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Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Uniquetani1(f): 6:12pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59: Mine is much I am even sick now This is the fourth time this year. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Uniquetani1:Sorry dear. I wish you quick recovery. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Uniquetani1(f): 6:16pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
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Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Oma04: 6:38pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Dear poster, even though a lot of people shy away from sickle cells patients, a lot of us still GET HAPPILY MARRIED. I am a sickle cell patient married with a daughter and expecting my second baby soonest. In my case, i told my husband even before we started dating and he was and still is very supportive but is literally very scared whenever crisis strikes {which is usually once in a while as we both make sure i take very good care of myself}, even though he kept it a secret away from his family because his parents have always told them {when they were much younger} not to even think about it. Now being a parent myself i perfectly understand their fears and where they were coming from. So back to your question, if reversed was the case i would ABSOLUTELY MARRY AN SS PATIENT as long as we love each other and the significant other is AA. 11 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59:I rushed to the hospital as fast as I could .. Met her dad pacing up and down the hallway .. The mum was struggling with some nurses as she was dragged out of the ICU .. To cut the story short, she fought really hard to clinge unto life .. Unfortunately that was the last crises she would ever have as she lost her life after 9 hours .. Her death dealt a blow on us, to think she was the only child made the situation very painful and hard to accept .. Her house was like a second home to mine and we missed her oh so dearly .. It's a pity death took her when she was only 13 .. Now Chi59 if someone wants to date a sickler then let them do so cause I've once seen a married sickle cell man who had a perfect family and a home to call his own .. All the best things come in two's so Chi59 I know someday you'll find the perfect man and he'll be all you've ever dreamt of .. All the best in your endeavours and have a great life . 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Oma04: Beautiful love story there. I don't hide my status. I'm not ashamed of it. And I believe when he comes, he won't run away because of a doctor's report. I wish you everything good. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
I rushed to the hospital as fast as I could .. Met her dad pacing up and down the hallway .. The mum was struggling with some nurses as she was dragged out of the ICU .. To cut the story short, she fought really hard to clinge unto life .. Unfortunately that was the last crises she would ever have as she lost her life after 9 hours .. Her death dealt a blow on us, to think she was the only child made the situation very painful and hard to accept .. Her house was like a second home to mine and we missed her oh so dearly .. It's a pity death took her when she was only 13 ..So sad. But then, such is life. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by oluwatodimu1(m): 11:20pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Uniquetani1:@tyms it cld vary frm diet related issues to hereditary stuffs. more often than not cld b malaria &typhoid as tests wld reveal but dearie its more of the aforementioned factors than the latter... |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59: You are highly confident in yourself. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by agrovick(m): 12:02am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Chi59: Always play safe then, it's a good thing you are quite knowledgeable about the condition. SS got nothing on you |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:02am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Funnicator:Thanks. There's a point where one reaches in life where fear disappears. I don't fear death, nor pain, nor rejection, nor heartbreak. Courage is not an option. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:03am On Jun 17, 2018 |
agrovick:Thanks |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:29am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Chi59: Your way with words though. If you may, largas56@gmail.com 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Dami12345: 5:48am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Chi59: Yes as long as she doesn't tell me until I ask. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Dionnetech: 7:53am On Jun 17, 2018 |
maybe |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:50am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Dami12345:Strange though. What's wrong with knowing before you ask? |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Dami12345: 12:17pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Chi59: I won't like to know a girl like this. I'll just start to avoid. When I love, I love hard, I can do anything so its hard to love someone and see her suffering, I'll probably just make it my life work to heal her. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Dami12345:But then, knowing before or after changes nothing if the feeling is there. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Uniquetani1(f): 12:52pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
oluwatodimu1: Yes it is mostly typhoid I am even suffering from it now. I always think that AA is the strongest of all genotype |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by smadav(m): 3:07pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
no I will not, because of the problems associated with it trust me its scary, I can't handle it. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Dami12345: 6:20pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Chi59: If I know before, I'll detach myself with time. Eventually it will fade. If I don't know I'll won't leave when I do find out. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by ikare(m): 6:38pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Oma04:I just luv ds write up. I'm happily married to one too n we just had our second child, both absolutely healthy sons. I knew she was SS from day one, but that never bothered me 'cos I am AA. We met thru a friend n it wasn't long b4 we realized we were made 4 each other. Although she's had crises, but nothing we couldn't overcome. She's very special. SS people r stronger than u think. They r warriors. Just luv them d best u can n watch them grow stronger. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by prettysassygirl(f): 8:01pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
ikare:So very romantic 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
ikare:Beautiful. You are right. We are warriors and love is very vital. It has a way of protecting, healing and nourishing someone. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Chi59:You said it all, "Love is vital" . My bestie is SS. Oh, how i love that gal. she is my partner in crime, My sister from another mother. I dont allow her wallow in her health issues, I let her know nobody is better than her. Whenever i see any SS inspirational story, i tag her to come and read herself. Unfortunately i am not a man, if not, i for wife her. And you sister.., You are beautiful. you are a warrior like you said. *e-hug* 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
desiregold:Aww. Thanks dear. I wish I found a friend like yourself. Love is key. Thanks once again |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Alhajiemeritus: 9:23pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Uniquetani1:Watch what you eat. And stay away from anything alcoholic totally Use more ginger and garlic in your food. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Uniquetani1(f): 9:30pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Alhajiemeritus: Thank you |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jun 17, 2018 |
Chi59:babe u try, i can't even put my pic, u are courageous, we share same fate, but am a man not marry though. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:07am On Jun 18, 2018 |
dancok:Aww. Thanks |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by milemimi93(m): 12:38am On Jun 18, 2018 |
Chi59: I can't even marry a woman mostly naija girls not to talk of a sickler. Y'all women are disgusting and useless. Leech is a synonymous name for women. I'd rather marry a HIV white girl than marry a AA naija girl that's if I should marry wish I won't. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:41am On Jun 18, 2018 |
milemimi93:Carry your stupidity elsewhere 2 Likes 1 Share |
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