The funny thing is that within a tiny twinkle, you will have her on pulpit giving talk on marital affairs.

Then,,,,..old things might have become new (except one thing)

she is ‘transmission commission transmission’” her life here

BoneBlogger:
A Nigerian lady has got herself trending yet again after revealing why she's not a wife material. The social media influence, Angela Nwosu took to Facebook to share her reasons as she smoked shisha.

Read her lengthy piece below;

I am not a Wife Material!

All of the pictures I’ve seen on social media depicting wife material are of women cooking alone, doing all of the cleaning and doing their “womanly duties.” Don't get me wrong, there are two different roles in relationships that one partner will be better at than the other. Me, proudly smoking shisha and not afraid to post it on a platform as big as Facebook, shows that I am not a wife material, I hate that word, with reckless abandon. Girls are forming and pretending, not being themselves, all to be termed a wife material and land a husband living their lives just to please the society and painfully, publicly stand on a morality higher ground, while doing terrible things in secret. The only way I survive on earth is being myself and not what society wants me to be, na only me waka come.
And yes, the shisha pot belongs to me.

No, I am not married and no, I am not a feminist, but I’m a firm believer that relationships are a team effort. To make a relationship work, responsibilities of the household must be shared. I’m all for cooking and burning down the house together. This is the 21st century and there are so many more opportunities for men and women than there have been in the past.

Like I said, I’m not a wife material. If I ever get married, I’m not turning into your slave just to be ‘a perfect wife material’ I’m not your mother, nor will I ever be. I’d much rather call in a pizza and watch movies than slave over a meal that requires 3 hours of my time to prepare. If your friends are over to hang out with you and watch the game, I’d rather be sitting on the couch yelling at the T.V. too, than catering to you and your friends. I also won’t expect you to be the only one supporting our family. I’m not broke and Amadioha isn’t taking care of me for nothing, ighotago?

I’m not your typical girl or typical girlfriend, I am extremely different and I definitely won’t be your typical wife. I won’t wake you up with the smell of breakfast, because chances are, if it’s a weekend, I’m sleeping until 12pm. I will probably burn at least one piece of food every time I cook for you and then proceed to tell you we’re going to eat out and do shisha afterwards. For your birthday, I’d rather buy you Play Station 4 that we can play together, than buying or making you something more sentimental. When you wake up next to me, you won’t see Sleeping Beauty. You'll see that my mouth will be dry of no lipstick from the previous day, you will always see my spots clearly, my eyes will be partially open and my hair will look like ike okuko.

I don’t have unrealistic expectations for a husband to be “hubby material,” and I don’t want someone to have unrealistic expectations of me to be “wife material.” I know that people have their faults and it’s hard to live with someone no matter how much you love them. I don’t expect my future spouse to have to pay for everything we have just like I hope he doesn’t expect me to cater to his every need.

Who makes these rules anyway? These rules for what is wife or husband material and what is not? I’m not even “feminizing” here, just wondering why we tend to subscribe to the notion that a certain set of qualities are desirable for marriage. That a girl doing shisha is wayward, an ashawo and a disgrace to womanhood, therefore, will never get married. There’s a statement my mother says “as our faces are different, so also are our needs different”. What Mr Okoli requires in a wife may be completely different from what Mr Okonkwo wants and for Miss Angie and Miss Doris, their list of requirements will also differ by a sharp margin.

Dear future husband,
I will be your best friend, your support system, your spouse, your partner in crime but more importantly your ashawo. I won’t be your second mother or your babysitter. And we definitely won’t just exist in the same house. We will be 50+ years old and still be attending concerts, watching Boondocks, while drinking cheap wine and taking spontaneous trips to the beach.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/i-am-not-a-wife-material-i-am-not-a-feminist-lady-says-as-she-smokes-photos.html

Marriage is about companionship and sacrifice, everybody can't do what They like.

I don't know why people think marriage is by force. If you're not getting married,don't come and bother us with long epistles please! R.I.P to the brain cells I lost while trying to comprehend the reason for her comprehension passage.

Smart girl. I like her mind state

Tell us again this when u r 40 and still searching. Aunt Keji may probably have 1 or 2 words for u.

She is really confused and getting it wrong. Being a wife does not entail slavery. Silly thing.

BoneBlogger:
A Nigerian lady has got herself trending yet again after revealing why she's not a wife material. The social media influence, Angela Nwosu took to Facebook to share her reasons as she smoked shisha.

Read her lengthy piece below;

I am not a Wife Material!

All of the pictures I’ve seen on social media depicting wife material are of women cooking alone, doing all of the cleaning and doing their “womanly duties.” Don't get me wrong, there are two different roles in relationships that one partner will be better at than the other. Me, proudly smoking shisha and not afraid to post it on a platform as big as Facebook, shows that I am not a wife material, I hate that word, with reckless abandon. Girls are forming and pretending, not being themselves, all to be termed a wife material and land a husband living their lives just to please the society and painfully, publicly stand on a morality higher ground, while doing terrible things in secret. The only way I survive on earth is being myself and not what society wants me to be, na only me waka come.
And yes, the shisha pot belongs to me.

No, I am not married and no, I am not a feminist, but I’m a firm believer that relationships are a team effort. To make a relationship work, responsibilities of the household must be shared. I’m all for cooking and burning down the house together. This is the 21st century and there are so many more opportunities for men and women than there have been in the past.

