I have been pretty occupied with some things,, taking my mind and time off nairaland for the past few days,, I logged back in yesterday, felt nothing like observing and following topics,, replied mentions and left...

Logged back in earlier today and it was still the same feeling,, logged out and decided to log in tonight, only to be aroused with the same dull and uninteresting feeling....

I kept asking myself,, why isn't this app fun to you anymore?? I came to understand some things I wish to share with y'll,, more like airing my thoughts and pouring out my mind.

What is the meaning of Romance Section?

Why was this section created?

Why is it called a section in an application on social media??

Today, I came to realize that shiit has been going on here for quite a while and it ain't helping matters....We are all here to learn and most importantly CATCH FUN...But, on this section you find pompous fellows,, specifically the females....I'm directing my observed negativity to the females because I am male...

They justify their pomposity and impertinence herein with, "These are small boys with childish mentality.." and when the big boys click your way, you still ignorantly ignore.......With such thoughts how do we learn?

I have witnessed enough senselessness from majority of those self-claimed "BIG GIRLS"[Nicks withheld] on this section and laugh away with it...

You find it more fun when you interact gloriously with the opposite sex, we should all climb down in humility,, see ourselves as one,, open up when need be and retain the glory or expected glory of this section.....

Hmmm! I was hoping to read something worthwhile only to read on the lamentation of a guy who female monikers aren't giving attention.

Benita27:
Hmmm! I was hoping to read something worthwhile only to read on the lamentations of a guy who female monikers aren't giving attention.

Laughs

Benita27:
Hmmm! I was hoping to read something worthwhile only to read on the lamentations of a guy who female monikers aren't giving attention.

My halle berry that year that didn't give me face..

He's right to an extent tho.

Alariiwo:


My halle berry that year that didn't give me face..

He's right to an extent tho.

That I didn't give you face doesn't mean I didn't give some other guy face. I must have had my reasons.

How're you?

Benita27:
That I didn't give you face doesn't mean I didn't give some other guy face. I must have had my reasons.

How're you?

I'm good dear and I'm sure you are too..

And for the face thingy, we win some and lose some.. doesn't mean I won't keep making attempts lol

You laughed away with it but came back with a thread about it. Self deception is the worst mental illness to suffer from... You keep believing only what you want.

Anyway, To your complaint. I think the fault is from Guys on here. All thanks to their insensitive, thoughtless, childish, insulting comments here Ladies have decided to keep their circles smaller. Don't come here to cry wolf. If You are so pained, get a female account and act like one.

"If the desired is unavailable, Create it! "

Alariiwo:


I'm good dear and I'm sure you are too..

And for the face thingy, we win some and lose some.. doesn't mean I won't keep making attempts lol

That's Maturity! It isn't common among some of the guys on this section. I'm good, BTW. Have a good night rest.

These are small boys with childish mentality.." and when the big boys click your way, you still ignorantly ignore

Any evidence?

MariaLavina:
You laughed away with it but came back with a thread about it. Self deception is the worst mental illness to suffer from... You keep believing only what you want.

Self deception?....Your reasoning here is quite off,, that was a laugh I had a long time ago....I initiated this thread after thinking I just had to drop what I observed.

MariaLavina:

Anyway, To your complaint. I think the fault is from Guys on here. All thanks to their insensitive, thoughtless, childish, insulting comments here Ladies have decided to keep their circles smaller. Don't come here to cry wolf. If You are so pained, get a female account and act like one.

"If the desired is unavailable, Create it! "

Thank you for your contribution

pocohantas:


Any evidence?

If you ain't among the affected,, then the thread is not for you...There is no need asking me for evidence.

Benita27:
Hmmm! I was hoping to read something worthwhile only to read on the lamentation of a guy who female monikers aren't giving attention.

That's cold....

austyn0:
If you ain't among the affected,, then the thread is not for you...There is no need asking me for evidence.

Then you ain't ready to talk. You didn't mention names, you still won't elucidate on your post. Just defensive and argumentative. What is the difference between you and the culprits? Ahbeeg

I endorse this thread wholeheartedly, you spoke my mind, there don't even like to reply PMs

DonPiiko:
I endorse this thread wholeheartedly, you spoke my mind, there don't even like to reply PMs

Do they owe you a duty to reply PMs?
I saw one poster telling you how he has fcked 3NL girls and about to fck the 4th. You found it funny. That is how loudmouthed lots of you are. Yet you expect ladies to reply PMs. Naso!

It makes a lot of sense to interact even offline, I have only met one female nairalander offline, I don't kiss and tell.

pocohantas:


Do they owe you a duty to reply PMs?
I saw one poster telling you how he has fcked 3NL girls and about to fck the 4th. You found it funny. That is how loudmouthed lots of you are. Yet you expect ladies to reply PMs. Naso!

Until the word "Feminism" Leaves this section.

There won't be peace or romance.

donstan18:
Until the word "Feminism" Leaves this section.


