I agree with her totally. I always advice the ladies : please don't allow any guy to cage and tight you all in the name of friendship,dating and some stupid engagement.. Please use your senses, make a small space to accommodate other serious guys. Don't snub them to avoid stories that touches the spinal cord.
Tomorrow, I will be here and you will be shouting after seven years, after 10 yrs, you chop my kpomo finish and you did this to me.. Na for your head poo.

PrimadonnaO:
Truth! It's got nothing to do with promiscuity. Seeing other people doesn't mean she's sleeping with them.

If his commitment and effort towards making the relationship work doesn't match yours, then forget it. Have some self respect and move on.

Seeing other people eh?

**clears throat**

She is making sense. Too many people are dating people who are not dating them.

okolet:
singing for her

what are they there for if not for fvcking? Is it women you want her to fvck ?

Teacher1776:
Well, she has a point though. However, dating is not entirely mechanical. Certain necessary and reasonable rituals must play its course before the guy pops up he big question. But then, the guy must have seen a level of commitment on the part of the lady.
Consequently, her post is kind of misleading, cos many shallow-minded ladies could take advantage of it to begin living promiscuous lives all in the flimsy excuse that the guy wasn't committed yet.
So a word of advice- commitment is reciprocal. No guy would want to spend the rest of his life with an aristo.
Multiple dating is counter-productive. Many ladies have lost out in the opportunity to marry a god-sent due to it.

what is your business with the sex lives of women ? Woman wrapper !

Deltayankeeboi:
These failed hoes and gold diggers after wasting their youthful years be giving relationship advice all the time like they know a thing or two about life.

After hoeing all the right men away from your life, life is now starting to fvck back at you. Menopause is coming straight for your head at the speed of light, you are withering away. No more age on your side, then you remember to come to the media to give unsolicited advice to them young and naive girls.

I pity girls that takes these twitter hoes serious. I just pity them. When two blind people lead each other, they are sure to fall into a ditch.

women must have done you something bad ? Your hatred is something else !

Pataricatering:
what is your business with the sex lives of women ? Woman wrapper !

woman wrapper? Ouch! That really hurts.
Well, can I really do without a woman? And can you really do without a man?
For the record, don't know what u meant by "woman wrapper". Didn't know though why you take this personally. Did I strike a chord in you?

Twoclans:


You are truly an expert in spotting ,I just hope you know how to spot the important things in life.

yes sure I know how to spot and get the important and best things in life my dear

folakemigeh:
She's right, that's why as a girl it's best to start a relationship when you are fully ready, that way you set out to meet guys who are ready too

You can't imagine dating in Sec school or Uni and expect the guy to propose, it happens but it's rare

I'll rather date a serious working class broda who knows his onions and how to fry them..And em em em......no sex before marriage o

Be kful with au u end ur speech. Many av lost good suitors cos of dt

Deltayankeeboi:
These failed hoes and gold diggers after wasting their youthful years be giving relationship advice all the time like they know a thing or two about life.

After hoeing all the right men away from your life, life is now starting to fvck back at you. Menopause is coming straight for your head at the speed of light, you are withering away. No more age on your side, then you remember to come to the media to give unsolicited advice to them young and naive girls.

I pity girls that takes these twitter hoes serious. I just pity them. When two blind people lead each other, they are sure to fall into a ditch.

OK. I agree. Want to get chatting with u

The best way for single women to stay ahead of men is to deny them sex, Single Women close your legs and zip up.

If you are a virgin don't start, wait till you get married.
If you are not a virgin then stop sex and wait till you get married.

I am not saying you should be an introvert but stop having prematital sex and you would be ahead of men.

Mynd44:
I agree with her though.

Until you both agree that you aredating exclusively, until you both declare that you are together, why should one person be in a relationshil and the other one acting single?

You see a lot of people these days dating people who are not dating them back. Weird but it is true. You like someone and you start keeping yourself or stop meeting other people yet youvand thatvperson are not official yet.

100% agree. Can’t tie myself for someone who is confused or complicated.