Like I said, I’m not a wife material. If I ever get married, I’m not turning into your slave just to be ‘a perfect wife material’ I’m not your mother, nor will I ever be. I’d much rather call in a pizza and watch movies than slave over a meal that requires 3 hours of my time to prepare. If your friends are over to hang out with you and watch the game, I’d rather be sitting on the couch yelling at the T.V. too, than catering to you and your friends. I also won’t expect you to be the only one supporting our family. I’m not broke and Amadioha isn’t taking care of me for nothing, ighotago?

I’m not your typical girl or typical girlfriend, I am extremely different and I definitely won’t be your typical wife. I won’t wake you up with the smell of breakfast, because chances are, if it’s a weekend, I’m sleeping until 12pm. I will probably burn at least one piece of food every time I cook for you and then proceed to tell you we’re going to eat out and do shisha afterwards. For your birthday, I’d rather buy you Play Station 4 that we can play together, than buying or making you something more sentimental. When you wake up next to me, you won’t see Sleeping Beauty. You'll see that my mouth will be dry of no lipstick from the previous day, you will always see my spots clearly, my eyes will be partially open and my hair will look like ike okuko.

I don’t have unrealistic expectations for a husband to be “hubby material,” and I don’t want someone to have unrealistic expectations of me to be “wife material.” I know that people have their faults and it’s hard to live with someone no matter how much you love them. I don’t expect my future spouse to have to pay for everything we have just like I hope he doesn’t expect me to cater to his every need.

Who makes these rules anyway? These rules for what is wife or husband material and what is not? I’m not even “feminizing” here, just wondering why we tend to subscribe to the notion that a certain set of qualities are desirable for marriage. That a girl doing shisha is wayward, an ashawo and a disgrace to womanhood, therefore, will never get married. There’s a statement my mother says “as our faces are different, so also are our needs different”. What Mr Okoli requires in a wife may be completely different from what Mr Okonkwo wants and for Miss Angie and Miss Doris, their list of requirements will also differ by a sharp margin.

Dear future husband,
I will be your best friend, your support system, your spouse, your partner in crime but more importantly your ashawo. I won’t be your second mother or your babysitter. And we definitely won’t just exist in the same house. We will be 50+ years old and still be attending concerts, watching Boondocks, while drinking cheap wine and taking spontaneous trips to the beach.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/i-am-not-a-wife-material-i-am-not-a-feminist-lady-says-as-she-smokes-photos.html

the scary part of all this is dat ds mofos role models are mostly seen on reality shows ie kim kardashian and co
i also didnt see her volunteering to buy a car or lift heavy loads abi that one is just for men abi
to all the REAL(i use real cuz this is NL and a lot of trolls claim to be female) women
men and women have their roles
play ur role and live ur life
all these women lib will just make u frustrated at the end

Giovanotto:

Chai! This guy don tear my belle o!

Buh Buhari why, anyway stil wondering wat am doin here

Omo see danger, wahala dey.

Even bobrosky is not worst as this one

SoapQueen:
Is that person male or female or a tranny?

This Shisha, is it a fun thing to do? I wrote an article on vaporizers some days back. I was gob smacked at how pricey they are. They get much patronage too.

I can't wait to get a vape! I quit smoking pot about 5 months ago but I'm not entirely against consumption of cannabis. I would rather consume via a cleaner method.

I love her already minus the physical aspects.

I think this woman should go and marry a wife for herself

Giovanotto:

lol!! laugh no go kill me. wetin be this lyrics??

I had to zoom x20 to confirm say na woman true true. Na only that cleavage show say this thing na woman,assuming say na Yvonne okoro now ehen I for talk say no wahala we fit still marry,but you my nigga you are inches from being a dude,nobody wants to hear your bullsh1t mate just because you ain't getting none you want to trend by all means to atleast feel relevant. I only like the part you said PS4 as gift on my birthday.

Kxngstein:
With her masculine physique she must be a misogynist

Misogynist how? What do misogynists look like?

What the Bleep did I just read?

you'll marry your type....


because nobody even cares what y do or don't so...keep your long epistles for the dead gods of ur village

Berlyn1:
her life her business.... not everyone is destined to be married ... if its her calling to be whatever she chooses to be let's pray she succeeded

if u dnt mind, .can i get ur email, the one u av access to

NAJALYN:
When the right guy appears, she will have a change of heart.
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exactly, she isn't and haven't found love. this is how Beyonce decieve them and married.

one day your children will tell you same and you will feel the pains of your innocent parents

SoapQueen:
Is that person male or female or a tranny?

This Shisha, is it a fun thing to do? I wrote an article on vaporizers some days back. I was gob smacked at how pricey they are. They get much patronage too.

Why do ou ask?

to cut the long story short sha, she is saying she just don't know how to Cook, lady wait till yo 45 and see what loneliness does to you.

vikkimimi:
To nairaland guys
This is your portion
Amen

That's the portion of your dad, husband, brothers and sons.
Amen.

During our school days in Afric union college Awo omamma imo State this girl was in my and she is very God fearing and very brilliant and first position was her birth right please Angella Nwosu what’s your problem Who bewitched you, this’s not the Angella I use to know then

end time girl

vikkimimi:
To nairaland guys
This is your portion
Amen

@ Vikkimimi my sweet heart, na you I know.

madam, what an irony. it is also a woman who taught us to avoid plague like u. dont worry we know who to marry, our mother taught us well. marry yaself

DAT gud I like ur ways

I pity those that refused to abort your pregnancy. By the time you gets reward for your smoking. You will understand. Omo ale jatijati