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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Acepen(m): 8:09am On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
i never met a girl who gave her virginity to an introvert or a young girl in her prime freshness years who dated an introvert
most introverts always run with 30something living fossils.
As An Introvert I Play It Cool I Ve Don Some Pretty Bad Things.
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Saff(f): 8:12am On Jun 27, 2018
Biglittlelois:
i am an introvert, imagine having a man like me, i will def be bored to death
same. I like guys that are a bit crazy grin to balance me off lol. My longest relationship was with a guy that’s a nutcase lol but it worked because I’m so laid back. Opposites attract.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 8:29am On Jun 27, 2018
Am an introvert by nature,but am deadly and a green snake in a green grass.If i tell you today that my parents still look at me like a virgin and a saint you will be surprised;while i have multiplte sex partners and do all sort of promiscous things.Introverts dont make noise they are always sneaky,and smart but you may think they cant hurt a fly,but they will hurt you a thousand times and you wont ever know.And you hardly fool an intovert,they detect things very fast.Thats why when any of my girls start the slightest misbehaviour i dump them fast.And we introverts dont like drama,and anything that will disturb our peace of mind;when we find out you are that kind of girl we drop you like its hot.Op and i dont believe your assertion that introvert tend to stay longer in a relationship.As for me the longest i have dated a girl in my lifetime is 3 months.Long term relationships aint for us because we are most times aloof and dont seem care.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Tallesty1(m): 9:00am On Jun 27, 2018
These people don't know how deadly we are. See, introverts date the best babes but you won't know because we don't talk about it. We are green snakes in green grass and to be honest, "stealing" the girlfriends of our friends who are extroverts is quite easy and they will never know because they will never suspect. We use the virus method which works in many women. Just crawl slowly into their lives and the next question is how the hell did we get here.

You think being an introvert is same as being shy?. No, shy people are different from introverts. We have shy extroverts too but the worst of them all are the shy introverts. Shy introverts are like the retirement home for tired women.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 9:04am On Jun 27, 2018
Acepen:
As An Introvert I Play It Cool I Ve Don Some Pretty Bad Things.
i have a feeling some guys dont exactly know what an introvert is
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 9:14am On Jun 27, 2018
OP u forgot to add... they are the biggest patronizers of vaseline ;DOP u forgot to add... they are the biggest patronizers of vaseline
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 9:20am On Jun 27, 2018
Wikipedia has this to say about Extraverts/Introverts:

[b] Researchers have found a correlation between extraversion and self-reported happiness. That is, more extraverted people tend to report higher levels of happiness than introverts.Other research has shown that being instructed to act in an extraverted manner leads to increases in positive affect, even for people who are trait-level introverts.
This does not mean that introverts are unhappy. Extraverts simply report experiencing more positive emotions, whereas introverts tend to be closer to neutral. This may be because extraversion is socially preferable in contemporary Western culture and thus introverts feel less desirable. In addition to the research on happiness, other studies have found that extraverts tend to report higher levels of self-esteem than introverts. Others suggest that such results reflect socio-cultural bias in the survey itself. Dr. David Meyers has claimed that happiness is a matter of possessing three traits: self-esteem, optimism, and extraversion. Meyers bases his conclusions on studies that report extraverts to be happier; these findings have been questioned in light of the fact that the "happiness" prompts given to the studies' subjects, such as "I like to be with others" and "I'm fun to be with," only measure happiness among extraverts. Also, according to Carl Jung, introverts acknowledge more readily their psychological needs and problems, whereas extraverts tend to be oblivious to them because they focus more on the outer world.
Although extraversion is perceived as socially desirable in Western culture, it is not always an advantage. For example, extraverted youths are more likely to engage in antisocial or delinquent behavior. In line with this, emerging evidence suggest that the trait of extraversion may also be related to that of psychopathy. Conversely, while introversion is perceived as less socially desirable, it is strongly associated with positive traits such as intelligence and "giftedness." For many years, researchers have found that introverts tend to be more successful in academic environments, which extraverts may find boring.
Research shows that behavioral immune system, the psychological processes that infer infection risk from perceptual cues and respond to these perceptual cues through the activation of aversive emotions, may influence gregariousness. Although extraversion is associated with many positive outcomes like higher levels of happiness, those extraverted people are also likely to be exposed to interpersonally transmitted infectious disease as they tend to contact more people. When individuals are more vulnerable to infection, the cost of being social will be relatively greater. Therefore, people are less extraversive when they feel vulnerable and vice versa.
Although neither introversion nor extraversion is pathological, psychotherapists can take temperament into account when treating clients. Clients may respond better to different types of treatment depending on where they fall on the introversion-extraversion spectrum. Teachers can also consider temperament when dealing with their pupils, for example acknowledging that introverted children need more encouragement to speak in class while extraverted children may grow restless during long periods of quiet study. [/b]
being an introvert really aint good
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nickymezor(f): 9:47am On Jun 27, 2018
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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 10:35am On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:

