CaptainGOOD:
Banky big head shut up pls..
She is only airing her opinion based on the questions asked to her.
Its not like she is telling people not to open doors for women.
Dont u know what interview is?

Stop sounding like common afonja nairaland illiterate biko

There are certain opinions that are regarded as dangerous, particularly when you force it on others, as seen in the video where she soundly bullied Hillary Clinton into changing her bio.

Chimamanda seems to come from an oppressive home. I guess it defines her angst concerning men and having difficulties in understanding niceties.

Gurusarenna:
feminists agenda, something I never understands..
abeg who get live streaming link wey I fit watch Ghana vs Iceland make I see their game play..

Our neighbors Ghana don dey chop food o
2-0 down

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by the window and push you inside

Some will ever come down for you to enter..
Now that kidnapping is on the high side, i don't agree to it anymore o.. If you pressure me too much i simply close the door to the car and move on to the next.

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by the window and push you inside

It is an unconscious act of protection, trust me. While you are jostling for the air by the window, a male feels more comfortable acting as the shield. It's the same way a man would prefer to be on the direct side of the road facing oncoming vehicles and you on the side he considers safe. Chivalry is not dead as most assume. The problem is that some acts go unexplained, leaving you to wonder why it has become a norm.

AZeD1:


Can you point to any link/text where she said the word "wife" is derogatory?

Don't mind them. It's the usual feeding frenzy when anything concerning Chimamanda is the topic!

See the fool you're quoting taking what she said out of context. Basically just trying to give a dog a bad name in order to hang it!

Xander85:


Don't mind them. It's the usual feeding frenzy when anything concerning Chimamanda is the topic!

See the fool you're quoting taking what she said out of context. Basically just trying to give a dog a bad name in order to hang it!

I am giving him the benefit of doubt that's why I asked for a link.

safarigirl:
na you know, maybe your own motive is to feel ass.

I no get yansh, so that onr nrvrr comes to my mind, besides, can someone feel your ass while seating in a car? No!

Me, I feel like I'm getting crushed. I like seating at the edge, it's the only place where I am sure, I will not be squeezed. So, it pisses me off when someone decides to shove me inside a car filled with people

U still feel that way even if u seat in between skinny pple? Maybe u are a little claustrophobic.......

between I don't think it's a guy thing to want to sit at the edge all the time...it's a Nigerian elderly pples thing..
They just feel because they are older..u can't expect them to go in even if u came to park before them..

Stormborn86:

Your wife is extremely lucky to have you.

it will be proper if you say YOUR WIFE WILL BE EXTREMELY LUCKY TO HAVE YOU considering the fact that I'm not married yet.

safarigirl:
oshe Superman!

Ko to Ope ma

She looks like a male wrestler anyway

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by the window and push you inside

But can shift closer to the other window na

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by the window and push you inside

to keep u safe

Dareal90s:
This big pig, is Banky saying u shldnt air ur opinion? Banky is also airing his so no fight, unintelligent fellow.

Did you noticed that nobody dignify the stupid osu pig with a reply. If you ask the mumu, he also doesn't know what question was asked but here is he advertising his parochialism.

The truth is that Adichie spoke as a feminist, no matter the question asked.

She's just used to hard life and maybe, "turn down"���

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by window and push you inside

we love the edge nau

missyadorable:
Why would a man hold a car door for me when I have hands and they are free?
Nigerian man and public display of care and affection is equal to trouble inside the house.

Their is nothing wrong with a man holding the door for a woman its part or respect and it is not only nigeria men it is global.

missyadorable:
Why would a man hold a car door for me when I have hands and they are free?
Nigerian man and public display of care and affection is equal to trouble inside the house.

May be a man has not hold the door for this lady

wildimagination:


U still feel that way even if u seat in between skinny pple? Maybe u are a little claustrophobic.......

between I don't think it's a guy thing to want to sit at the edge all the time...it's a Nigerian elderly pples thing..
They just feel because they are older..u can't expect them to go in even if u came to park before them..

elderly people do it, but guys do it too, with ladies. Even inside Keke dem wan sit for edge.

It is rare to find two skinny guys in public transport. Plus, I'm a tiny person, so, I am more often than not, squeezed in cars when I'm between people

IamD18:
I stand with Chimamanda on this.

Men should stop worshiping women to claim gentleman.

Iti s not worship it is a signof affection and appreciation.
There is this arab saying which goes:
if you see a man opening the door of a car for a lady know that the car is new or the wife is new.
People hould ell Chimamada Adichie to take a sit and stop foolingher self.
I am wondering which day fiction writers started speaking as intellectuals in the field of human relation.