Even if he claim u as his own if he wants to cheat he will still cheat

ujampie:
Ladies always wanting to know the intention of men always. ..... Don't force people to say things they never meant. ...... Pls stop the desperate desires and be loyal to just one man.. ...

Her post is asking "what if the man is not loyal to you?" That means you're in a relationship on your own.

freedomchild:
It's like young girls of this generation's lives revolve around men.

Highly unproductive and sluttish in attitude

If it's not about their body features, it'll be about dates and relationships

It's not our fault. It's you guys that keep threatening us that if we do not marry you and settle down with you we will end up in Shiloh in our 40's. Should we stop taking you guys advice?

Daeylar:


I have to agree with this.
Engagement, marriage. Some guys are just useless.

That's why It pisses me off sometimes when people direct all these rules, regulations and tips for relationships just to women, because at the end of the day, some men are useless too and they need to learn these tips and learn how to stop being useless.



Is that so? fada lord





As much as this is evil, it also shows you the kind of ridiculous evil extremes all these babies pretending to be men can go for sex.



This part in brown, This is why I'm not a fan of team build a man. Or building with a man

everybody should be team build for myself , support each other and the kids come first ! These same men will be the ones who will make sure you don’t develop yourself - instead you take care of our children yet if the marriage doesn’t work out he will throw you out in the cold conveniently forgetting the sacrifices you made to take care of the children ! I cannot sacrifice my career for any man and be building his own by making choices that are detrimental to myself because of kids we brought into the world together !

babakb:
The best way for single women to stay ahead of men is to deny them sex, Single Women close your legs and zip up.

If you are a virgin don't start, wait till you get married.
If you are not a virgin then stop sex and wait till you get married.

I am not saying you should be an introvert but stop having prematital sex and you would be ahead of men.

I agree with you perfectly

@topic , those kind of guys were called canopy or umbrella guys they don't have anything serious to do oo they wil just be around you and blocking potential husband's. It's left for the lady to snatch herself free.

Ladies don't any guy 'crowd' you abeg

I just wonder why people are talking about sex in the comments she didn't say anything about sex did she?

Can't you all just date without Sex, once the word date is mentioned the next thing I see people posting I about sex Maybe my own understanding of a date is flawed sha.

Teacher1776:

woman wrapper? Ouch! That really hurts.
Well, can I really do without a woman? And can you really do without a man?
For the record, don't know what u meant by "woman wrapper". Didn't know though why you take this personally. Did I strike a chord in you?

I just dislike woman wrapper attitude , that’s all ! I really don’t understand what the problem is with men who will not face other men and give them advise but will die on top woman matters ! Women’s promiscuity or lack of it shouldn’t be any of a man’s business ! If a woman wants to keep her hymen till she gets married - it’s her business not any man’s on the other hand if she wants to have a very active sex life - it’s still not any man’s business but hers ! She didn’t borrow any ones genitals to have sex , did she ! Lastly I hate hypocrites- which most men are ! You tell women that they can’t have sex while you guys can ! I’m quite happy women just generally ignore your rubbish and love their lives nowadays! God gave everybody Instruments and the ability to enjoy sex for a reason !

Pataricatering:
what are they there for if not for fvcking? Is it women you want her to fvck ?

Hehehe...sure you are really a female ni?

Speakdatruth:

It's disturbing but it's happening out there. I tell sisters around me. Until he is making serious plans or puts you in his house officially don't put your dating life on hold.

Some guys can be wicked, why would you put a ring on a lady to pin her down and keep her away from potential husbands. Imagine giving a girl a ring for 3,4,5,6,7 years and more with no visible plans. I want to believe that any man that gives out a ring to a woman should be ready to make her a wife almost immediately. I just see a lot of dummy girls out there forming engaged and some claiming serious relationship. I'm a guy and it's evil to do.

A guy on NL saying this? Wow!! I hardly see guys here defending women and not being bias with issues concerning women.

Nice!!!

Mynd44:
I agree with her though.

Until you both agree that you aredating exclusively, until you both declare that you are together, why should one person be in a relationshil and the other one acting single?

