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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by tedimola(m): 5:08am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
I don't like dominant men, they turn me off, is it that hard to understand given to the fact that I am dominant.
U are claiming dorminant cos u haven't seen a man to make u submissive. I pray u meet him sooner than later, not for you to get to 38 years and be disturbing pastor up and down for deliverance because you have not seen husband. Now you know where your problem is coming from.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sweetilicious(f): 5:09am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.
It is not in the bible.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by jolyment: 5:10am On Jun 19, 2018
2buffagain:


What exactly do you intend to do with a submissive husband?

Sit on his face and take his money?

I suggest you go get yourself a white guy then.


She wants to be her remote control.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by yhungbrowhne(m): 5:10am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by AreaFada2: 5:27am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.

The same submissive man will be lambasted by his woman as "weak" when things go wrong.

Why not just say a man you can control?

Some women need a dog/poodle, not a hubby. shocked shocked
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 5:29am On Jun 19, 2018
delectablegyal:



liar.
How? you prefer men to dominate you. lmao
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by FrostyButter: 5:30am On Jun 19, 2018
And close your damn legs. Some females, i just wonder how they would carry pregnancy and the kid would not just drop out with the way they have used the borehole rough
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 5:30am On Jun 19, 2018
tedimola:

U are claiming dorminant cos u haven't seen a man to make u submissive. I pray u meet him sooner than later, not for you to get to 38 years and be disturbing pastor up and down for deliverance because you have not seen husband. Now you know where your problem is coming from.
Like how many times will you quote me today!
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Allee90: 5:34am On Jun 19, 2018
Sex is also very very important
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Humility017(m): 5:42am On Jun 19, 2018
sweetilicious:
It is not in the bible.
God bless you for this reply....
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Humility017(m): 5:42am On Jun 19, 2018
sweetilicious:
It is not in the bible.
God bless you for this reply....
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by brainhgeek(m): 5:50am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.

I doubt you are married yet. If you are, I ca. Imagine your relationship with your inlaws and husband's friends.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by mypassions(m): 5:50am On Jun 19, 2018
Elder001:

Sounds funny, huh?

You don't want her to find a submissive man but you guys can look for submissive women.

Very funny creatures

Will you shut up you bastard! Everybody please beware of this ugly bitch, she is using a male profile.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 6:09am On Jun 19, 2018
desiregold:
Why didnt you add financially ready too?


Ladies, if you are a member of this forum and you dont have any source of income, you dont have any job or biz that brings atleast 20k in a month.., Then you dont have any bizness with marriage.


I hate hearing some married women say things like "Aunty, borrow me 500 naira to cook food for my children, I will pay you back when my husband comes back from work".

Money gives you voice in life. it gives you voice among your friends, It gives voice among your family members, it gives you voice in your church, It even gives you voice in your marriage.
What of a woman who is pregnant or taking care of her baby at home?
I can tell u are still single...

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 6:14am On Jun 19, 2018
HARDDON:


Submissive man? shocked shocked shocked More like woman wrapper! It is your type that visit shrines....

What a mentality.

I did not go to shrine to marry my husband.

My husband is currently the sole breadwinner of the family.

My husband and I are partners in just about everything.

My husband I submit to one another.

My husband is therefore submissive.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by 2buffagain(m): 6:15am On Jun 19, 2018
YelloweWest:

What of a woman who is pregnant or taking care of her baby at home?
I can tell u are still single...

What of maternity leave or taking a little time off work to nurse a baby (after which you go BACK to pursuing something)?
I can tell you are still a liability.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 6:17am On Jun 19, 2018
mypassions:


Will you shut up you bastard! Everybody please beware of this ugly bitch, she is using a male profile.
Jezzz hunku what is vexing u ?

There is nothing wrong if husband and wife submit to one another.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 6:21am On Jun 19, 2018
Elder001:

What's stopping you from cooking? must women be the ones to cook for you?

Many misogynistic men are actually on this forum

I have daughter's that are aiming for equality education and great careers. My girls must also know how to cook. Must!

If they can't cook what will they feed their families
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Viking007(m): 6:30am On Jun 19, 2018
desiregold:
Why didnt you add financially ready too?


Ladies, if you are a member of this forum and you dont have any source of income, you dont have any job or biz that brings atleast 20k in a month.., Then you dont have any bizness with marriage.


I hate hearing some married women say things like "Aunty, borrow me 500 naira to cook food for my children, I will pay you back when my husband comes back from work".

Money gives you voice in life. it gives you voice among your friends, It gives voice among your family members, it gives you voice in your church, It even gives you voice in your marriage.
This comment on it's own is worth a thread. Well said.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 6:30am On Jun 19, 2018
2buffagain:


What of maternity leave or taking a little time off work to nurse a baby (after which you go BACK to pursuing something)?
I can tell you are still a liability.
At what age should a woman abandon her child and go back looking for money?
Motherhood is the hardest job in the world and no one is paid for it.