Is it that people are naturally dumb or they are beneath the field of learning? Why is such a simple statement be a source of confusion?

Simple. Feminism is about equal rights based on anatomic and physiological functions and not the glorification of any particular gender.

Some persons speak about confusion but I think they are the confused ones. Hers is the finest show of feminism you can find out there.

Others say she is a feminist but married because she needs man and you wonder if it is cotton wool that exists there for grey matter. Isn't equity to bane of feminism?

Here comes this big headed dude talking as though she asked anyone to stop opening doors for their partner. She's simply saying that whatever is good should be well spread.

No gender deserves exclusive right to any source of happiness that can be gotten by both genders. No gender is more important than the other. Why are people refusing to think?

Think. Open your minds. There is no divine providence behind making men head of any house. A dunce shouldn't lead anyone until he has learned to lead himself.

Dareal90s:
This big pig, is Banky saying u shldnt air ur opinion? Banky is also airing his so no fight, unintelligent fellow.

Vulture pls read my post again

TheUbermensch:
21st Century Feminism is just glorified madness . It's a belief in equal rights without equal responsibilities.

Chimamanda Ngozi-Adichie, though a very intelligent woman, might not be so smart as she has made some very stupid statement in recent times that puts her sanity at question.

You are sensible. You nailed it with that statement.

CaptainGOOD:


Vulture pls read my post again

Accept d fact that u ar unintelligent, go back nd read ur post urself.

oh! someone who is not intelligent can't even understand what he posted, u ar doomed.

Sanchez01:

There are certain opinions that are regarded as dangerous, particularly when you force it on others, as seen in the video where she soundly bullied Hillary Clinton into changing her bio.

Chimamanda seems to come from an oppressive home. I guess it defines her angst concerning men and having difficulties in understanding niceties.

Sounds like Bullshit to me. What is wrong with being angry about the male chauvinism in this wicked world? How did a simply plea for clarification amount to bullying? How does questioning the illogical glorification of men showcase a child from an oppressive home? Honestly, if there is anyone who is oppressed, intellectually, morally and mentally, I think it is the majority of Nigerians who have bought into the matriarchal narrative. Once you free yourself from that, and understand what love ought do, you'd see with her eyes.

I'm not a fan of feminism!

Lady Fela Kuti If you call am woman African woman no go 'gree She go say, she go say, "I be lady, oh"
She go say, "I be lady, oh"
She go say, "I be lady" She go say, "I no be woman" She go say, "Market woman na woman" She go say, "I be lady"
I want tell you about lady I want tell you about lady I want tell you about lady
She go say him equal to man She go say him get power like man She go say anything man do himself fit do
I never tell you finish I never tell you finish I never tell you finish I never tell you finish I never tell you
She go want take cigar before anybody She go want make you open door for am She go want make man wash plate For am, for kitchen
She want salute man She go, sit down for chair She want salute man She go, sit down for chair
She want sit down For table before anybody She want sit down For table before anybody
She want a piece of meat Before anybody She want a piece of meat Before anybody
Call am for dance She go dance lady dance Call am for dance She go dance lady dance
African woman go dance She go dance the fire dance African woman go dance She go dance the fire dance
She know him man na master She go cook for am She go do anything he say
But lady, no be so But lady, no be so But lady, no be so But lady, no be so
Lady na master Lady na master

safarigirl:
elderly people do it, but guys do it too, with ladies. Even inside Keke dem wan sit for edge.

It is rare to find two skinny guys in public transport. Plus, I'm a tiny person, so, I am more often than not, squeezed in cars when I'm between people

Even inside keke got me cracking...lol

mehn!!! U are a queen of crowded public transport..... Maybe u should adopt Uber....u don't have to get it tiny body squeezed that way

When mature people writes @banky

Quantum gracias!

Dareal90s:

Accept d fact that u ar unintelligent, go back nd read ur post urself.
oh! someone who is not intelligent can't even understand what he posted, u ar doomed.

Lol the only thing I can accept is that... ur depleted cranium lacks the ability to decipher simple write up

ShawtCake:
I'm not a fan of feminism!

That's probably because you don't understand it. If you do and shed off those ingrained mental prisons culture leaves around, you'd know better.

CaptainGOOD:


Lol the only thing I can accept is that... ur depleted cranium lacks the ability to decipher simple write up

I don't argue with dull people, go to school u won't go, our oyel our oyel, that's d effect on ur miserable life.

wildimagination:


Even inside keke got me cracking...lol

mehn!!! U are a queen of crowded public transport..... Maybe u should adopt Uber....u don't have to get it tiny body squeezed that way

Uber no dey reach the places wey I dey enter, even if per adventure, I get free 1,500 wey I no wan use