freecocoa:
Still judging. How can you not see that?
Corrupt us how exactly?

crackhaus:

What am I even trying to prevent, you are already corrupted

How can you not see that?

sassysure:

Read what I wrote.
Women tolerate it because of fear of life after divorce or culture.
If u get angry and divorce, will you easily marry again unlike the man who may decide to marry again at age 70. How will the society especially ours view u as a divorced woman? And knowing the reason u divorced, your family alone will crucify u. Women swallow those things and tell u they love the kids. It's a big lie.
Else, no woman will accept that. The odds are against the ladies.

JennyKadry2:


You have been trying to get rid of that man for how many years ke.


The man go nowhere...you go nowhere. Why you marry Igbo man?

crackhaus:

Story...

The biological makeup of a woman already makes it difficult for her to be married to multiple men. Shey she go dey carry belle for all the men ke..
Her pússy will be worn out within three years of her polyandrous marriage.

It's not MEN that is the problem of women on this Earth, it's NATURE. Make una direct una fight to the right direction.

crackhaus:

What am I even trying to prevent, you are already corrupted

How can you not see that?

peterphd:



The accelerated slamming into the wall will remind women that they can't handle multiple partners. Go ye and age like milk.

KanwuliaExtra:


Na first to 'quench' of natural causes we dey do hia o!
WHO WAN REMARRY again? Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!
I be 'gold mine' ke!
Which man go divorce a woman like me?
I nor dey give wahala, I let am dey 'play' as e like, I dey take care of family, I nor dey beg am for money or honey and I come dey independent too?

DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH LIFE INSURANCE AND RETIREMENT BENEFITS we both have for 20 years of marriage?

Only a FOOOOOL will walk away from such hard earned benefits in this AMERICA.
Make those wey dey kill themselves continue ke.
We are not that STUPID!

Open marriages aka 'chop and let CHOP' is the name of the game for 'mature folks'!
No stress abeg!


Igbo men rock o. . . .I would rather marry an IGBO than a YORUBA, HAUSA, or EDO. . . OR ANY OF THOSE 'RIVERINE' areas.
I do not DATE men who cannot cook or clean!
Mbaaaaaaaaaa!!! I know may limits! Just my comfort zone. DEM SABI COOK!

freecocoa:
You no get talk jor.

dairykidd:

Lolzz i just dey observe u since... Always let a hoe be a hoe , don't ever in ur life try to change her.

KanwuliaExtra:


Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

In this day and age?
Na im BABY MAMAS and BABY DADDIES full town?
Women stay in marriages BECAUSE OF POVERTY!
Simple.

Give women the same opportunities as MEN. . . . .they will walk, have companions to hang out with once a while and NEVER REMARRY.

Men remarry because they are NEEDY and can NEVER SURVIVE BY THEMSELVES AS OLD BACHELORS.
Fact! Do you think men re-marry out of love? They need housemaids and sexual gratification even with the 'wet noodles' between their legs. Women remarry for security and out of POVERTY.

Look at all the self-made women in Nigeria. Nollywood for example. Most of the women are SINGLE. What men can offer those women is NOTHING BUT CHEAP SPERM!

Mindfulness:
I believe in honesty, loyalty and trust. That's me. I don't cheat and I don't tolerate such. If you want an open marriage, communicate it openly. If your partner agrees, fine. If not, move on or stay faithful. I do not invest any energy in lies and cover ups.

crackhaus:

They know it deep down too, but trust my Naija women to take it as an insult.

You tell them how impractical it is for them to be married to multiple men, and their default response will be to prove they can, for no other reason than men do it.

Everything is a damn competition with these ladies.. lol.

sassysure:

Haba kanwulia,I strongly disagree.
So all these working class ladies stay in marriage because of poverty? Do you know some ladies make double of what their husbands make in a month? Some ladies are the sole breadwinners in their respective homes?
In fact, half of the married Nigerian women are the breadwinners( don't ask me where I got the statistic from).
They would have readily divorced and then remarry but it's not easy. Yet those men who seems to be idle can remarry anytime they want.


As for our nollywood babes,leave matter jor. We all know how they make their so called millions. StIll from the ol'cheap sperm.
How much do u think they make per movie?
I laugh. The reason u see sultry pictures of them here and there . That's advertisement. A Nigerian politician on a trip which most times they don't go with their wives can afford to dash u 5mil of his stolen money just to be his companion for the weekend and this is what they use these ladies for most of the times. As escorts. Can easily buy u a g wagon. So leave matter.
They can doll out millions for high class babes in the uni,how much more known actresses.

crackhaus:

Much better than sneaking around like a house mice and then feeling like crap when caught.

Own that shiiît.

crackhaus:

A grade 3 kid would have figured out the talk, but you just want to be one of those who feign naivety.

KanwuliaExtra:


We are saying the same thing o. One thing is certain. Women have little value for themselves all over AFRICA. The society made it so! A woman MUST depend on a man in PRIMITIVE SOCIETIS ONLY!

Most working class women or women as bread-winners in marriages are very few as a TYPICAL NIGERIAN MAN will never support or respect a woman who earns more than he does. No WOMAN will feel comfortable supporting a JOBLESS MAN FOR TOO LONG! She go TAYA KE!

DID YOU READ THIS THREAD?

https://www.nairaland.com/4556083/how-caught-cheating-wife

90% of Nigerian marriages are CONDITIONAL MARRIAGES!

The main types of marriages are:

1. Do or die “i must marry” RELIGIOUS marriages and relationships. They love the idea of marriage more than life itself. Marriage is the SOLE defining factor of their existence. It does not matter if they are married to MULES or DONKEYS!