There won't be peace or romance.

Does your life revolve around this section/NL?

pocohantas:

Does your life revolve around this section/NL?

Rephrase and re-ask with reasons.

donstan18:


Rephrase and re-ask with reasons.

"Until the word "Feminism" Leaves this section.
There won't be peace or romance."

I take it that you are one of the alpha males trying to rid this section of feminism. So, I ask again. Does you life revolve around this section?

pocohantas:


"Until the word "Feminism" Leaves this section.
There won't be peace or romance."

I take it that you are one of the alpha males trying to rid this section of feminism. So, I ask again. Does you life revolve around this section?

Don't call me "Alpha male" again while addressing me, I don't buy it.

To your take; I'm not trying to get rid of any section.

To your question; My life don't revolve around anything in life.

Why concerned about my life revolving on this section because I mentioned "Feminism"? Are you one?

honestly bra, nl or perhaps jurt romance section is now as boring as fucck


and i blame it on


1) the "pompous self acclaimed queen" girls you talked about.


2) the few kiss and tell guys on here


3) the dumb idiots who make everything a gender war................................they are disillusioned and see everything as a case of man vs woman ish


4) stupid half baked so called e-feminist


5) dumb alpha male crew



when ladies dont interact with guys and vice versa on a supposed romance section why call it a romance section then?


those people saying people (the guys) would insult them, lemme ask you a puestion;
"what has and will the insults do to you?"


though not faceless in the entire sense of the word, this is still a faceless forum!!!



[be] [les]

donstan18:


Don't call me "Alpha male" again while addressing me, I don't buy it.

To your take; I'm not trying to get rid of any section.

To your question; My life don't revolve around anything in life.

Why concerned about my life revolving on this section because I mentioned "Feminism"? Are you one?

Logout and face reality. Have a nice day.

pocohantas:


Then you ain't ready to talk. You didn't mention names, you still won't elucidate on your post. Just defensive and argumentative. What is the difference between you and the culprits? Ahbeeg

On a very serious note dear,, I created this thread just for people to read and excogitate...I'm not obliged to elucidate on anything, and I am too busy for that...Just read and meditate, if you can only do the former, just pass after that please.

DonPiiko:
I endorse this thread wholeheartedly, you spoke my mind, there don't even like to reply PMs

Laughs...If they don't reply PMs,, just smile and pass.

donstan18:
Until the word "Feminism" Leaves this section.


There won't be peace or romance.

The reason this section was created is no longer the reason we here...Nobody is against them femininizing their lives,, only if we could at least learn a thing or two is enough happiness..

samysmoothfresh:
honestly bra, nl or perhaps jurt romance section is now as boring as fucck


and i blame it on


1) the "pompous self acclaimed queen" girls you talked about.


2) the few kiss and tell guys on here


3) the dumb idiots who make everything a gender war................................they are disillusioned and see everything as a case of man vs woman ish


4) stupid half baked so called e-feminist


5) dumb alpha male crew



when ladies dont interact with guys and vice versa on a supposed romance section why call it a romance section then?


those people saying people (the guys) would insult them, lemme ask you a puestion;
"what has and will the insults do to you?"


though not faceless in the entire sense of the word, this is still a faceless forum!!!



[be] [les]

Broh,, the thing weak me.

austyn0:
On a very serious note dear,, I created this thread just for people to read and excogitate...I'm not obliged to elucidate on anything, and I am too busy for that...Just read and meditate, if you can only do the former, just pass after that please.

Naso

Sweet girls await us offline

austyn0:
Laughs...If they don't reply PMs,, just smile and pass.

...


Lamentations Chapter 1v3...




You Cant Be Friends With Every Girl. Accept Rejection And Move On... I Have Female Friends As Well Females Who Made Theirselves my Enemies

What a thread!

Would you like your sister to interact romantically here?

So one day one of the boykids who has a grudge will reveal private messages, expose her monicker and say rotten things about her just cos the relationship isn't going smoothly again?

Why would they answer PMs when most of the guys sending it act like dogs on heat:

Boy: Hi

Girl: Hi

Boy sends pic of his dick.

Girl: wtf

Boy: do you like it

Girl blocks him

Boy: bitch you're pompous/stuck up/snob

Most guys on this section a act like kids so why would the girls not maintain thier lane?

You know how many ladies have deactivated or changed thier monickers cos they couldn't stand the disgrace of insults from guys that kissed and later told everyone? Why would any sane girl want to be the next victim?

Until the guys learn to act like gentlemen and stop using vulgar language like calling all girls b!tches and hoes, the girls will continue to ignore the guys. Its basic survival instinct.

DonPiiko:
Sweet girls await us offline

I sensed the reasoning of some girls on this thread through their comments, especially the first to comment and found them really funny....

They think some of us come over to nairaland to seek chats,, whereas there are easier apps for chats....Very daft of what this app nairaland was created for.