A woman who for goes everything to stay back at home and raise her children until they are well groomed is a great asset!

My pastors brother is married to a white British lady. Well educated. However she is the sole bread winner.

When asked she said she is willing to manage what ever her husband is earning until their child is 12! This is a woman who had a career! he gave it up to be a mother.

In the West mothers are held in high esteem and respected it is only here where a housewife is seen as lazy...

I'm not a housewife but I don't criticize those who are. Nanny cannot raise a child like the mother.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by godofuck231: 6:32am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.
ive got a submissive guy for you, email me
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by MrEdimulo82(m): 6:41am On Jun 19, 2018
Number 3 is brilliant for me
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by mypassions(m): 6:48am On Jun 19, 2018
YelloweWest:

Jezzz hunku what is vexing u ?

There is nothing wrong if husband and wife submit to one another.

Nothing wrong but using the word “Submissive” make it sound offensive, it’s better to say “Respect”. The wife should be submissive and why the husband should respect. Simple!
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Tellemall: 7:01am On Jun 19, 2018
YelloweWest:

At what age should a woman abandon her child and go back looking for money?
Motherhood is the hardest job in the world and no one is paid for it.

A woman who for goes everything to stay back at home and raise her children until they are well groomed is a great asset!

My pastors brother is married to a white British lady. Well educated. However she is the sole bread winner.

When asked she said she is willing to manage what ever her husband is earning until their child is 12! This is a woman who had a career! he gave it up to be a mother.

In the West mothers are held in high esteem and respected it is only here where a housewife is seen as lazy...

I'm not a housewife but I don't criticize those who are. Nanny cannot raise a child like the mother.

This is a case of Nigerians trying to be more westernized than the West.

Out in the West men try as much as possible to have a house wife, because she will take care of her kids properly. Unless they both agree they need money or that she should pursue her career. Sometimes if she is ambitious the man will become a house husband, and believe me, he cannot work once he's taking care of that child.

But by Nigerian logic he should be able to take care of the child and bring the wife money to show that he is important in the Union, while all she has to do is go to work, have drinks after work before coming back to run a finger along surfaces to know if such a man did his duties as a good house husband.

Nigerians want a robot or dog, not wives. They want her to bring them money and do everything, while they just bring money without doing anything. That is the Nigerian definition of equality between the genders. It means that a woman will fulfill all her responsibilities in addition to bringing money while the man only brings in money. He has no responsibility outside that. If she takes her job seriously he begins to get jealous or accuse her of being incapable of being a good robot.

A very wrong understanding of sustainability in marriage.

The wrong things you see here are reflective of very damaged single men who will eventually look for dogs or robots to marry.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Chimourinho(m): 7:03am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.
Na husband suppose dey submissive abi na the husband? You see where problem dey from start?
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by dingbang(m): 7:11am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
I don't like dominant men, they turn me off, is it that hard to understand given to the fact that I am dominant.
come and be my queen
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 7:30am On Jun 19, 2018
dingbang:
come and be my queen
cheesy.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Unik3030: 7:35am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
I don't like dominant men, they turn me off, is it that hard to understand given to the fact that I am dominant.
submissive man... Wetin person no go hear.y not put it simply as slave husband.so if a man is submissive what will a woman do
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by dingbang(m): 7:38am On Jun 19, 2018
Colourich:
cheesy.
haha, she's laughing...
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Unik3030: 7:42am On Jun 19, 2018
Elder001:


Keep quiet.. Bible written by men, right?

Why don't you think men wrote that shít to please themselves?.

God didn't say any such stuff.

If you want submission then be ready to reciprocate it.
so Bible is poo.u must be sick upstairs n I guess u need to visit a psychiatrist
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by mira4u(f): 8:03am On Jun 19, 2018
desiregold:
Why didnt you add financially ready too?


Ladies, if you are a member of this forum and you dont have any source of income, you dont have any job or biz that brings atleast 20k in a month.., Then you dont have any bizness with marriage.


I hate hearing some married women say things like "Aunty, borrow me 500 naira to cook food for my children, I will pay you back when my husband comes back from work".

Money gives you voice in life. it gives you voice among your friends, It gives voice among your family members, it gives you voice in your church, It even gives you voice in your marriage.


I wish I can like this post a million times. Wonder why op didn't make this point number one. I wonder why any normal woman will sit comfortably at home and depend solely on her husband for finance, in this time and age. That's how one called me to send her some money to feed cos her husband lost his job and couldn't cater for their needs.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Misterdhee1(m): 8:05am On Jun 19, 2018
No 3 is so right!




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