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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by majamajic(m): 12:33pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
virago:if Na olosho job interview nko 1 Like |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by olaeffect(m): 12:37pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
some people don't know that their are looks that are termed irresponsible or not corporate/normal/formal. By a lady simply wearing a nose ring and a guy rocking dreds or a crazy hair style you have lost 80% of the respect that can be accorded you on fisrt appearance. Just imagine getting to the hospital and meeting a doctor with tattoos, painted hair-do and a nose ring, no matter how good on the job the doctor maybe you will first be taken aback. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by olaeffect(m): 12:40pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
majamajic: so why look like an olosho to a wife interview. Abi she does not know that meeting the parents is a wife to be final interview. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by majamajic(m): 12:45pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
olaeffect: she want them to know what they are bargaining for earlier , so they don't turn her to house help or cooking and washing all day for them if she comes for family holidays visits 1 Like |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Daeylar(f): 12:54pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
[s] tetula123:[/s] Why trying so hard to prop yourself up and act like men who think like you are the last living men on the planet? Come out of your shell and try and live in the real world once in a while. If the man refuses to marry her because of the Nose ring, there are over 2 million men (whose parents will accept her nose ring BTW) on this planet ready to marry her. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by francescainnoce(f): 1:03pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
Deltayankeeboi:Mtcheeeeeeeeew to you too. I mentioned perfection cos that’s the impression I got from the conversation. He wanted the parent to Assume me as the perfect girl for their son. And I just didn’t get it as there isn’t anything as such. So while you’re twisting your mouth, be careful to think things through before and open your mind to people’s reasons and point of view. Fish head lol |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by ElsonMorali: 1:06pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by francescainnoce(f): 1:09pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
ElsonMorali: Absolutely understood. From the part of the world where I live, it’s either all or nothing. Plus these things don’t define us in general. I think the intention matters the most as supposed to the quick judgemental assertion we always dive into. There are more inhibited character that are more challenging not the piercing on my ears. I ALSO think it’s a dumb notion that decent people have one piercing, dress smart, walk upright and all cos trust me, it’s way not so |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Herrmes: 1:11pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
My parents don't have a say in who I end up with, I'm just being courteous introducing her to them, but one thing is for sure, I'll make sure they get along, I love nose rings, if she wants to wear them, excellent! |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Agwaso: 1:16pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
There are dressing for different occasion. If she is going for a job interview she will dress formally and modestly. I'm not sure she will want to were nose ring to visit her parents, if her parent is from naija. Marriage is between two people, but it is also a union of two families. If she does not have regard for his family it shows that. She does not love the man. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by ElsonMorali: 1:21pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
francescainnoce: I get your point. Location matters. If I was dating 50cents' daughter or maybe Pdiddy's daughter or maybe Snoopdog's daughter, I guess they would feel cool with me in some sagging baggy jeans, some blings hanging around my neck, rings everywhere etc and me flailing my hands like they normally do in their music videos. But the girl in question here is an African, a Nigerian for that matter and the boyfriend knows who his parents are. They are no Snoopdogs. Lol. So unless she values her ego more than the relationship I'd say she better lose the nose ring. But to be honest, as a parent, what comes to mind when you see a lady with like 4 earrings on each ear, nose ring, rings in almost all fingers, maybe even toe ring, ankle chain, top that's showing her navel, tight jeans or leggings revealing her crotch. Only one word comes to mind, SKANK. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
Well this is nigeria where appearance really matters and where our parents are very judgemental. If she wants her guy's parents to accept her she just has to remove d ring.in nigeria if u introducing a lady as a would be wife to ur parents and she has huge tattoos all over her body dat are visible and she's with a nose ring..d parents might not take well to her oo..especially if they are the very religious conservative parents. Its jus d way things are here. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Newmanluckyman(m): 1:41pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
...where is that common wisdom or number 6 my parents used to tell me? Wisdom is the main thing and when you get it, you have gotten all. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
And some people are still supporting her.. 1 Like
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Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by pizzylee(m): 2:12pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
kennygee:its been long I heard or read anything this sensible from a lady |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by wayne4loan: 2:19pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
boxypane:bro experience is the best teacher, we all have our hoe stories to tell |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by mamaafrik(m): 2:29pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
can she go church or Job interview with it |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by LaudableXX: 2:41pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
Asowari: kumbalo: NwaliE01: Viruscod3d:Nose rings and 'leg chains' (i.e. anklets) are a common part of women's dressing, among some far Northern tribes. Among Fulanis, Geras, Kanuris etc, nose ring is common. And the women who wear it are not 'oloshos'. Even the respectable married ones among them, wear it. Free your mind. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by YOUNGELDER1(m): 4:23pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
The ladies should just compromise and take off the damm nose ring. I’ve got tattoos all over both arms. But when ever I’m going to visit my fiancé I’m always on long sleeves shirt. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Organs(m): 5:51pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
tetula123: Another guy will marry her. She likes to wear nose ring, if she agrees to take it off fine if not fine as well, whatever makes anyone happy. Live and lets live. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jun 18, 2018 |
If a woman cant respect you or your decisions then that marriage is doomed to fail. |
Re: Lady Refuses To Remove Her Nose Ring As She Is Set To Meet Her Fiance's Parents by drnoel: 11:03am On Apr 16, 2022 |
tetula123: Your opinion |
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