you should be clean is a feminist.
A woman who thinks youvshoukd treat your visitor right is a feminist. I don't know what guys are becoming. They don't want to do anything concerning cleanliness but wants someone who is clean.
I bet you the girl saw that the house was dirty and couldn't wait to run away. If you keep your house clean, your visitors will leave it clean when they come. If a visitor comes andbthw house is clean, they may want to pull dear shoes at the door before coming it, but if it's dirty they may not even beat the mud off their shoes before they enter.

engrelvis:
if dis guy v just said my girlfriend Bleep up for nt arranging d kitchen I won't v reacted .he said she has failed his wifey litmus test .I dnt agree with dat.dis is nt d issue of being chauvinistic orcdoing d right thing .

Preshy561:

alright.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
They keep crying feminism up and down but still don't know that keeping oneself clean is a personal responsibility. You can't say a woman who thinks you should be clean is a feminist.
A woman who thinks youvshoukd treat your visitor right is a feminist. I don't know what guys are becoming. They don't want to do anything concerning cleanliness but wants someone who is clean.
I bet you the girl saw that the house was dirty and couldn't wait to run away. If you keep your house clean, your visitors will leave it clean when they come. If a visitor comes andbthw house is clean, they may want to pull dear shoes at the door before coming it, but if it's dirty they may not even beat the mud off their shoes before they enter.

stupidity:
but the girl must be expecting Porsche from him.


All those below me bashing the OP for taking the girlfriend to be slave, does washing dish for someone you love and dating automatically make you a slave and maid? We have lots of ladies out there looking for men with husband materials. If you can’t show your side of wifery, how do you expect to meet a man with husband material?

Secondly, I tire for the way people reason, this is why men feel they own their wife, some of yall are saying she’s only his girlfriend and not her maid or slave, so when he decides to pay her dowry and marry her, only then we can now call her his slave and maid. By then na to carry all my friends dirty clothes give her to wash. Nonsense.

shugamummy:


Not just about 'Alright'. But it's a fact that no man will finish reading your posts and your stance on women responsibilities in a family and near you again. How I wish any man who comes near you will stealthily read all your posts on NL. Why not tell us why the man must provide transport fare to bring in an abandoned property to his house who will eat and mess the kitchen and still leave it behind and come and claim feminist. Btw who even cooked the food the stupid fucking babe ate. One babe asked me to give her 10k tfare to visit me. I asked hr what will be the mutual benefit of this visit. What do I stand to gain if she comes since I have been doing my dishes,doing my clothings,doing my chores,cooking my delicious meals alone and enjoying my weekends with friends. What will she do differently if she comes apart from provide sex and demand Porsche. The moment you idiots wake up to reality,you will begin to work ur ass up to meet your basic tfares and other financial needs and let's see your status in the society whether it will not upgrade. Stupidity

bayulll011:


she is not ordinary guest.
they are lovers why are nigerian like this.

hypocrite everywhere smh

stupidity:
but the girl must be expecting Porsche from him.


All those below me bashing the OP for taking the girlfriend to be slave, does washing dish for someone you love and dating automatically make you a slave and maid? We have lots of ladies out there looking for men with husband materials. If you can’t show your side of wifery, how do you expect to meet a man with husband material?

Secondly, I tire for the way people reason, this is why men feel they own their wife, some of yall are saying she’s only his girlfriend and not her maid or slave, so when he decides to pay her dowry and marry her, only then we can now call her his slave and maid. By then na to carry all my friends dirty clothes give her to wash. Nonsense.

makydebbie:
Courtesy and decency shows that, you shouldn't leave a mess behind even if your host didn't say anything about it. It's even a way of saying thanks for having me. You seem to be digressing so I'll leave this argument here because I didn't mention feminism.
Nobody can be like you, different strokes for some people. Yours is to do what's right. How can you visit someone, make a mess and leave it that way because wetin happen?
Last year when I traveled to Nigeria, my brother, I and his wife went to see my sister in laws aunty. She prepared something nice for us all. After everything, I went to clean up the mess. Yes! Because we messed up her plates and cutleries. Courtesy demands that.

The only problem here is if the lady met the plates messy and had nothing to do with it.

XhosaNostra:



It's not hypocrisy, it's common sense unless you're of course a slob.

You clean after yourself as a guest, unless you're otherwise asked NOT to. This entitlement & expecting special privileges as a lover, is what needs to stop.

There're ways to carry yourself in someone's house, girlfriend or not.

Preshy561:
and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool,see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

Olalan:
As much as the girl isn't in anyway obligated to do the cleaning, her doing it would earn her some respect from the guy, it's just like borrowing a car for use and not refuelling it, thou you aren't obligated to refuel but if you do you have earned some respect for yourself

shugamummy:


How about who cooked the food,who ate the food. I once had a friend then. I never allowed her to enter the kitchen anytime she visits nor allow her do anything for me cos she will just be sitting down and I will cook,feed her pack out my dishes wash and come and sit with her. Funny thing,she was expecting me to say I do I do.i never happened till she realized her status and moved. That's how it's meant to be. Imagine if that babe pushed me aside and cooked and did dishes all this while whenever she sees me enter the kitchen. I tell you dis babe did not view my kitchen till she moved her ass elsewhere

Preshy561:
and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool,see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Hers is different, the op said she came firbthe first time. However, some people don't like entering the kitchen. Youbarebalso someone who likes doing his thing. But don't expect a girl visiting you for the first time to do what the op expected of that girl. It doesn't make her good or bad. And it doesn't prevent the owner of the house from doing what he has been doing if he knows how to do it.

bayulll011:


u re not more advanced or exposed than the white babes.
smh

OgahBohz:
What if she didn't check the kitchen , you said she came in the morning and left, so its possible she didn't know na,

just saying ....
and what ifnshe was testing you to know if your are a husband material ?

Even if I checked the kitchen, I still won’t wash the dishes. They are not mine. I ain’t down for any rubbish testing. So you purposely left your dishes to test me, pls get a new girlfriend.


....
the devil is just testing both of you to know who has common sense jae

bayulll011:


ur pics says it all

Preshy561:
and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool,see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Hers is different, the op said she came firbthe first time. However, some people don't like entering the kitchen. Youbarebalso someone who likes doing his thing. But don't expect a girl visiting you for the first time to do what the op expected of that girl. It doesn't make her good or bad. And it doesn't prevent the owner of the house from doing what he has been doing if he knows how to do it.

deafeyez:


Well something light is mandatory but TP is not mandatory for first timers.

DrinkLimca:
Don't blame her, it's the way she was brought up. no good home training..
Next time, talk sense into her..