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Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by freecocoa(f): 7:42pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:I actually agree with said study, and quite frankly, its hard enough not cheating, talk more when you've given the person reasons to. I hear some men I know talk and they go, "man, we are in trouble o, these women have taken over" the thing sweet me eh, and I was like, y'all ain't seen nothing yet. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by freecocoa(f): 7:44pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus:Yimu. Why you too pretend? Llke you didn't judge her. Yimu 2 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by CSTR1003: 7:47pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
freecocoa:while you are jubilating, in the meantime, don't forget this is Africa. The man will simply throw her out, keep his kids and nothing will happen. |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 7:48pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: Women are not as 'daft' as men. Why get married to more than one man? I am trying to get rid of the one I have, and you want me to add THREE MORE to the mix? For what na? Men wanted to legalize 'adultery'. . . so they came up with some 'daft' religions and traditions and made up the 'polygamy' conditionality. Well? Good! Women do not need to marry more than ONE MAN to satisfy 'primitive urges'. . . .we just 'chop and clean' mouth and nyansh! Opari! As you can see. . . . women have learned how to 'chop' without getting married to more than one man or get divorced! Too bad FATHER ABRAHAM. . . .here comes 'MOTHER SARAH'. . . .MOTHER OF MANY NATIONS. . .The kids are not YOURS! Amen! Only men are that stupid enough to 'complicate' their lives unnecessary. Just give me a gooooooood 'away-match' like every 6 months. . . .and I am a happy woman. 9 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 7:52pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:The key word is CONSENT. You can only make an argument for forced acceptance on a case by case basis, however the general idea behind polygamy is CONSENT by all parties involved. What is morals? Morals = knowing right from wrong. Yes it is morally WRONG to marry more than one person if the present spouse does not consent to it. Once consent is established, it isn't a moral WRONG anymore since no one is being hurt. That's the exact same logic I made use of when referring to extramarital affairs earlier. If the affair is being engaged in secretly knowing it will hurt the spouse when he/she finds out, then that is a moral wrong. However, if both spouses have decided to have an open marriage where both are permitted to have affairs, then no wrong is done. 2 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by UjuJoan2: 8:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: I hope you're not talking through both sides of your mouth ooh. First of all you say women can't be polygamous and then turn around to talk about consent. Why should I consent to something I 'cant handle' myself? Polygamy itself negates the idea and concept of marriage. Just because people decide they want to marry someone else doesn't make it right. We live in a new world where the line between right and wrong is no longer so clear. That's why people now make a case for homosexuality, abortion e.t.c But fundamentally, we all know what is right, and polygamy albeit consensual is not! That being said, to each his own. 1 Like |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 8:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
freecocoa:Pretend ke.. Why do I have to explain every gaddemn thing ? Go back and read properly abeg. She's allowed to do what she wants, what I find troubling is celebrating a wrong thing publicly and trying to pass it off as okay. Have you ever seen a politician come out to endorse money laundering? 2 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: Thank my lucky stars! *falls off chair* What have I listed to have done on NL? A actor with a big mouth ke? So, you have been documenting my 'activities' on NL? Please, list them and let me clarify for you. I live a VERY decent life on and offline you know. I am EXTREMELY RESERVED TOO. All this 'friend this, friend that' follow-follow, waka-waka business with awon 'girls' I don't DO! I don't do drugs and I don't drink. So? What other vices could I have? SCAMMING? lai-lai! The fact that I have quite a 'few' ex-boyfriends to 'tangle' with once in a while is not a crime. HOW has that affected my life over the years? DID YOU HEAR OF ANY OF US DIVORCING or exposing each other on or offline? The reason, a woman like me can NEVER ASSOCIATE WITH 'CHEWING-GUM' boys and men on or offline! Hell FORBID! There is something called 'mature-chopping'. . . .aka taking a 'break from matrimonial monotony'! We do not mix business with pleasure. If anyone gets tired, just pack your 'portmanteau' and leave through the nearest exit! Simple. *ngwa nu. . . DWCNFS aka defunct witches' coven of NL Family Section . . . una get YIM o. . . . * 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
CSTR1003:The worst thing u can do to any man,angel included. Women tolerate that cos of fear of after divorce effect and culture. But for a man to discover he has been training and loving another man's child,better kill him. Love has many definitions |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:12pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
sassysure: Yet a man can bring another woman's child into a woman's home. . . WHO SEN AM? Make men go 'carry belle and born' for the real deal ke! Shior! Betrayal na betrayal o. . . .It is just as PAINFUL, for a man to father children out of a marriage for A WOMAN. Period! 6 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 8:13pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:I didn't say women can't be polygamous, I said women can't handle marrying multiple men which is why y'all don't bother. You can be polygamous if you want to but can you honestly handle two husbands at once? As for consent, it's a personal thing. You can't consent to your husband marrying a second wife, there are also women who don't mind. You say fundamentally, polygamy is wrong. Okay, but according to whom or what? Please don't say the Bible. 1 Like |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra: Please, do me a favor and run for Congress. Even Trump go fear ya. Epic! 2 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
UjuJoan2: 1 Like |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:19pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
