And how is a guy cheap when he sleeps with his gf?!
If she says NO, what more can he do?!, any further acts will lead to rape. Simple.
if she says YES, does that mean the guy is cheap?
Please, i think this question is misdirected. Also being a virgin is a personal choice and it doesnt change who you really are.

@IgboGirl,

you do well, give glory to GOD. you said that "therefore having a sex affair outside marriage is like a type of stealing." Rather, having "a sex affair outside marriage" is either adultery and/or fornication, which is sin which comes with consequences. Not standing in personal judgment of anyone, GOD forbid, just stating what GOD says, and thus the truth.

“Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” - Hebrews 13:4

"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God." - 1 Cor 6:9-10

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