| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Daboomb: 2:00am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Elder001:
You're obviously a fool because you can't differentiate between divorce settlement and child support.
Child support is the money you'll bring for ukpeep of your child till the child gets to 18 ..though there's nothing like child support in our constitution
Divorce settlement is another matter on it's own.. educate yourself before I disgrace you on this platform.
I hate Intoxicated scumbags. Below is what you this retarded oaf, wrote earlier: Elder001: The court won't tell you to give her any divorce settlement.
Do you know what divorce settlement means or why you'll be told to offer her a divorce settlement?
Divorce settlement is a the money you're going to give her for wasting part of her years. Even you slowpoke of a father, cannot untie my shoelace, how much more his ninconcoop of a ball-less, pussy-whipped son. Dont even make me start. if you fantasy, you want us to beleive that every divorce ends in a divorce settlement that involves him paying the wifey? What an Oaf you are? So, when two people marry, the husband is wasting part of the wife's years? How stupid can anyone get, to make such a hilarious statement?Dont speak on things you have zero knowledge about, l am used to flogging errant lunatics like you would not stick to what they know, that is assuming you know anything because l can see that your I.Q is even bleow that of an slowpoke. If you are looking for a lady to chat-up on Nairaland and therefore acting all nice and sissy, like the whimp you are, then fair and square but dont you ever go beyond your little limits by engaging me in a spat because l will demolish you from a long distance. Bloody waaan.ker.  |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by bezimo(m): 2:00am On Jun 13, 2018 |
plessis:
we're not looking for reasons to label you hoes.....
You women are hoes....
All you do is spread your legs and trick men into raising bastards.....
Kiss the truth.... I hope she heard.. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Daboomb: 2:03am On Jun 13, 2018 |
mimimile93:
Bro if I tell you how much I detest women mostly naija girls..
I poisoned one to death when I could no longer hold my anger..
Any girl born from the 80s is useless and written_off Take it easy Man.... Dont make self-incriminating statements like this online, even if you dont mean it. It is not necessary and can have repercussions beyond your immagination. You can still edit your post right now. 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by bezimo(m): 2:04am On Jun 13, 2018 |
mimimile93:
The mistake most guys make is always believing that a lady loves them.. If you want to know a leech act broke..
Op that ur ex slu.t never loved u. Am glad ur eyes don clear..
No naija girl can be faithful.. They are all leeches and cheaters..
Whether a naija girl lock her phone or not never trust her.. These ho.es are smart.. She can keep her phone unlock yet she's bleeping.
I am 100% support of the divorce. Please no matter how she begs don't take her back. Once a ho.e is a ho.e
And please don't marry again unless you want to marry a foreign girl..
For your baby, try and get her back.
If you paid ur ex slu.t bride price then be assured u will get your baby back.
If things get tougher, hit me up let me link you with few people who can get your baby for you.
Moral lesson : naija girls are written_off..
Marry a naija girl at your own peril Guy,do you know a research showed that 9ja women are the most unfaithful in the world..I was not suprised with the findings..Bunch of bastard hoes.Trust a 9ja girl at your own risk and dissapointment....They don't love genuinely unlike their foreign counterpart..they only love your pocket..That's why no guy should be deceived that a 9ja girl loves him..let him go broke..he will see the real her.. https://www.google.ca/amp/www.informationng.com/2014/12/nigerian-women-top-the-list-of-8-most-unfaithful-wives-in-the-world.html/amp 1 Like |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Mruwa1(m): 2:06am On Jun 13, 2018 |
cheat and women na same rope tie both of them just few women get sense to coordinate oga start over again forget about ur child for now because if na ur baby dey make u see ur ex sorry my broda one day she go tempt u and u know d tin BTW ur legs na free man once d tin stand na problem no control because d tin nor get sense ..just dey run from ur ex because she dey plan u down ... I remember dat night i travel when I come from travel my ex carry my unborn child belly take sleep wit r ex I notice say some tins nor right after one or two issue she confess I brk up with r because her house nor far from my house DAT night she use talk and pretence carry me go r house after one or two tins bros if u see waiting that bad girl wear I swear I beg the girl forgiveness because d tin BTW my leg done stand ....when my eye dey clear I done fup na run I run till date I never see dat babe for more Dan 6yrs.. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Augustap(f): 2:07am On Jun 13, 2018 |
IamD18:
It's a very big abomination in Nigeria to see a woman who will respect, value, be loyal and be faithful to her husband during hard times.
