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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by virago(f): 9:55am On Jun 18, 2018
Patrinus:


It is you that don't comprehend the true situation! After receiving marriage blessing with "false" first impression as posited by you. . . how do you think that marriage will play out grin


There's a reason I put the false in quotation marks , it obviously escaped you
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Patrinus: 9:59am On Jun 18, 2018
ozoneymcm:

The marriage will "play out" fine. She would have been able to show the good things she can offer. I don't think her in-laws would hate on her if she turned out to be a better person than their own daughter

You're certain she's gonna turn out a better person than their daughter
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Patrinus: 10:03am On Jun 18, 2018
virago:



There's a reason I put the false in quotation marks , it obviously escaped you

There's a reason I used that parable in my first post which you quoted! Go figure!

Coming back to this your "false" personality. I admire her for her courage and ability to stand for what she believes in. Who knows she might even be fortunate to meet a liberal mother-in-law, however what happens if reverse is the case?

After obtaining marriage blessing with "false" personality, what happens when they come to their son's house and see madam's real personality?
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by rawpadgin(m): 10:04am On Jun 18, 2018
sinaj:
lol

Just trying to look at it from her own perspective
u should understand that her perspective is totally wrong
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by ozoneymcm: 10:06am On Jun 18, 2018
Patrinus:


You're certain she's gonna turn out a better person than their daughter
I'm not certain. She could turn out to be a hoe. But she needs to give herself the opportunity to be assessed properly
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Idrismusty97(m): 10:10am On Jun 18, 2018
Patrinus:


There's a reason I used that parable in my first post which you quoted! Go figure!

Coming back to this your "false" personality. I admire her for her courage and ability to stand for what she believes in. Who knows she might even be fortunate to meet a liberal mother-in-law, however what happens if reverse is the case?

After obtaining marriage blessing with "false" personality, what happens when they come to their son's house and see madam's real personality?

A nose ring is not a personality, It's a nose ring. If they meet her with "Another" personality it isn't the nose ring fault.

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Patrinus: 10:10am On Jun 18, 2018
ozoneymcm:

I'm not certain. She could turn out to be a hoe. But she needs to give herself the opportunity to be assessed properly

Define assessed properly!
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Patrinus: 10:17am On Jun 18, 2018
Idrismusty97:
A nose ring is not a personality, It's a nose ring. If they meet her with "Another" personality it isn't the nose ring fault.

That girl comes across like someone obviously influenced by lot of western culture, which is not a bad thing. Lover boy too comes across like someone from a traditional African set-up, stuck in their beliefs, if something as minute as nose ring is already giving him trepidation, you can be rest assured there're lots of other things his parents obviously won't welcome which he is yet to talk about.

Ever heard of the concept, culture shock

The two both of them might be setting each other up for future heartbreak if care is not taken.

Na Monday morning be this we nor get holiday where I dey work (not even weekends cry ), abeg make nobody quote me again ooh!

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by ozoneymcm: 10:21am On Jun 18, 2018
Patrinus:


Define assessed properly!
Assessed properly means without bias, on a clean slate, without focus on things or issues that are irrelevant to the subject of focus. A nose ring would bring about all these. I promise not to quote you again sir(lol)

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by emelda86(f): 10:22am On Jun 18, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
grin this girl. why you like to support bad things like this.

Wetin I do now?
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by deavicky(m): 10:26am On Jun 18, 2018
sinaj:
What if after removing the nose ring, her prospective mother in law sees her on the road with the nose ring
The woman will conclude that she has other ugly traits she is hiding just to marry her son.
So its better they accept her and her nose ring now and decide wether to like her or not.

Better still, the guy should visit her family first wearing saggy jeans, rocking dreads and magnetic earrings since she cant compromise for him sad
this girl where in PH are u?. I want to take u out for breakfast or lunch.
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Kendrick80(m): 10:27am On Jun 18, 2018
I'm sure if she's white that won't be a problem undecided
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Viruscod3d: 10:31am On Jun 18, 2018
.. if a girl has more dan 3 earpiercings and wears ankle chains she is an olosho .. u can ignore the earpiercing, if any girl wears ankle chain no need to toast her oo .. just ask her how much for ur market

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Dionysus22(m): 10:31am On Jun 18, 2018
So, you would rather not marry than get rid of a nose ring? Wish u all the best then!
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by dingbang(m): 10:41am On Jun 18, 2018
When you meet a woman who is confused in life, you will know

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Smartwin: 10:45am On Jun 18, 2018
Is she originates from India?
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by chronique(m): 10:48am On Jun 18, 2018
I can't even be attracted to a lady that wears nose ring in the first place, let alone date her. I have strong reservations about people who dress like that. Multiple piercings, ankle chain, tattoos, etc are a turn off for me. I like my ladies looking decent and properly dressed up. The girl in question is not yet ready. When she is, she'd let him know. If your family accepts wild looks, not every family accepts it.