freecocoa: The one wey sweet me pass na that 'pregnant' woman wey im husband catch. . . . She was 'banging' with the 'belle'! Imagine pouring another man's akamu all over your unborn child/children. . . . The ultimate 'sexual ritual'. How the pikin head go correct? OVOKO! See levels? As e pain the dude reach. . . .e threaten to 'kill' dem if dem no kwantinu the 'show' on video to broadcast to the world! Ha! Serves them RIGHT! 2 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by UjuJoan2: 8:21pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: The concept of marriage is between two people. Polygamy is wrong based on the law in most countries, common sense and yes the Bible. As for consent, I only used myself as an example. (Actually I don't care if my husband takes another wife, I just won't be raising my kids in that kind of environment). My question remains . . . why would any sane woman consent to something she 'cant handle'? |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by freecocoa(f): 8:22pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus:Apples and oranges. Who are you to say what's wrong in this context? And of course I'm referring to the "cheating". Pray tell what makes it wrong, if a woman can go have sex with more than one man, married or not, since 'our' society won't let women marry more than one man, like the men can? 3 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 8:24pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra:No wahala, then men marrying more than one wife should not be defined as SEXISM. You call it stupidity and daftness, we accept. Emir Sanusi says it best.. 2 Likes
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Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:25pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
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Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by freecocoa(f): 8:30pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra:That woman own is on another level walai! Seriously though, there's a stage that one endures to and just decides to say "Bleep it" Before pregnant woman go waka that kain waka, leave am, she don see something tire. |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:32pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: There is nothing daft about polygamy for those who practice such a thing. After all. . . .a stupid person will never admit to the world he or she is stupid abi? I find it DAFT. Totally uncalled for. Just keep one wife/husband and do not 'forsake others'! Yes! It is sexism or sexist because. . . . women are not given that 'choice' to have the same opportunities. If the man has 4 wives. . . let the woman have her own 4 husbands too! A very sweeeet ngwo-gwo soup marriage! 3 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:34pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
freecocoa: Gbam! The woman must have had it! E fit nor even be the man pikin sef! Some women are BRAVER than me I swear! There are some things I cannot do sha. I have my boundaries. Chai!!!! |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 8:36pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
freecocoa:Again, a woman is allowed to do whatever she wants with her puzzay. Celebrating it is the reason I even quoted Kanwulia in the first place. I hope you read it this time. Same thing goes for a man too. |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 8:37pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra:Emir Sanusi is daft? |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:48pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: No. Sanusi is not daft since he can take care of all the women in his harem who are agreeable to such an 'arrangement'. He is an opportunistic predator of women folk! The concept of POLYGAMY is a daft one! https://www.nairaland.com/2631849/emir-sanusis-bride-saadatu-wedding 1 Like |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 8:49pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:Your question is conflicting. What a woman can't handle is marrying multiple men, what she's consenting to is her husband bringing in a second wife. Lots of women are okay with the latter, and I'm not sure you're more sane than they are. 1 Like |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 8:54pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: Oh please! Give women the opportunity and let them decide if they can handle it or not. You will be surprised. . . . .Men will be CRYING all over AFRICA! There would be no BROTHELS for men to run too ke! Let us see where they will get the '4 wives' from! Women will OUT-HANDLE THE MEN in that department ke! How can you determine who is who to marry? A total breakdown of society walahi! 2 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 9:03pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra:Beautiful, this is the part I like about you. Agreeable = Consent Polygamy is not wrong afterall, don't know what Uju keeps dragging my trouser for when she can do the same by marrying another husband. At least, phocking multiple men/women within the confines of a polygamous marriage or an open marriage is miles better than having extramarital affairs. Opportunistic predator? Hehehe... The women are not complaining. 4 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 9:07pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: Like I stated earlier. . . give the woman the same choices to MARRY their own 4 husbands EACH! Right now, they have NO OTHER CHOICE in the 'one-sided' polygamous harem. And who says the ''polygamists" do not have extra-marital affairs? Ask MKO Abiola! http://allafrica.com/stories/200708060078.html
This was the ultimate SHAME BY ANY GIVEN STANDARDS! 3 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
the title of this thread sha . a "comrade" indeed.
the comments nko? lmao
madam kanwulia pls come and be my life coach |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 9:14pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga: Come for initiation my darling. I hold 'meetings' once a month on the FIRST SUNDAYS! |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by crackhaus: 9:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra:Story... The biological makeup of a woman already makes it difficult for her to be married to multiple men. Shey she go dey carry belle for all the men ke.. Her pússy will be worn out within three years of her polyandrous marriage. It's not MEN that is the problem of women on this Earth, it's NATURE. Make una direct una fight to the right direction. 2 Likes |
Re: Extramarital Affairs Gone Wrong! A Comrade Has Fallen! by KanwuliaExtra: 9:20pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
crackhaus: *pisses on myself while LOL* Such a low opinion of women. . . . . the fact that 'men' have ED problems does not make a woman's poosy slack! Check! All poosies must SLACK! All deeks must SHRIVEL! Normal aging process! There is more to relationships than tight poosies and erectile deeks, trust me! You have a lot to learn my dear young man. Even virgins get slack. . . .learn some biology lessons! 8 Likes |
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