You'll only see their loyalty when you are doing well, not during hard times.
Contact a good lawyer and flee from anything that has to do with that prostitute of an ex-wife.
While doing all these, also go for DNA test to be sure that you are father of the said child. So that you don't end up being used and extorted because of a bastard child. I get your point, but not every lady will give up on her man. From the story above, you can see that the woman was in the marriage because he could provide for her initially. Some women are terrible, but there are a lot of Angels out there, who stick to their husbands faithfully through thick and thin. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Navalsadiq(m): 2:08am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Cutehector:
Never lose your dignity as a man.. Never let a woman make you feel less of a man. [sub][/sub]true words |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Navalsadiq(m): 2:10am On Jun 13, 2018 |
stillseth:
To marry dey fear me i they tell u. Because girls of these generation Na ashewo them be. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by bezimo(m): 2:11am On Jun 13, 2018 |
12345baba:
bros abeg no generalise during my own trials and hard time my wife practically worshipped me more than when Iife was fine. There are still good women in Nigeria. You kind of woman is in the old generation of women..those type of women are extinct in the present day 9ja women.. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 2:16am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Daboomb:
Below is what you this retarded oaf, wrote earlier:
Even you slowpoke of a father, cannot untie my shoelace, how much more his ninconcoop of a ball-less, pussy-whipped son.
Dont even make me start.
if you fantasy, you want us to beleive that every divorce ends in a divorce settlement that involves him paying the wifey?
What an Oaf you are?
So, when two people marry, the husband is wasting part of the wife's years? How stupid can anyone get, to make such a hilarious statement?
Dont speak on things you have zero knowledge about, l am used to flogging errant lunatics like you would not stick to what they know, that is assuming you know anything because l can see that your I.Q is even bleow that of an slowpoke.
If you are looking for a lady to chat-up on Nairaland and therefore acting all nice and sissy, like the whimp you are, then fair and square but dont you ever go beyond your little limits by engaging me in a spat because l will demolish you from a long distance.
Bloody waaan.ker. Yes he's wasting her life.. I'm talking about full time housewives and wives that their husbands forced to quit their careers. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by eightsin(m): 2:17am On Jun 13, 2018 |
shiiits happen.. forgive her and give her a second chance. It ain't greener at the other side bro. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by BAILMONEY: 2:18am On Jun 13, 2018 |
oooduancalmdown:
You shameless pathetic ibo flat-head. You will always want to drag Yoruba into the matter. Ibo women are known to spread the legs for anything that looks like a rod. I am certain the OP's wife ibo. I have noticed that ibos have the highest number of adulterious cases especially when their husband become broke. You shameless ibo things always want to drag Yoruba people through the mud. I wished you had said this to my face, I swear I would have flattened that your already flattened head.
Osu! ARE YOU IN OSHOGBO OR LAGOS  |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Daboomb: 2:18am On Jun 13, 2018 |
sshyne:
When it comes to a wife cheating then the husband is not safe. Most people that takes back a cheating wife usually regret it. And its only guys with low self esteem that can take back a cheating wife. I will rather stay single than take her back It is good to forgive, when you can be sure the action wont be repeated. Thing is, men act on "visuals" .. what they see (Boobs, Curves, backside, e.t.c). So when men cheat, it is usually out of an "adventorous spirit" which is not deep. he can do it and still love his wife as before. Women on the other hand, are emotional beings! By the time a woman decides to cheat with another man, be sure that she has weighed the situation and decided to offer her body to the other man, because she is now IN LOVE with him. Due to the nature of our anatomy, women take a longer time to cheat because for them, it is about the heart and more involving. Men on the other hand don teven think about it and dont do it out of love, they are just being naughty and out of control. hence most men can sleep with oyu now and the next minute, want you out of their life completely! Once a woman cheats, know that she has invested emotional capital and sees it as a long term relatiosnhip.