true. and only women in their 30s (usually single mothers) appreciate this type of man. when women are younger and fresher they have the worst choice in men.
my best friend in school is an introvert but he always get the new girl around .
some introvert are bad, young naive girls are mostly likely to trust them for help and they do take advantage of that
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 10:43am On Jun 27, 2018
Mklancee:

my best friend in school is an introvert but he always get the new girl around .
some introvert are bad, young naive girls are mostly likely to trust them for help and they do take advantage of that
in your view what really is an introvert?
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 10:55am On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
in your view what really is an introvert?
someone who tend to hide from social contact ,he is occupied with his own thoughts so he spent most of his time dreaming, like being alone not because he want but because he don't seem to fit in
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by foyeks2001(f): 10:56am On Jun 27, 2018
So true. Hubby is an introvert. He's the best hubby in the world. They are very homely; mostly domesticated. Sad thing abt them is that, they are just too emotional. Any lil misunderstanding, hubby will term it to another thing, but in all they are good husbands.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:08am On Jun 27, 2018
Mklancee:

someone who tend to hide from social contact , he is occupied with his own thoughts so he spent most of his time dreaming, like being alone not because he want but because he don't seem to fit in
you just described a Bad Boy.
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 11:16am On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:

you just described a Bad Boy.
a bad boy will always do what it takes to fit in, he doesn't have time for dreaming and wishing.
he always go for it when he want

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Erums(m): 11:17am On Jun 27, 2018
My recent ex said... I have never been with a guy who doesn't go out... Always at home... I asked all the ones uve been with that go out, where dem dey.. Abegg swerve

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:18am On Jun 27, 2018
foyeks2001:
So true. Hubby is an introvert. He's the best hubby in the world. They are very homely; mostly domesticated. Sad thing abt them is that, they are just too emotional. Any lil misunderstanding, hubby will term it to another thing, but in all they are good husbands.
i changed my character the day a girl told me i will make a good husband. thats an insult.
when a woman says to you "you are husband/father material" she's really telling you "after im done making mistakes dating the wrong men and my body has gone to shìt, you're the type of man who can save me and make an honest woman out of me". guys who are "mistakes" are the one who really enjoy women.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 11:20am On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:

you just described a Bad Boy.
while some introvert may be very stupid not all are naive. some introvert are wiser than snake they are not just outspoken.
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:20am On Jun 27, 2018
Mklancee:

a bad boy will always do what it takes to fit in, he doesn't have time for dreaming and wishing.
he always go for it when he want
no. thats what Nice Guys do. people like MartinO who wanna be popular with women. always buddie buddie with everyone.
you guys really dont get this shìt.
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 11:25am On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:

you just described a Bad Boy.
there are many stupid extroverts who see women as gods that should be worshipped.
worshipping women is not only an introvert thing.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:28am On Jun 27, 2018
Mklancee:

while some introvert may be very stupid not all are naive. some introvert are wiser than snake they are not just outspoken.
all over this thread people seem to think: outspoken = extravert, quiet = introvert. thats not really it.

