Right now.. I am in a love with a particular girl and she love me too..

We've been together for close to 6months..real love, she do cry over the phone when we talk about relationship..

The only issue that's stopping her from.being in a relationship with me is "RELIGION"..

I am a Christian and she's a Muslim

She said she can't marry a Muslim and there is no point in Dating someone she won't marry...

I am in pain and hurt, I've tried to move on, but it is not possible because the love is still very much strong...

What should I do?
What should i do?

Mchew

Just try and forget bout her and move on. If d relationship isn't taking you no where,forget it bro.

If there's no chance of you converting and she's adamant on not marrying a non muslim, you'll have to let each other go. Easiest partners tend to be the ones whose values align the most with yours unfortunately. Sorry dear

dingbang:
Mchew

Seconded.

dingbang:
Mchew

Thirded

She can’t or won’t marry? There is a difference.
What exactly is her objection to your faith? She has to give you a cohesive explanation.

MissRaine69:
She can’t or won’t marry? There is a difference.
What exactly is her objection to your faith? She has to give you a cohesive explanation.

She can't

She said her religion is against it

Bleep r and move on ...

Born2conquer:

She can't

She said her religion is against it

I will speak to you as if you were my brother. She was aware of your faith way before feelings were caught. If someone feels that strongly about their faith then they need to stay in their lane and date someone from the same background. It is most unfortunate that it has come to this but if she is steadfast in her views then there is nothing yoj can do about it

As painful as it is walking away might be the best way as it avoids issues later in life. You met the wrong person at the right time. My parents have an interfaith marriage, one is a Muslim and the other a Maronite they have been married for 45 years. It’s possibe and can be a sucess if the other person is open minded. This the probelm you face here.

As painful as it maybe for now close this chapter, one day she will look for you.

sorry Just move on bro

if she is Yoruba u could probably work it out,they are more liberal regard8ng religious issues..but if na hausa/fulani,forget it fam

move on.
Believe me inter-religious marriages in Nigeria doesn't usually end well, mostly due external forces.

MissRaine69:

I will speak to you as if you were my brother. She was aware of your faith way before feelings were caught. If someone feels that strongly about their faith then they need to stay in their lane and date someone from the same background. It is most unfortunate that it has come to this but if she is steadfast in her views then there is nothing yoj can do about it

As painful as it is walking away might be the best way as it avoids issues later in life. You met the wrong person at the right time. My parents have an interfaith marriage, one is a Muslim and the other a Maronite they have been married for 45 years. It’s possibe and can be a sucess if the other person is open minded. This the probelm you face here.

As painful as it maybe for now close this chapter, one day she will look for you.

Thanks Ma

I will try and walk away..it should be easy..it would be hard on me but it is the best thing to do..

We ain't in the same location for now and the distance would last over 6months

I will block her on whatsapp and move on

alhassanyusuf29:
if she is Yoruba u could probably work it out,they are more liberal regard8ng religious issues..but if na hausa/fulani,forget it fam

She's a Yoruba girl

She's asking questions like
"Will the marriage be at my church of her mosque?"
"Who would handle our kids naming ceremony?"
"Will our children attends church or mosque"

She's the first Daughter and her dad is a staunch ALPha

You know how Father will wanna show their strength on daughters

Rigel95:
move on.
Believe me inter-religious marriages in Nigeria doesn't usually end well, mostly due external forces.

stop yarning dust..my dad is a Muslim and mum a Christian background, they've been married more than 50 yrs now and still growing stronger and both families have been very very very supportive..well maybe its coz of there level f exposure tho but stop generalizing bro.

Like someone pointed out thank ur stars she is not from the north
Op just move on over here in the north u hardly see them being in a CASUAL relationship with us not to talk of dating or worsestill marriage
Bruh dont chase a shadow abeg

you seem to have issues with simple comprehension. OR did you not see usually in the quoted text?

Next time be eager to listen but tarry in replying.

melody91:
stop yarning dust..my dad is a Muslim and mum a Christian background, they've been married more than 50 yrs now and still growing stronger and both families have been very very very supportive..well maybe its coz of there level f exposure tho but stop generalizing bro.

Rigel95:

Next time be eager to listen but tarry in replying.

oh sorry my bad! I overlooked that,thanks for the advice.

melody91:
oh sorry my bad! I overlooked that,thanks for the advice.

have a good day bro.

Rigel95:
have a good day bro.

you too sir

I am a Christian and she's a Muslim

She said she can't marry a Muslim

What should I do?
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MissRaine69:

I will speak to you as if you were my brother. She was aware of your faith way before feelings were caught. If someone feels that strongly about their faith then they need to stay in their lane and date someone from the same background. It is most unfortunate that it has come to this but if she is steadfast in her views then there is nothing yoj can do about it

As painful as it is walking away might be the best way as it avoids issues later in life. You met the wrong person at the right time. My parents have an interfaith marriage, one is a Muslim and the other a Maronite they have been married for 45 years. It’s possibe and can be a sucess if the other person is open minded. This the probelm you face here.

As painful as it maybe for now close this chapter, one day she will look for you.

You are talking as if we select who we want to love right from the start of things

AuntyAmope:


You are talking as if we select who we want to love right from the start of things

Actually we do.. Never confuse Love with Feelings, Crush, Infatuation or even Lust..
It is possible to select whom you love from the start of things before it grows into "Love".. You simply train your mind to move on at the early stage..
.
Personally I don't like the idea of marrying someone Older than Me.. Does it mean I have never admired, crushed, lust or have feelings for someone Older than me.. NO
You people should stop making LOVE magical.. We have control over, depending on how you train yourself..
And that's why it's takes ONLY a MAN to think with his HEAD and not his HEART..!!

AuntyAmope:


You are talking as if we select who we want to love right from the start of things

Sometimes things don’t work out take feelings and emotions out of the equation and face reality headon . He has accepted things not sure what your gripe is? It was directed to him and his situation.
No dramas

Born2conquer:


She's a Yoruba girl

She's asking questions like
"Will the marriage be at my church of her mosque?"
"Who would handle our kids naming ceremony?"
"Will our children attends church or mosque"

She's the first Daughter and her dad is a staunch ALPha

You know how Father will wanna show their strength on daughters

Oga move on and stop hurting yourself. You go meet another good woman same way you met her.

But religion should not be a barrier, it is the true love that is germane and matter most, mind you religion is just the opium of the masses...if she's not willing then you free her as that's her own orientation.

Leave your religions.

Earn money, work, live more comfortably then both of you guys should move to a different & bigger city (PH, Lagos, Abj, Calabar) where you guys can live happily ever after!

Born2conquer:
Right now.. I am in a love with a particular girl and she love me too..

We've been together for close to 6months..real love, she do cry over the phone when we talk about relationship..

The only issue that's stopping her from.being in a relationship with me is "RELIGION"..

I am a Christian and she's a Muslim.

She said she can't marry a Muslim and there is no point in Dating someone she won't marry...

I am in pain and hurt, I've tried to move on, but it is not possible because the love is still very much strong...

What should I do?
What should i do?

Why don't people reread what they type before posting it? Look at the boldened parts of your write up and stop being confused? Be it as it may, a true Muslim shouldn't marry a Christian and vice versa. They must first change the core of their beliefs to be able to pull that off hence they wouldn't be true to their religion.

Become a Muslim or walka dey move