That is why "Okafor's law" applies to women because they will always see a "relationship" with anyone they sleep with.
So, a wife that cheat is completely out of love with her husband and the relationship is as good as dead. Forcefully or otherwise keeping such a wife is like having explosives under your bed. it is just a matter of time. In most cases, she will end up in a state of mind where she sees the husband as a hindrance (the guy is much more alart and watchful aftre the first cheating) and inmost cases, getting rid of him is the most probale option! Husband Murder-loading... 5 Likes |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 2:18am On Jun 13, 2018 |
yanabasee:
NO SANE Nigerian woman will stand by a man when things get soured.... Why get so emotional to the point of making a blanket statement? Well FYI, many Nigerian Women have done more than that for their husbands. It is just that you are not privilege to know those who did the same way you know those who didn't  |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Daboomb: 2:24am On Jun 13, 2018 |
cococandy:
Well he already pushed her into her bosses arms
He shouldn’t make it worse.
So losing one's job is PUSHING one's wife into anothe rman's hand? So it is all about the MONEY?
What if it was the woman that lost her job will you say she pushed her husband into another man's hand, if he starts fucking his scecretary?Would YOU do the same thing to your own husband or is it "Do as l say, not as l do"? 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Donjazzy12(m): 2:27am On Jun 13, 2018 |
angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.
She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.
Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.
Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.
One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.
I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.
It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.
I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.
Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.
Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.
In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.
Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys. What are pastors teaching sef? I am so disappointed in our so called churches! And I will blame some pastors! |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Daboomb: 2:28am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Elder001:
really?
In the much acclaimed and celebrated Nigerian
case of Nwosu v. Nwosu (2012) 8 NWLR Pt
1301, the Court of Appeal held that on the
issue of custody of children of a marriage, both
parties have equal rights in matters of custody
of children. Therefore, a mother has equal
rights with the father of the marriage and a
right to protect that legal interest. The Nigerian
position therefore, seems to be that in regard
to custody or upbringing of a minor, a mother
shall have the same right and authority as the
law allows the father; and the rights and
authority of the mother and father shall be
equal and exercisable by either without the
other. Also of note is the case of Tabansi v.
Tabansi (2009) 12 NWLR Pt 1155, the Court of
Appeal declared that the court will mostly
favour the wife especially in circumstances
where the child(ren) in question are minors, a
girl child or of tender age and will only give the
father preference where it can be proved that
the conduct of the wife is morally
reprehensible. The Nigerian position which
focuses on the best interest of the child while
seeking to protect the child’s welfare, also
takes into account the conduct of the parties
and the behavioral patterns of both parents. STOP repeating what l have already said, by quoting a case.
it does not make yo any more intelliegent..... and get-off my mention please.
I dont engage whussies and wimps. Bye |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 2:46am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Daboomb:
STOP repeating what l have already said, by quoting a case.
it does not make yo any more intelliegent..... and get-off my mention please.
I dont engage whussies and wimps. Bye You speak like a teenager. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Nobody: 2:46am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Daboomb:
So losing one's job is PUSHING one's wife into anothe rman's hand?
So it is all about the MONEY?
What if it was the woman that lost her job will you say she pushed her husband into another man's hand, if he starts fucking his scecretary?
Would YOU do the same thing to your own husband or is it "Do as l say, not as l do"? i hope you realise this is just another small boy troll not much better than the bloggers who cooked up all sorts of libellous stories about the third mainland bridge suicide. go through his post history - though he may have done some scrubbing or deletion since i called him out. his post history is full of references to porn addiction, ulcers, and hustling amazon cards. save your energy and vitriol for real cases. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by salesforce: 2:47am On Jun 13, 2018 |
sad |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by ManBeast: 2:53am On Jun 13, 2018 |
victorian:
O ga o!
Does it mean all the men cursing women on this thread had been dealt with one way or the other by cheating women??
Jeez!
Na wa o!