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Altern8(m): 10:50am On Jun 18, 2018
Be yourself. If his family don’t like ladies with nose rings then so be it.
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by elsom: 10:56am On Jun 18, 2018
Preshy561:
lool,what do i know.
all these ladies be looking like magnetic steel.lipsrsealed so,having a nose ring now defines strong woman?
lol...of cos its metal. metals are meant for strength
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by sinaj(f): 11:01am On Jun 18, 2018
rawpadgin:
u should understand that her perspective is totally wrong

Nah. you are wrong for saying that her perspective is wrong. No matter how foolish someone's decision may seem to you, just try and put yourself in that person's shoe to see if you can understand it from that person's perspective.

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:16am On Jun 18, 2018
kennygee:


The guy might love the nose ring but it is a different thing when she's meeting the parent. She has to look the part. His parents don't need to know his preference is a ghen ghen girl.

A lot of guys have done this, encouraged their gfs to tone it down a notch when they are meeting their parents, it's not cause they don't like your crazy hair colour, your piercings or tattoos or your semi nude clothes, it's because their parents approval is very necessary and they want their parents to approve of you.

Genius
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by perfectedmee: 11:30am On Jun 18, 2018
[quote author=sinaj post=68585619]What if after removing the nose ring, her prospective mother in law sees her on the road with the nose ring
The woman will conclude that she has other ugly traits she is hiding just to marry her son.
So its better they accept her and her nose ring now and decide wether to like her or not.

Better still, the guy should visit her family first wearing saggy jeans, rocking dreads and magnetic earrings since she cant compromise for him sad
[/quote/]

If I were ur bf and a smoker. The day I will visit ur parents 4 d first time.

Decorum calls that I should at least suppress d urge till we get home.

Is not a big deal, is called Respect.

We do it even to our bro parents talk more of in-law
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by tollyboy5(m): 11:38am On Jun 18, 2018
Asowari:
wearing nose ring ,chain on ur leg beads on ur waist .it's a no no it's makes a lady looks irresponsible.
Lol I support she shud remove the ring but people shud stop wrong definition of irresponsible. just the way people always want me to cut my which I cant it my kind of legacy.
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by tollyboy5(m): 11:43am On Jun 18, 2018
sinaj:
Nah. you are wrong for saying that her perspective is wrong. No matter how foolish someone's decision may seem to you, just try and put yourself in that person's shoe to see if you can understand it from that person's perspective.
thank you people are just quick to judge what I felt is that if the guys mother is coming to visit some other times would he ask her to remove it?
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by franchasng(f): 11:43am On Jun 18, 2018
tetula123:
If you can't remove your nose ring get ready to marry yourself, I don't even see how nose ring makes one beautiful, it only makes you look like a cheap h*e.
only brainwashed foolish guys trying to form civilised guys date ladies wearing nose ring and still take them serious or even think about marrying them. Such ladies are not for keeps, chop and move on...leave them for Majek Fashek and Bob Marley to marry, some guys don't learn sha, after they will come here and be disturbing our peace with their marital issues angry

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by franchasng(f): 11:46am On Jun 18, 2018
Cyberleets:


lol... those kinda girl with nose rings, and tattoo and all other crazy stuff is only good as a girlfriend!! and most reason guys want a girlfriend is because of sex!!

a guy might get a girlfriend from club house, but when it's time to settle down... believe me, no sane guy will go to that club for a wife!!

it's a different thing. Girlfriend and wife
no, feminists and westernized city ladies won't take your good advice, they love to hear the lies and abhor the truth

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Cynsee: 11:48am On Jun 18, 2018
What she no fit wear for an interview.
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by franchasng(f): 11:51am On Jun 18, 2018
Viruscod3d:
.. if a girl has more dan 3 earpiercings and wears ankle chains she is an olosho .. u can ignore the earpiercing, if any girl wears ankle chain no need to toast her oo .. just ask her how much for ur market
ankle chain, nose ring, belly ring, obvious tatoo, are clear identies of girls meant for showbiz, one night stand and what have u, never marry them.

But most guys won't learn. Even if she pretends to be an Angel, she will sleep with any loaded and flashy looking guy that pressure her with money with time.

You can't buy a lion and try to turn it into a domestic animal, one day the lion will eat u unknowingly because its in it
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by franchasng(f): 12:06pm On Jun 18, 2018
Cuddlebugie:
This is absurd. How does wearing nose ring symbolise strength?
See what they have done to us angry
my dear o grin cheesy cheesy

Ugly girls are the ones who wear every available accessory to force beauty on them self; they wear nose ring, 6 earrings, leg chain, ankle chain, waist chain, belly ring, toe ring, golden hair, tatoo, etc just to deceive gullible guys that they are pretty and hot.

All a girl needs to look cute and hot is sexy protruding buttocks, flat tummy, averagely standing boobs, straight full legs and moderately fine face and she can get the attention of any man on earth, not putting on disgusting accessories that makes them look like dumped wh*ores angry

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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by rawpadgin(m): 12:32pm On Jun 18, 2018
sinaj:
Nah. you are wrong for saying that her perspective is wrong. No matter how foolish someone's decision may seem to you, just try and put yourself in that person's shoe to see if you can understand it from that person's perspective.
will u support ur son who thinks he was born gay so he want to start practicing it?
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by majamajic(m): 12:33pm On Jun 18, 2018
virago:


Can she wear that to a job interview
if Na olosho job interview nko

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