ladiesreject:


[s] If this same guy comes back here to complain of his wife's disrespectful attitude (assuming he marries her), you'll still be the first person to slander him by asking him if he didn't see all those traits before marrying her.
I wonder how una de talk sometimes.

The general belief in 9ja is that what you see during courtship is what you'll see during marriage.

So if he can't control her now, how sure are you that she can be controlled in marriage? [/s]

Adegbenro7643:
My fiancee got me annoyed yesterday & I think I have spit more than enough venomous words before realizing it was too much. I hardly stay on Facebook nowadays unless my attention is needed while I spend my leisure on Nairaland. I call her & we do chat on WhatsApp. But my fiancee is so obsessed with Facebook that she would leave me on Whatsapp & stay glued to Fbk, knowing fully that I stay online so we can be together since we're distant. The most funny part is that, most times, she would later join me on Whatsapp & be telling me she won't be able to chat for long as her battery is getting low(20%, 15%......). "Ha, my battery is almost flat o & you may want to call me later or the following morning o", she would say till I ask her to go offline. Having satisfied facebooking. She would not even bother to check if I am online on Fbk & sometimes reply after several mins. Well, I think I've had enough of her selfish habits. So, I told her to ensure whatever that deserves her best time is really worth it & appreciative, as I may call our relationship off any moment. That she should start making a good plan for herself nowy, as I am getting wiser and my eyes are getting clearer every day. I have no time and energy to waste any longer. But considering her lifestyle during our ND-days back then, she was never promiscuous & I was never harassed because of her. She maintained her dignity.
Well, after reading all my heartfelt stories, the only response she gave was "I will come around next week so that I can return your phone, thanks so far". It was then I realized I have said too much,,,,Lol,,,though I have not given any response to that. Please fellow NLers, what do I do now? I need an advice that will make me & not break. Thanks

Adegbenro7643:
My fiancee got me annoyed yesterday & I think I have spit more than enough venomous words before realizing it was too much. I hardly stay on Facebook nowadays unless my attention is needed while I spend my leisure on Nairaland. I call her & we do chat on WhatsApp. But my fiancee is so obsessed with Facebook that she would leave me on Whatsapp & stay glued to Fbk, knowing fully that I stay online so we can be together since we're distant. The most funny part is that, most times, she would later join me on Whatsapp & be telling me she won't be able to chat for long as her battery is getting low(20%, 15%......). "Ha, my battery is almost flat o & you may want to call me later or the following morning o", she would say till I ask her to go offline. Having satisfied facebooking. She would not even bother to check if I am online on Fbk & sometimes reply after several mins. Well, I think I've had enough of her selfish habits. So, I told her to ensure whatever that deserves her best time is really worth it & appreciative, as I may call our relationship off any moment. That she should start making a good plan for herself nowy, as I am getting wiser and my eyes are getting clearer every day. I have no time and energy to waste any longer. But considering her lifestyle during our ND-days back then, she was never promiscuous & I was never harassed because of her. She maintained her dignity.
Well, after reading all my heartfelt stories, the only response she gave was "I will come around next week so that I can return your phone, thanks so far". It was then I realized I have said too much,,,,Lol,,,though I have not given any response to that. Please fellow NLers, what do I do now? I need an advice that will make me & not break. Thanks

highqueen:
she has a better person she's chatting on fb.

MariaLavina:


When your value lies in phone ! That's all you mean to her and she's returning it.

MariaLavina:
shhhhhhh! . Don't out a Sis

Adegbenro7643:
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Craziestgirl:
Tell her that you planned to make her very, very angry and everything you said or did was planned.
It was all a Test of her devotion and love.
Tell her she passed, and you love and appreciate her the more!

And you better go and find out the price of engagement rings.

IamD18:
>Is she your wife? No, That means you fully don't own her, you don't even have the right to question her whereabouts on social media. Pay her bride price and take control, If you can't, to hell with your complaints.

Craziestgirl:
Tell her that you planned to make her very, very angry and everything you said or did was planned.
It was all a Test of her devotion and love.
Tell her she passed, and you love and appreciate her the more!

And you better go and find out the price of engagement rings.

QueenSuccubus:



Men and their drama sha.. If she will go to ur place and return the phone, juz accept it and accept ur lose as well.. Some women hate BS in a relationship, that's why some of us don't even give a fvck about it..

#MyLoveDontCostAThing

MariaLavina:
shhhhhhh! . Don't out a Sis

MrCork:




...is she lightskin? .