Make una take am easy o... And please no one should mention me and start cursing on my mention o! Cos am not the cause of your pains o! Evening Newspaper still get mouth to talk, Mtcheeeew..... 1 Like 
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| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by dedonchi: 2:59am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Well, there is nothing in this world that cannot be forgiven. Jesus said, if you have no sin, cast a stone in her and everyone dropped his stones and went away. My brother, put yourself in her shoes, If you were the one in the act, what would you do? Please check for her sincerity in the begging. If it is genuine, forgive her and continue your life. Think about these words. God bless you |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by babeosisi: 3:01am On Jun 13, 2018 |
angelboy01 I was sympathetic to your cause till I read this  My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me. Are you freaking kidding me? If I were that wife and I got wind of this plan,you may never see that kid again . What nonsense Your wife cheated and you want to take away a child she bore 9 months and birthed to give to your mother like she were a piece of Ankara material while the mother of the child is alive? Men cheat, women cheat, i wont even ask if youve cheated,you know the answer so i leave you to your conscience. You said she asked you to forgive,it's your choice to forgive or not and since you chose not to forgive, that's ok. If we heard her side,the story will be complete,so far this is your side of it. You can file a divorce without the certificate ,they must have a duplicate at the same registry. Good luck in your next one 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Larrykaysail(m): 3:16am On Jun 13, 2018 |
go to the registry tell them , you lost the marriage cert to fire, you need certified copy, with 10,000 to 20,000 naira you will get it, i wish you best of luck |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by babeosisi: 3:16am On Jun 13, 2018 |
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If the story is as you told it,Let me commend you for not pouring acid on her face like many do when they feel they have lost their woman.
I will advice that you consider the forgiveness option if her apology is sincere.
She went out of line but it's up to you
Nobody ugly |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by pastorcyrus(m): 3:21am On Jun 13, 2018 |
angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.
She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.
Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.
Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.
One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.
I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.
It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.
I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.
Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.
Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.
In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.
Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys. Short of words. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by ifymadu: 3:31am On Jun 13, 2018 |
1. Do a DNA to determine if you are the father of your baby
2. Get a lawyer and approach a court with evidence of her unfaithfulness, that is enough grounds for a court to dissolve the wedding. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by helpishere(m): 3:36am On Jun 13, 2018 |
oshe11:
Even bible said the Only reason a Man is allowed to Divorce his Wife is when she Cheats.....
So You can forgive her but NEVER TAKE HER BACK.......
Let her Leave with her UNFAITHFUL PUSSEE The bible never said so. It says the only ground for divorce is if she is found not to be a virgin. Matt.5: 32 and Matt 19:9. Can a married woman commit fornication? It also stated that any man or woman that marries a divorced person commits adultery. The bottom line is if you have pre marital sex with your wife and you did not complain that she was not a virgin then, you have no excuse to put her away. Deut 22: 13 -29 ,will teach us more about the laws against premarital sex and the consequence which was comfirmed by our Lord Jesus Christ. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by dochenaj: 3:52am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Unfortunately, once you are married you are married. Divorce is wrong in the sight of God. If you are in an abusive marriage and fear for your life in any way, whether by reason of physical threat to life or threat to life from being exposed to unsavory health conditions from a morbidly unfaithful spouse, separation, I repeat separation can be allowed but you can never divorce.
And you'll agree with me that the difference between separation and divorce is that in the later you can re-marry as opposed to the former. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Heineken(m): 4:02am On Jun 13, 2018 |
To marry dey Fear me seriously too. Girls are bad news.... Imagine person wey Don marry dey cheat again. During my nysc days, my corper girl bin do same. I see her pic with wrapper and a guy without cloth atop bed. She say naso dem dey lie down for their lodge but nothing go happen. Thunder fire you there Br...... One mistake in this life is to marry a cheating wife. |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Heineken(m): 4:03am On Jun 13, 2018 |
babeosisi:
[
If the story is as you told it,Let me commend you for not pouring acid on her face like many do when they feel they have lost their woman.
I will advice that you consider the forgiveness option if her apology is sincere.
She went out of line but it's up to you
Nobody ugly
very stupid advise 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Caught My Cheating Wife by Heineken(m): 4:06am On Jun 13, 2018 |
Navalsadiq:
i they tell u. Because girls of these generation Na ashewo them be. full time ashy. One man no do them |