You see a lot of people these days dating people who are not dating them back. Weird but it is true. You like someone and you start keeping yourself or stop meeting other people yet youvand thatvperson are not official yet.

solid point

I

Daeylar:


I have to agree with this.
Engagement, marriage. Some guys are just useless.

That's why It pisses me off sometimes when people direct all these rules, regulations and tips for relationships just to women, because at the end of the day, some men are useless too and they need to learn these tips and learn how to stop being useless.



Is that so? fada lord





As much as this is evil, it also shows you the kind of ridiculous evil extremes all these babies pretending to be men can go for sex.



This part in brown, This is why I'm not a fan of team build a man. Or building with a man

my dear I don't know why you're taking this personal. I have to tell you that every Yoruba demon you see is a heartbroken good guy who has chosen to exert revenge on anything that wears skirt. Sadly sometimes, good girls get in the cross fire

U can't say it better. It seems ladies fall victims d more sha. I often tell ladies online & offline that any guy u are dating or engaged to & his Fb status still reflect "single " status, he's just any friend.

Till I meet a girl who's ready to update her rlshp platforms on all online front: "...in a rlshp to eniorisha..." & I update mine likewise; I'm still single.

zicoraads:

Seeing other people eh?

**clears throat**

Lol. Literally. Not in the sense of dating them.

Speakdatruth:
Well, I don't usually do this but I absolutely agree with this lady.

Some girls be like I'm dating someone, we're serious and dude hasn't made his intentions clear neither has he proposed. So you put your life on hold in the name of dating someone that is not dating you in mind. B.S! Until he engages you, you're free like a bird. Even some engagement ring this days are intended for regular fvcking and house wife duties. Use your head.

Oh my God! This is a new one.
Na wah o. Will the deceit ever stop?

Seahawk:
She’s right.

Some guys won’t want to make their intentions clear so that they can run away at their convenience and say they never made any promises to you. At the same time they want to hinder you from being with other men.

Oh please. (Insert big eye roll)

Destiny blockers

Lol... what about those that promise Heaven and earth and still run away at their convenience when they are done or when they feel they are not gonna get into your pants?

Seahawk:


That’s not even a lie.

I’ve met a ‘responsible’ older guy who told me they used to do this when he was younger. Him and his friends would take turns escorting each other to girls’ families for marriage introduction. The girls would think they are serious and commit to them. But it was all just for sex on the guys’ parts

Filthy garbage

Even if you are sex starved & have loose morals, must you string an innocent lady (perhaps) along?

kelvic1:
You are absolutely right. There are chances of meeting guys who are ready when a lady is ready.

What i find it difficult to understand is a guy proposing to a lady when he is not ready. I term as 'wicked', a guy who knows he is not ready to settle down in the next 2,3,4 years etc proposing to a lady

They want to make sure you are locked down. That way, you are focused only on them meanwhile, they are now more free to misbehave cos they feel they have got you.
You shouldn't pop the question if you aren't ready to wife her in at least 6 months or even less.

NoToPile:



I agree with you perfectly

@topic , those kind of guys were called canopy or umbrella guys they don't have anything serious to do oo they wil just be around you and blocking potential husband's. It's left for the lady to snatch herself free.

Ladies don't any guy 'crowd' you abeg

I just wonder why people are talking about sex in the comments she didn't say anything about sex did she?

Can't you all just date without Sex, once the word date is mentioned the next thing I see people posting I about sex Maybe my own understanding of a date is flawed sha.

O di egwu! You are talking about dating. Lol.
85% or more of guys these days can't have meaningful conversation/chat with a guy without sex in it. Remove sex or stopping talking about it with them and watch the fake friendship dissipate.
It's getting worrisome. Mtchewwwwwwww!

MissJoy29:

Oh my God! This is a new one.
Na wah o. Will the deceit ever stop?

You didn't read that from me *hands up*

Speakdatruth:

You didn't read that from me *hands up*

Lol...too late

MissJoy29:

Lol...too late

Lol. Let me undo it