2. “Because of the children“ marriages where women will “endure” any measure of humiliation to present the facade of “wholesomeness”, no matter how dysfunctional.

3. POVERTY! Those “chop money house-wives” who are solely dependent on their “business men” husbands.

The last category is for those women who genuinely work as a team with their husbands. They are VERY FEW.

As for the Nollywood “babes”. . . . How much do you think “sugar daddies” can give a woman?
Men have SEVERAL BABES at once. To support their lifestyles, Nigerian women have learned to invest their “sugar monies” o. Say man give you 5million today nor mean day you go get even 1000 NAIRA tomorrow ke!

You want to believe gists about:

Omotola and Dangote for example?
Genevieve and Atiku?
Chika Ike and Mantu?

Well, you can only be a concubine for a brief second. A wise woman invests her money from her “handiwork” well! Do you know how many businesses those Nollywood babes have bought? Please, do your research. Those babes WORK HARD! A man and his wallet can only go so far!

Google is your friend!

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nigerianinfopedia.com/top-11-richest-female-actress-in-nigeria-2016-updated/amp/

bukatyne:


This is the first thread I have seen you condemn adultery by the men.

Interestingly, the process of marriage to another woman makes the polygamist adulterous.

Not to you: I wonder why some men are bemoaning the influx of 'whores' as houeswives.

If everyone (men & women) embrace faithfulness, we would have less cheats.

It is a fellow man like you who believes that's OK to cheat that will sleep with your wife.

freecocoa:
Oga carry your judgemental/ hypocritical self go siddon biko.

KanwuliaExtra:


Not applicable. So I wouldn’t know.
That is for “novices” aka “immature choppers and choppees”!

I could not even “hide and chop” even if my life depended on it. I like to be free abeg. Anyone is freeeeeee to leave at anytime. I will not shed a drop of tear or sweat! Life is toooooo sweet to DIE ON TOP OR UNDER one person o.

If I am with a man that hides behind his wife, I lose interest sharp-sharp! Not interested in “extra marital cowards”!

Now, I know I am not the “marrying” kind! Too bad it took 20 years to find out!


Never again! Taaaaaaaaaa!!!

sassysure:

U understood me perfectly well.

Kanwulia, let me just close my big mouth.
Forget the nollywood babes.
And forget what u read on the Internet by bloggers.
The more u look the less you see.
I know a handful personally and their modus operandi

crackhaus:



In your next life just come as a man, else if you make the mistake of coming back as a woman, your hormones and emotions are going to betray you again and you'll just end up getting married once more.

bukatyne:


Totally agree with you.

KanwuliaExtra:


We are saying the same thing o. One thing is certain. Women have little value for themselves all over AFRICA. The society made it so! A woman MUST depend on a man in PRIMITIVE SOCIETIS ONLY!

Most working class women or women as bread-winners in marriages are very few as a TYPICAL NIGERIAN MAN will never support or respect a woman who earns more than he does. No WOMAN will feel comfortable supporting a JOBLESS MAN FOR TOO LONG! She go TAYA KE!

DID YOU READ THIS THREAD?

https://www.nairaland.com/4556083/how-caught-cheating-wife

90% of Nigerian marriages are CONDITIONAL MARRIAGES!

The main types of marriages are:

1. Do or die “i must marry” RELIGIOUS marriages and relationships. They love the idea of marriage more than life itself. Marriage is the SOLE defining factor of their existence. It does not matter if they are married to MULES or DONKEYS!

2. “Because of the children“ marriages where women will “endure” any measure of humiliation to present the facade of “wholesomeness”, no matter how dysfunctional.

3. POVERTY! Those “chop money house-wives” who are solely dependent on their “business men” husbands.

The last category is for those women who genuinely work as a team with their husbands. They are VERY FEW.

As for the Nollywood “babes”. . . . How much do you think “sugar daddies” can give a woman?
Men have SEVERAL BABES at once. To support their lifestyles, Nigerian women have learned to invest their “sugar monies” o. Say man give you 5million today nor mean day you go get even 1000 NAIRA tomorrow ke!

You want to believe gists about:

Omotola and Dangote for example?
Genevieve and Atiku?
Chika Ike and Mantu?

Well, you can only be a concubine for a brief second. A wise woman invests her money from her “handiwork” well! Do you know how many businesses those Nollywood babes have bought? Please, do your research. Those babes WORK HARD! A man and his wallet can only go so far!

Google is your friend!

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nigerianinfopedia.com/top-11-richest-female-actress-in-nigeria-2016-updated/amp/

crackhaus:

There has been no thread where I praised adultery either. Perhaps what I'm guilty of is taking a stance of silence on the subject.

A fellow man like me who believes it's okay to cheat will be cheating on his own wife - It's only if my wife believes that it is okay to cheat, only then will she be cheating on me. Get it right.


What exactly do you mean by 'the process of marriage to another woman makes the polygamist adulterous'?

KanwuliaExtra:

A man ke? Oh no! I love my body as a woman. Marriage is too overrated. Definitely not for me. Very boring and FAKE!

bukatyne:


This is the first thread I have seen you condemn adultery by the men.

Interestingly, the process of marriage to another woman makes the polygamist adulterous.

Not to you: I wonder why some men are bemoaning the influx of 'whores' as houeswives.

If everyone (men & women) embrace faithfulness, we would have less cheats.

It is a fellow man like you who believes that's OK to cheat that will sleep with your wife.

bukatyne:


@ Bold: I clearly stated that it was not to you (personal) so subsequent you's were third person.

A man has to commit adultery to marry a second/nth wife. If it is still a sin after he has married her in the culturally acceptable way is another discussion.

@Silence: It is consent you know. When we don't speak up especially because we do not want to go against the trend or flow, we are equally guilty.