cutieme:
Fall in real love and you wouldn't say all that.Say no to feminism.

majekdom2:
because in your thought, you perhaps wanted to get married to depend on a man! If that wasn't your thought, you will see the benefits of marriage beyond dependency on your partner. The dependency mindset is a parasitic one.. a parasitic relationship does not last.. at all. Do you have any purpose in life? Do you think marriage will help achieve it? The answers to those questions should let you decide if you should marry or not.

divinelove:


No one cares u can stay unmarried forever after all husbands seem to be scarce lately

LivingFree:
This confusing! It's like me stuffing my face with cake while telling you it can lead to diabetes

Bitch_ we know, now pass me a slice, I will eat it moderately

lexy2014:
d person that is giving u advice is married with a kid

BchristopherJ:


more like you've never caused anyone pain, you've never truncated your commitment to anyone, you've never victimise anyone just cuz of your own happiness. people with bossy behavior are usually toxic for any union. and not just marriage, it's every union.

troubleseller:
Don't be petty. There are many things a husband does for his wife. That was just a tongue in cheek comment. Get married and you'll be surprised what you want your husband to do for you.

Funnyguy83:
make sure you don't get married.

kayzay4all:


so you mean you'll be subjected to all these things you just highlighted. well, marriage isn't compulsion but if you won't marry, then don't fornicate or any other related offence. God won't be happy 'coz He gave u d freedom to marry nd satisfy ur sexual urge legally

NairaMaster1:


So you can Bleep all dick. There's no peace either. You get thrown away by boy friends and jump from john to James. You're also going to have children with different fathers. Such children have uncommon orientation and culture. There're more blissful marriages.

We have them good, Including your mother, such a wonderful woman.

Wise up. This lady is looking outside marriage.

CAPSLOCKED:



THIS IS OKAY FOR YOU TO SAY, AS A TEENAGER.

WHEN YOU'RE OLDER YOU'LL LEARN TO SEE LIFE DIFFERENTLY.


"THANKS".

Famousqueen:

i am not a feminism, just tired of relationships give me headache

johnydon22:


And as a matter of objectivity, marriage is far more beneficial to women than it is to men.

Men don't often complain about things, Women on the other hand often complain about everything

majekdom2:
you already have the bad mindset, so it won't be easy for you until you start to see things differently. Humans are the difficult people to deal with I agree but understanding one's purpose in life is key. If you have a purpose, find someone who complements that purpose. You won't feel restricted. Unfortunately, many don't have a purpose,so they feel restricted when they are being scolded or guided!

cutieme:
That one relationship didn't work out doesn't mean another wouldn't do.Just be hopeful and optimistic dear.Anyways drop me your email address let's talk better in de oza rum.

donstan18:
The lady that asked that question is an evening newspaper looking for a way to console herself.

-No matter how a Nigerian lady claim not to want to be called a wife on social media, she'll still log out and face reality.

-Comments and posts like this are often made by married women who are loyal, submissive to their husbands in reality and benefiting from marriage. But the dump and single ones will be quick to embrace it.

-It's funny how a married woman made such statements, but if she's to be asked to lead by example by leaving her marriage to get the same benefit as a single lady, she won't do it.

-If marriage is to be abolished in Nigeria, Nigerian ladies will die of hunger and poverty because an average Nigerian lady is poor, looking for a man to depend on which is their major reason for marriage(To alleviate from poverty)

Funny thing is; That lady might be holding fried chicken or turkey with chilled wine, wearing sexy dress and crossing her legs in her husband's parlor enjoying, while the foolish and single frustrated ones be consoling their lonely and unmarried state with her posts.

Famousqueen:
she just said my mind, the only thing i want in life, is mental peace, happiness, and enjoy my life without anyone restricting me why get married when i will be subjected to pains, commitments, emotional trauma, e.t.c

Famousqueen:

funny, i believe marriage is a God thing, plus i don't believe that every woman will get married, instead of dating every tom and dick all because we want to get married, at the end of the day we end up being alone, or better still "used" like the way some guys will put it, i think is better not to go through such trauma, look for what will make you happy and what will give you cash, then enjoy your life to the fullest, travel to any part of the world without restrictions, without you thinking you need to make breakfast for someone or that you need to be home by 6 pm

Famousqueen:

nature has not been fair to me when it comes to relationship, always falling for the wrong or the same genotype which is As, so to me relationship sucks, and if relationship can be so annoying, then marriage will be worse

delugajackson:
Did she just say that marriage is of no benefit to Nigerian women? Entirely ironic!

A typical Nigerian woman enjoys 101 percent benefit in marriage. Go to some families you will find out that the man is maggi, onion and pepper in the house. The man is paying the rent, the man is paying the children's fees and then still spends on her. Virtually everything is taken care of by the man while all she does is give birth to children by the minute. Worst case, she chats with her friends all day on Facebook and everyother social network. Whoever says Marriage doesn't favor women must be living in utopia and is ignorant of certain realities.

bukatyne:


First, you assume my martial status.

Second, I see no reason why I should take your comment to be tongue in cheek.

You stated it as a something she would miss out if she didn't marry.

A man doesn't need the marriage certificate to do anything for you.

johnydon22:


And as a matter of objectivity, marriage is far more beneficial to women than it is to men. (This is statistically backed with peered reviewed information and studies)

And marriage is far more disadvantageous to men than it is to women.

The problem is: Men don't often complain about things, Women on the other hand often complain about everything

Lalas247:

Lol my lips are sealed ...
Morning handsome

Biglittlelois:
I think the society we are in especially Nigeria affects mind set alot, not every woman wants to GET married, not every woman wants to STAY married, some just wants to taste and leave, people do what society wants so that they wont be tagged different names, personally i'm indifferent about marriage, only advantage is to have a stable and safe fvck mate, have kids legally et al.

pocohantas:


She is actually right on that, but telling ladies not to get married is kinda hypocritical coming from her...A MARRIED WOMAN. There are men who are progressives, who want a wife for all the right reasons, they are my desire. I can't come and kill myself.

I agree with your submission .

So,what are you delivering SPECIALLY @ signature?

majekdom2:
because in your thought, you perhaps wanted to get married to depend on a man! If that wasn't your thought, you will see the benefits of marriage beyond dependency on your partner. The dependency mindset is a parasitic one.. a parasitic relationship does not last.. at all. Do you have any purpose in life? Do you think marriage will help achieve it? The answers to those questions should let you decide if you should marry or not.

PrimadonnaO:



@bolded. No. Rather, it makes you look beyond financial standing in the choice of a partner.