for what introverts are like watch The Big Bang Theory and see Sheldon and that other guy dating the next door flat girl (i forget his name). those are classic introverts. they may get one or two girls here and there but their numbers come nowhere near to the numbers extraverts like Dean Winchester of Supernatural achieve.
Introverts are buried treasure and any girl who gets one is lucky, but most girls really dont go "searching" for men. they wait for men to come to them.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by pointblank247(m): 11:42am On Jun 27, 2018
I am very introverted and loving it. I tried loving extroverted ladies but all I get was noise when i am deep in thoughts,
HEY, any introverted lady here should hala me with the number at the signature
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by pointblank247(m): 11:45am On Jun 27, 2018
Biglittlelois:
i am an introvert, imagine having a man like me, i will def be bored to death
sorry but you are not introverted,

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by youngking22(m): 12:52pm On Jun 27, 2018
Me been an introvert is not easy, i have been labeled gay , cat , black devil and many names for being an introvert.
But one thing stands out as an introvert we are unique set of people.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
Women fvck extroverts but marry introverts.
extroverts are given the virginity while introverts get the leftovers. why? extroverts can fvck and introverts dont cheat.

Lol the Red Pill is strong with you I will say it depends, but you are mostly right though, during my teen years had many girls , regardless of being an Introvert or extrovert , the main key is self confidence am sure most girls won't want someone who talks too much either. But yeah most introverts to me I usually considered them beta , but there are the alpha introverts though

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jun 27, 2018
Samsonyte:
when i was still a kid, i'm an introvert, now that ave grown up "i'm both" , i can blend in to any situation, any associate of people (intro or extro), i can blend depending on the kind people around me at that particular time.

We are called '' Ambivert '' We possess the attributes of Introvert and Extrovert.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MENTORCH(m): 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:

true. and only women in their 30s (usually single mothers) appreciate this type of man. when women are younger and fresher they have the worst choice in men.

Yes because extroverts have bleeped them extensively at their younger age.

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Yoshy: 3:25pm On Jun 27, 2018
Espada10:


The bolded..So true

Tested and trusted.

Alot of girls have been disvirgined this way..
LOL

If you MUST deflower her, you MUST marry her o
Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 3:26pm On Jun 27, 2018
Yoshy:
All you need is a little dose of cutiness, when everyone are making noise and talking, be the calm guy that listens...watch the girls fall..."ehhm he is so quite, I like him" "He is so reserved, he doesn't talk too much" etc


All these means, I can fuvk him and nobody will hear about it. grin

University days.

PS: I was and still a good boy.
you guys are mistaking the "strong silent type" of man for an introvert. all your descriptions of introvert amount to "im quiet". Bad boys are quiet. you can not call Dean Winchester of Supernatural Loud but he's a bad boy and he's an extravert. he's also quiet. you guys make me laugh

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by MISEDUCATIONS: 3:28pm On Jun 27, 2018
Espada10:
I dont why alot of people underestimate introverts...

There is a big difference between introverts and beta males.

They are not the same


A woman can manipulate weak beta males to stupor but not introverts.

Introverts will give you that feeling that you are the one in charge but you are not.


Introverts are not stupid or push overs...those guys one of the most dangerous people you can jam..they can read you immediately just by watching you...they can predict your movement and behaviour just by having a few sentences with you and will still pretend they noticed nothing until when they want to activate it.


name one TV character you consider an introvert

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Re: Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted With Introvert Guys by Yoshy: 3:36pm On Jun 27, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
you guys are mistaking the "strong silent type" of man for an introvert. all your descriptions of introvert amount to "im quiet". Bad boys are quiet. you can not call Dean Winchester of Supernatural Loud but he's a bad boy and he's an extravert. he's also quiet. you guys make me laugh
Mr. The most noticeable characteristic of an introvert is being quiet (at least that's where people start judging from) however, anyone can pretend to be a quiet and calm person at any point. My point is, even an extrovert can pretend to be quiet in a place he isn't known to get some girls(naive girls) attention so far he is cute a little.

I'm not sure why you quoted me cos your argument is out of the line from what I meant.

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